Sticking Together Until We All Get BFP's!!!!

[aidensmommy1]

Hi Ladies! I am going to do my best to address everyone.....

Ab congrats on your bfp!

Mary and Kenna - o seems to be just around the corner for both of you. I hope you are getting in lots of baby making! Try and get a little something extra in memory of me. Lol, that sounds wrong but you know what I mean.

Amy - I think it's so funny how so many of your pictures are taken from above you instead of head on. I think you look fabulous, and I hope that your appointment goes swimmingly tonight. Please keep us updated!

Mdscpa - I'm sorry I don't know your real life name. If you haven't o'd yet it isn't too late for you to pick up on your temp shift when it happens. A lot of women actually don't even temp until they get close to o. Good luck!

AFM: Jill (the nurse who works solely with my doctor) emailed me this morning saying that my doctor has agreed to extend my leave and will email me the paperwork when she gets it. So I don't have to go back until Tuesday and then Friday is a non student contact day! I could t sleep at all last night. I took a shower and when I got out I noticed I had hives all over me. Haven't done anything about it yet because I want to see if it's the oxycodone. I went to the bathroom earlier and noticed a huge glob of creamy mucus. Weird, I know. It also had a very acidic odor to it. I'm going to ask doctor google about it in a second.

I had a dream this morning that I was pregnant and gave birth very early. The baby was the size of my hand and we had to rub it's back to keep it stimulated. At one point in the dream my husband told me I wasn't doing it right and pressed too hard on the babies back....and I got so angry! It was bizarre! Well, have a great day ladies and I'll check up on you soon.

lol I know what u meant lol it did give me a good laugh tho!

I'm very happy to hear your leave was extended! I truly feel you need it right now after surgery. The hives could def be from the pain meds, I get hives from vicoden (may be spelt wrong). Hopefully not tho so u can actually take them!

And that dream is so freaky!! I would have woken up all shookin up! Is there a chance u could get/be pregnant right now? Or is it 100% not going to happen until july/aug? My niece was born the length of my hand about. She was 1lb 13oz's! She's the miracle baby of our family. She was in an incubator for the first 4 months of her life and in hospital care until she got up to about 5lbs. (total of about 5-6 months). But she pulled through great! By the age of 1 she was completely caught up with the rest of the kids but was a little peanut until she was about 4 but her mom is very small anyhow. When she was 2 months old, my brothers ring could fit all the way up her arm to her shoulder and just dangle, she was so tiny! I have a sculpture they made of her hand in the hospital that I will ty and post one day next to my hand so u can see how small it was. She has not one single health issue and she's now 14yrs old. She was my brothers first born . Such a miracle! Your dream reminded me of it and I wanted to share that story. Its just so amazing. She was such a strong baby to pull through all of that!! She was truly a blessing and no doubt in my mind that god had his angels surrounding our family every single day during that rough time. I pray everyday this doesn't happen to anymore babies. Your baby will be just fine when ur sticky BFP comes I wasn't trying to scare anyone with the story, I just love sharing this story even in real life and just realized I never told u girls about my niece. Anyways, Aiden calls! Lol

good luck ladies!!!

 

[mdscpa]

Hi ladies, sorry i've been awol for awhile. I'm now on my 7th cycle after i had the longest cycle since starting the medicines. I also just started temping but didn't start on CD1 since bbt arrived late, hopefully i'm not yet too late, chart link below. CD13 today and still waiting for the big O. fx everyone!!!!!!

Congratulations to our BFPs.

good luck! And it looks like u could potentially be having a pre O dip or O dip today. I can be of more help after another one or two temps I think

Thanks Aidensmommy1. As far as i remember you recommended me to chart to possibly confirm O last cycle as i only used CB digital opk which seems to be not enough. Hopefully this one will help me understand more about my cycle and help me conceive in the future. I know lots of ladies here and you have enough experience on temping which i know can help me a lot in interpreting it. Right now i'm just so excited seeing the chart but of course nothing can compare to seeing a bfp and successful pregnancy.

 

[Wishing1010]

Omg scary dream, Jess!!!!! I hope you have a very healthy baby when he or she comes awesome about your leave, doesn't hurt to get some more rest. I hope the hives go away!!!!!

