Sticking Together Until We All Get BFP's!!!!

[Megamegan]

We posted at the exact same time... lol.

I'm always happy to see my temps go up, but two cycles ago I had a very pretty chart which ended in AF, and then last cycle my temp stayed above 99 because I had the flu during AF, so... I don't put a lot of stock into my temps... but alas, I know I'll still just temp because if I ever do get that BFP I want to be able to say whether my BFP chart was any different than AF charts. But yeah, for the next 10 days or so, my temps probably aren't going to mean a whole lot.

 

[aidensmommy1]

Good evening everyone! I am having the longest days ever because I'm helping this girl get settled in at work, and it requires a LOT of in-processing, because handing over your life to the Army is a ridiculously involved process. Anyway, it's nice to come home and rest and read about everyone's days. I miss joining you all during the day though

Welcome cutieq! Good luck

I just wanted to respond to Mary from this morning- I suppose I COULD be O'ing later, but I also got a ton of EWCM on Friday and Saturday, plus my telltale sign of intense ovary pain for a few hours Sunday night. So I'm like 99% sure that was O and I'm 2 DPO. I'll probably BD just incase I'm magically dropping a second egg or something crazy, or if O just didn't completely happen, but... I'm pretty sure it did. Just interesting that I would continue to have EWCM. Maybe it's a good sign. Maybe it means nothing. God only knows... literally.

Edit: I also have my insane sense of smell which only happens during my LP. It's annoying. I smell everything. Most things smell gross. Yippeee!!

Biy do I know what marrying into the Army feels like. Uff lol

yep I married into the army with my ex husband and now since our divorce he got kicked out (thankfully!!). He just was using the army to get his income and not really working. I cant stand when people are in the army but couldn't give to craps about our country, u know? Thank goodness for people like you Megan, who really wants to help us . I didn't know u r in the army until now. Thank u for ur service!
And Megan I agree now that u have more temps on ur chart, its looking more like a CD13 O. Before it looked a little weird but todays temp made it look better lol

Sunshine, are u still an army wife now? If so, thank u for ur service as well. When I was married to my ex, it was so incredibly hard to be here by myself and trying to take care of everything at home while worrying about and missing my husband at the same time. To me, when someone is married to someone else in the army, I feel both people are dedicated to helping their people. Like every single day ur sacrificing some of ur happiness for ur country by sticking by the side of one of our men (or women) in the army and that's much needed support for your husband and the people working beside him. Idk if I wrote that exactly how I wanted to or if it makes sense lol, I hope it did. I was just trying to say thank u and that I know how hard it is and how much of ur life it takes to be an army wife. You are VERY strong! I hope u and hubby get ur bfp asap!

 

[aidensmommy1]

Hello girls

I am just stopping in to say hello...I hope you get more BFP this month.

Ibeach! We miss u!! I want to chat with u more!
Have u and ur boyfriend thought of using a sperm bank instead of an in person donor? Maybe that'd work better for you...
I think you will be a terrific mommy one of these days!! you!

 

[aidensmommy1]

When is your mentorship of the new girl over?

So random question: I have been seriously considering becoming a passion party consultant. They are the leading retailer in the passion industry selling lotions, oils, toys....etc.. There are a few other companies I have been looking into as well. My question is: if I were to sign up would any of you be interested in purchasing things? You can send me a pm if you don't want your business posted.

I feel like I read all the time on here that love making has become boring and routine. Sex should be fun and exciting!

that's sp funny because I'm about to get into the same thing! I was going to ask u girls the same question lol. I probably have loads of sex crazed people around here tho haha That's too funny we have both been looking into the "toy industry" at the same time. I love this group of ladies :-D

 

[mdscpa]

mdspca, are you a vet? Trying to figure out your username Do you use FF? If you want to put a link to your chart, others could weigh in on it (if you want that)... I really hope it was IB for you! Sounds promising since it went away, but you never know.

My temp went up another .2 today, but I'm still confident that O was on Sunday and not yesterday. Does anyone know why FF would give me an open circle on Sunday? I temped at the right time... only thing is it was the first temp for several days. But I didn't think that would mean open dot, just dotted line. Oh well. I still expect AF on May 18 or 19. I will probably test on the 20th if nothing by then because that will be 16 dpo, or 14 dpo if O was actually yesterday.

Have a great day everyone!

LOL, im not a vet. I'm an accountant. MDS stands for my initials and the rest you may already know based on my profession. My chart is in my sig and available for all stalkers, LOL , waiting for any opinion hahahahha.... This is my first time charting so I'm still in the process of learning what they could mean.... Regarding your chart, i'm guessing you O'ed on sunday, but hard to tell since you missed few temps before the dip. Maybe aidensmommy can help, she's a PRO at this thing... hahhahahah

 

[aidensmommy1]

My temp today bounced right back to where it was before the drop. FX!
I have 3 frers under my sink total and one clearblue digi and I HAVENT TESTED! LOL. I can never control myself and usually would have used one this a.m but I'm actually waiting! I feel like I'm making great progression with my POAS addiction this cycle :-D yay! And I plan to wait until AF is a no show but if my charts beautiful around 10dpo, I MAY break and test once lol. One test this cycle is better then 6+. I'll have to see how it goes...
good luck ladies!!