I actually had a bit of ewcm a bit ago. There was a lot of creamy but some pretty stretchy stuff as well. Drinking lots of water to help thin things out in there. I have no bd in so we need to at least do tonight to even have a small chance!!!

 

[Jrepp]

Hi Ladies! I am going to do my best to address everyone.....

Ab congrats on your bfp!

Mary and Kenna - o seems to be just around the corner for both of you. I hope you are getting in lots of baby making! Try and get a little something extra in memory of me. Lol, that sounds wrong but you know what I mean.

Amy - I think it's so funny how so many of your pictures are taken from above you instead of head on. I think you look fabulous, and I hope that your appointment goes swimmingly tonight. Please keep us updated!

Mdscpa - I'm sorry I don't know your real life name. If you haven't o'd yet it isn't too late for you to pick up on your temp shift when it happens. A lot of women actually don't even temp until they get close to o. Good luck!

AFM: Jill (the nurse who works solely with my doctor) emailed me this morning saying that my doctor has agreed to extend my leave and will email me the paperwork when she gets it. So I don't have to go back until Tuesday and then Friday is a non student contact day! I could t sleep at all last night. I took a shower and when I got out I noticed I had hives all over me. Haven't done anything about it yet because I want to see if it's the oxycodone. I went to the bathroom earlier and noticed a huge glob of creamy mucus. Weird, I know. It also had a very acidic odor to it. I'm going to ask doctor google about it in a second.

I had a dream this morning that I was pregnant and gave birth very early. The baby was the size of my hand and we had to rub it's back to keep it stimulated. At one point in the dream my husband told me I wasn't doing it right and pressed too hard on the babies back....and I got so angry! It was bizarre! Well, have a great day ladies and I'll check up on you soon.

lol I know what u meant lol it did give me a good laugh tho!

I'm very happy to hear your leave was extended! I truly feel you need it right now after surgery. The hives could def be from the pain meds, I get hives from vicoden (may be spelt wrong). Hopefully not tho so u can actually take them!

And that dream is so freaky!! I would have woken up all shookin up! Is there a chance u could get/be pregnant right now? Or is it 100% not going to happen until july/aug? My niece was born the length of my hand about. She was 1lb 13oz's! She's the miracle baby of our family. She was in an incubator for the first 4 months of her life and in hospital care until she got up to about 5lbs. (total of about 5-6 months). But she pulled through great! By the age of 1 she was completely caught up with the rest of the kids but was a little peanut until she was about 4 but her mom is very small anyhow. When she was 2 months old, my brothers ring could fit all the way up her arm to her shoulder and just dangle, she was so tiny! I have a sculpture they made of her hand in the hospital that I will ty and post one day next to my hand so u can see how small it was. She has not one single health issue and she's now 14yrs old. She was my brothers first born . Such a miracle! Your dream reminded me of it and I wanted to share that story. Its just so amazing. She was such a strong baby to pull through all of that!! She was truly a blessing and no doubt in my mind that god had his angels surrounding our family every single day during that rough time. I pray everyday this doesn't happen to anymore babies. Your baby will be just fine when ur sticky BFP comes I wasn't trying to scare anyone with the story, I just love sharing this story even in real life and just realized I never told u girls about my niece. Anyways, Aiden calls! Lol

good luck ladies!!!

Im 100% certain I'm not pregnant right now. The last time I ovulated was in February because when they said I needed surgery they put me on the pill to keep the lining thin, and I haven't had a period since. Plus we haven't done anything internal since February as well. I know......long time!

My dream didn't really scare me so much as just be angry at my husband for being too rough with our baby lol. My cousin actually just had a baby that was 2.5lbs. He's having his ups and downs.

Hi ladies, sorry i've been awol for awhile. I'm now on my 7th cycle after i had the longest cycle since starting the medicines. I also just started temping but didn't start on CD1 since bbt arrived late, hopefully i'm not yet too late, chart link below. CD13 today and still waiting for the big O. fx everyone!!!!!!

Congratulations to our BFPs.

good luck! And it looks like u could potentially be having a pre O dip or O dip today. I can be of more help after another one or two temps I think

Thanks Aidensmommy1. As far as i remember you recommended me to chart to possibly confirm O last cycle as i only used CB digital opk which seems to be not enough. Hopefully this one will help me understand more about my cycle and help me conceive in the future. I know lots of ladies here and you have enough experience on temping which i know can help me a lot in interpreting it. Right now i'm just so excited seeing the chart but of course nothing can compare to seeing a bfp and successful pregnancy.

I know you are using fertility friend, but have you tried ovufriend? It is in my opinion more accurate and easier to enter data. Temping will definitely help you out.

Omg scary dream, Jess!!!!! I hope you have a very healthy baby when he or she comes awesome about your leave, doesn't hurt to get some more rest. I hope the hives go away!!!!!

I actually had a bit of ewcm a bit ago. There was a lot of creamy but some pretty stretchy stuff as well. Drinking lots of water to help thin things out in there. I have no bd in so we need to at least do tonight to even have a small chance!!!

Have you tried mucinex? I discovered a few months ago quite by accident that mucus relief (store brand mucinex) gave me gobs of ewcm. I was trying to cure myself of a swollen nasal passage.

 

[Wishing1010]

Yeah I have used it in the past and got some ewcm, will take some when I get home

 

[aidensmommy1]

Hi ladies, sorry i've been awol for awhile. I'm now on my 7th cycle after i had the longest cycle since starting the medicines. I also just started temping but didn't start on CD1 since bbt arrived late, hopefully i'm not yet too late, chart link below. CD13 today and still waiting for the big O. fx everyone!!!!!!

Congratulations to our BFPs.

good luck! And it looks like u could potentially be having a pre O dip or O dip today. I can be of more help after another one or two temps I think

Thanks Aidensmommy1. As far as i remember you recommended me to chart to possibly confirm O last cycle as i only used CB digital opk which seems to be not enough. Hopefully this one will help me understand more about my cycle and help me conceive in the future. I know lots of ladies here and you have enough experience on temping which i know can help me a lot in interpreting it. Right now i'm just so excited seeing the chart but of course nothing can compare to seeing a bfp and successful pregnancy.

lol I know my first few months temping id just wait for the next a.m to see what my temp was lol. Its so cool the things u can tell from temping! And I'm pretty sure I did recommend it, I am a firm believer on temping helping women conceive faster/easier just because it does help u know pretty much ur exact O date . Good luck and I hope u see a nice spike soon! How long are ur norm cycles btw?

 

[aidensmommy1]

Jess, I didn't by any means think ur dream would come true! So I hope u didn't think that. I just was wondering if a surprise could happen before the expected time is all and I hope your cousins baby pulls through just as well as my niece did she too had her ups and downs for sure but she was such a strong little baby and kept on fighting. Ill be praying for your cousin hun
And that's funny you were mostly just mad at dh for being too rough haha. I get mad at my dh from things I dream sometimes too. Ill wake up like err wtf! Lol and then I realize its a dream

 

[aidensmommy1]

Omg scary dream, Jess!!!!! I hope you have a very healthy baby when he or she comes awesome about your leave, doesn't hurt to get some more rest. I hope the hives go away!!!!!

I actually had a bit of ewcm a bit ago. There was a lot of creamy but some pretty stretchy stuff as well. Drinking lots of water to help thin things out in there. I have no bd in so we need to at least do tonight to even have a small chance!!!

we ended up bding last night but it was the first time in 6 days so if I want a tiny chance we'd have to bd tonight or tomorrow as well ( I believe in the bding every 5days to keep the sperm "fresh" lol) but honestly we probably will anyways since its been almost a wk. If for some reason we dont, I'm ok with having NO shot this cycle tho since chances are slim any how for me for right now. I wont be testing unless AF is late this cycle as well. Ill have alot more money in my pocket haha good luck and I hope u end up with w nice surprise while we are all taking it easy!

 

[Wishing1010]

I hope we all end up with a nice surprise!!!!!

 

[AmySan]

Thank you girls, I love you all...8 minutes left then can touch up makeup and head to appointment. So scared want to stay with him tonight. Been so depressed and bad and thinking out ways to kill myself. It's horrible. And stupid. I have to remember that no matter what, I don't really want to die...if we break up...I will find someone else...and how much I want a family and I don't want to hurt anyone...and I don't want to do anything stupid, live, then mess up my body for the future. Ugh. Trying to keep it together. Will try to get back on tonight. If it goes bad, I think I may check myself into the hospital or something. I don't know. I hate my brain sometimes It tells me to at least TRY to kill myself before going to the hospital, because it's stupid to get help for nothing. Yeah. I know that isn't healthy thinking. Praying so hard. I love Mike so much. I wouldn't want him to feel like it was his fault for the rest of his life either. He already is traumatized from my saying that last week...and I'm still alive. FXed.