 

[mdscpa]

My temp today bounced right back to where it was before the drop. FX!
I have 3 frers under my sink total and one clearblue digi and I HAVENT TESTED! LOL. I can never control myself and usually would have used one this a.m but I'm actually waiting! I feel like I'm making great progression with my POAS addiction this cycle :-D yay! And I plan to wait until AF is a no show but if my charts beautiful still around 10dpo, I MAY break and test once lol. One test this cycle is better then 6+. I'll have to see how it goes...
good luck ladies!!

That's a lovely spike..... Good thing I have someone here that has temp dip below coverline. I just pray mine would be a little bit higher than post O temps... Planning also to test when AF is due but like you it all depends on my next temps, if they look good i'd probably test with frer before trying CBD...

goodluck to all of us ladies.....

 

[aidensmommy1]

mdspca, are you a vet? Trying to figure out your username Do you use FF? If you want to put a link to your chart, others could weigh in on it (if you want that)... I really hope it was IB for you! Sounds promising since it went away, but you never know.

My temp went up another .2 today, but I'm still confident that O was on Sunday and not yesterday. Does anyone know why FF would give me an open circle on Sunday? I temped at the right time... only thing is it was the first temp for several days. But I didn't think that would mean open dot, just dotted line. Oh well. I still expect AF on May 18 or 19. I will probably test on the 20th if nothing by then because that will be 16 dpo, or 14 dpo if O was actually yesterday.

Have a great day everyone!

LOL, im not a vet. I'm an accountant. MDS stands for my initials and the rest you may already know based on my profession. My chart is in my sig and available for all stalkers, LOL , waiting for any opinion hahahahha.... This is my first time charting so I'm still in the process of learning what they could mean.... Regarding your chart, i'm guessing you O'ed on sunday, but hard to tell since you missed few temps before the dip. Maybe aidensmommy can help, she's a PRO at this thing... hahhahahah

lol . I believe im one of the girls who got mega temping 3 cycles ago as well. I think its a very important ttc tool .
mdscpa, FX ur temps keep rising or stay at a stable high temp. That'd be a potentially good sign. As Megan said, she has a BEAUTIFUL chart 3 cycles ago and it was Bfn! We were all almost certain she was going to get it with her high temps! So just keep that in mind since you don't know what temps are like FOR YOU yet. (it stinks we all have to be so different!!!)

 

[aidensmommy1]

My temp today bounced right back to where it was before the drop. FX!
I have 3 frers under my sink total and one clearblue digi and I HAVENT TESTED! LOL. I can never control myself and usually would have used one this a.m but I'm actually waiting! I feel like I'm making great progression with my POAS addiction this cycle :-D yay! And I plan to wait until AF is a no show but if my charts beautiful still around 10dpo, I MAY break and test once lol. One test this cycle is better then 6+. I'll have to see how it goes...
good luck ladies!!

That's a lovely spike..... Good thing I have someone here that has temp dip below coverline. I just pray mine would be a little bit higher than post O temps... Planning also to test when AF is due but like you it all depends on my next temps, if they look good i'd probably test with frer before trying CBD...

goodluck to all of us ladies.....

yes if I were u, id def def test w frer before the CB digi. I only use those if I'm late. They dont pick up early for me. I do have one frer digi which is very sensitive but the digis are something I just keep to confirm if I ever think I see a line Frer is nice and sensitive tho.

 

[mdscpa]

My temp today bounced right back to where it was before the drop. FX!
I have 3 frers under my sink total and one clearblue digi and I HAVENT TESTED! LOL. I can never control myself and usually would have used one this a.m but I'm actually waiting! I feel like I'm making great progression with my POAS addiction this cycle :-D yay! And I plan to wait until AF is a no show but if my charts beautiful still around 10dpo, I MAY break and test once lol. One test this cycle is better then 6+. I'll have to see how it goes...
good luck ladies!!

That's a lovely spike..... Good thing I have someone here that has temp dip below coverline. I just pray mine would be a little bit higher than post O temps... Planning also to test when AF is due but like you it all depends on my next temps, if they look good i'd probably test with frer before trying CBD...

goodluck to all of us ladies.....

yes if I were u, id def def test w frer before the CB digi. I only use those if I'm late. They dont pick up early for me. I do have one frer digi which is very sensitive but the digis are something I just keep to confirm if I ever think I see a line Frer is nice and sensitive tho.

i'm just scared testing early. It might upset the again and show her ugly face....... lol

 

[mdscpa]

Here's the other chart i have with all other symptoms.

 

[aidensmommy1]

FX for u! Waiting to test is better anyways if u can control it . If I would have waited to test, I would've thought my chemical was just AF and wouldn't have been very sad/let down by it because I wouldn't have even known! My doc said chemicals are soooo common but most of the time women dont even know because they didn't test early and honestly, I wish I would've waited the month it happened to me to test. It would have saved me and dh ALOT of heartache. Your smart for waiting. I personally didn't learn my lesson (apparently!) after my chemical so I still test early but that's also because I'm at high risk for ectopic so my doc actually said the words "test early" and so I do lol. But now that I know my tube is completely blocked at the ovary side (or it looked blocked during my hsg anyhow, could have been a spasm from all the pain I was in, u never know!) but anyways, that's the only reason I'm waiting this cycle. I figure there's prob not much of a chance for an egg to get through period but I do believe in miracles so that's why if my chart looks good around 10dpo, I will more then likely test once still. Before my hsg, we already knew I was at risk for ectopic due to PIDS in the past but now its confirmed that my only tube is blocked . I couldn't remember if u knew about why I'm NTNP right now so I figured id tell you a little bit. FX my enzymes are miracle pills! and FX u get ur bfp! I love seeing bfps on this thread because at the time being, it helps me get through my own issues seeing you ladies succeed. It shows me I WILL get my bfp and give aiden a baby "sister" (I want a boy but aiden wants a sister lol) and dh his first baby . That'll be an amazing day!
TONS OF TO ALL!

 

[Wishing1010]

FX for all you ladies!!!!

 

[mdscpa]

FX for u! Waiting to test is better anyways if u can control it . If I would have waited to test, I would've thought my chemical was just AF and wouldn't have been very sad/let down by it because I wouldn't have even known! My doc said chemicals are soooo common but most of the time women dont even know because they didn't test early and honestly, I wish I would've waited the month it happened to me to test. It would have saved me and dh ALOT of heartache. Your smart for waiting. I personally didn't learn my lesson (apparently!) after my chemical so I still test early but that's also because I'm at high risk for ectopic so my doc actually said the words "test early" and so I do lol. But now that I know my tube is completely blocked at the ovary side (or it looked blocked during my hsg anyhow, could have been a spasm from all the pain I was in, u never know!) but anyways, that's the only reason I'm waiting this cycle. I figure there's prob not much of a chance for an egg to get through period but I do believe in miracles so that's why if my chart looks good around 10dpo, I will more then likely test once still. Before my hsg, we already knew I was at risk for ectopic due to PIDS in the past but now its confirmed that my only tube is blocked . I couldn't remember if u knew about why I'm NTNP right now so I figured id tell you a little bit. FX my enzymes are miracle pills! and FX u get ur bfp! I love seeing bfps on this thread because at the time being, it helps me get through my own issues seeing you ladies succeed. It shows me I WILL get my bfp and give aiden a baby "sister" (I want a boy but aiden wants a sister lol) and dh his first baby . That'll be an amazing day!
TONS OF TO ALL!

FX to you mary. Just saw from other posts they call you that,
Miracles do happen to those who wait. I updated my chart by putting my saliva tests results to the notes instead of the ferning tests section. And FF gave me the solid lines, i know that's the reason why it gave me crosshairs. It's the third month using the scope and every time it gave me different pattern the whole cycle. So right now i can't depend on it alone. So instead of it messing around my chart, i'd rather just keep them in my notes.

 

[aidensmommy1]

Good idea

Good luck to u too wishing!! Hopefully u O soon!

 

[Wishing1010]

I think I'm either going to O super late or not at all. Stupid body

 

[mdscpa]

I think I'm either going to O super late or not at all. Stupid body

Keeping everything crossed for you wishing1010.... Don't get disappointed yet you will O soon maybe your body is preparing the best egg ever. Who knows, maybe tomorrow you'll get the biggest dip. Will be lurking on your chart everyday and see the progress....

 

[Wishing1010]

I think I'm either going to O super late or not at all. Stupid body

Keeping everything crossed for you wishing1010.... Don't get disappointed yet you will O soon maybe your body is preparing the best egg ever. Who knows, maybe tomorrow you'll get the biggest dip. Will be lurking on your chart everyday and see the progress....

Thank you, but after 40+ cycles, TTC gets old.

 

[Jrepp]

I was told to test early as well so that they can get me in for early testing.

Kenna, when do you normally o?

 

[Wishing1010]

I was told to test early as well so that they can get me in for early testing.

Kenna, when do you normally o?

Ummm anywhere from cd 20-30 so, I still have time if I'm going to. Going to keep to the Bd!!!

Oh, and to answer your question about the passion party, we've got some fun stuff but I'll keep you in mind when we decide to buy some more