 

[Wishing1010]

Good luck Hun, please do go seek help if you start feeling like you want to hurt yourself. Keep us posted!!

 

[Honeyblonde]

May I join? I'm supposed to start AF on May 2nd. Technically I'm already a date late and today is CD 30, but AF shows up anywhere between CD 27-32, so thats why I picked May 2nd. I have YI right now, which is super weird, I haven't had one in forever. My boobs are also super inflated (feels WAY more than usual PMS inflation) and I am gassy...I really wish I knew what was going on.

 

[Honeyblonde]

Amy, feel free to PM if you need someone to talk to. I'm divorced, and while I certainly hope things get worked out, I know what its like to have people want you to break up, and the feeling of being lost and scared. Been there. ((HUGE HUGS)). I have kitties myself (originally four, now down to three).

 

[Jrepp]

Amy, you can always message me as well.

Hi honey blonde. Good luck and welcome! Can you tell us a little about your back story?

 

[Wishing1010]

Welcome, honey!!! FX for you, symptoms sound great!!!!

 

[Honeyblonde]

My boyfriend and I have been together over a year at this point. I've been PG before by both my ex husband and my boyfriend (no kids). My last PG I miscarried around five weeks, which was awful and upsetting for my boyfriend and myself. We are not trying, not preventing, but we usually BD around and on my O date anyway. I love him very much, although recently our relationship has been difficult. We live in his cousins home (she is leaving it to go live with her boyfriend). She and I no longer get along, due to many reasons, one being she wants me to watch her kids all the time (I work at home, so NO). Basically, she told my boyfriend, who moved in last month (not me) that she was moving out, I was upset she never came to me, and stayed (and still stay) in my room, working. I know shes mad at me that I'll no longer come downstairs and clean up after messes she leaves etc but I don't care. To compound matters, my boyfriend started working with her boyfriend doing construction...and he's not been paid. It's been a MONTH. I realize contractors have to wait on insurance money to come through and such but its frustrating. He goes to work every day and comes back with either nothing, or under $100 for 12-14 hours worth of work. I'm stressed and not happy about any of it. I pretty much want out of this house so I won't have to deal with her coming over every day to pack up things.

Sorry ladies, that turned in to a very long rant. Wasn't my intention haha! Anyway to sum things up, I love my boyfriend and enjoy our life together, but we are stressed right now, and it would be so much better if we had our own home (and he was getting paid regularly).

 

[Honeyblonde]

So I *may* be out because I just checked, and now in addition to having my YI, pinkish stuff is coming out of me. Its gross and weird and I don't know whats going on. Yeah I realize it could be my period, but it looks so weird!!

 

[Wishing1010]

I hope it's not AF!!!!! FX FX FX FX!!!

 

[Megamegan]

Amy, hope your appt goes well!! All the things you said in your last post are very smart and rational, that's good to hear... if you go to the hospital, you know they will take you seriously even though you haven't already hurt yourself. But I hope your appt goes great and you won't feel like you need to do that! You got this!!

Welcome honeyblonde Sucks to have someone you love, but a crappy living situation- been there! Hope AF stays away, but if not, please do stick around for next cycle Like the title says... sticking together until we all get BFPs

I got a HUGE list of to-do's done today and I'm still going at it. I'm so happy about that. I'm trying SO HARD not to think about TTC, besides reading on here every once in a while. Good luck to everyone in the 2WW

 

[Honeyblonde]

Megan, I'm envious! Feels like forever since I've knocked out a to-do list and gotten lots done! Good for you!

Thank you Wishing!

So far, no more pinkish stuff coming out. Could just be my poor va jay jay is SUPER irritated. Had a nice bath and put some treatment in, just trying to relax. My boyfriend is playing a super loud shoot-em-up video game, so not easy haha. Thanks for the warm welcome ladies, I'm sure you'll get sick of hearing from me soon enough...LOL