Sticking Together Until We All Get BFP's!!!!

[froggyfrog]

Mine is Syris, and he is not as small as he thinks he is. He is currently sleeping in my lap. He is great dane mixed with shepherd, so he is a pretty big boy! He loves his daddy and gets super excited when he comes home from work, but he follows me around ALL day! DH calls him norman bates because he is sort of obsessed with me. Very smart though, I taught him to ring a bell when he needs to go out!

 

[rw7y]

aidensmommy1
hahaha, I love some of the little emotions on here.

 

[Querida87]

Froggy and Brighteyez - I'm sooo sorry!!! I really thought you both had it this month!! :'(

AFM I had some weird, I guess you could say twinges, that felt like they were coming from my cervix. And my stomach felt funny, not crampy but different when I woke up, and the feeling was definitely coming from my uterus. I really have no idea how to describe it as I've never felt anything like it before. My temp is up, higher than any other day, excepting 1dpo and currently on 8dpo. I see a really faint blue line irl and I think I see pink on the other. Anyone else want to squint with me?

 

[rw7y]

Querida87 - I'd like to help, but I don't have much experience with line spotting on tests

Quick question for you all - Does anyone else have tummy ache cramps and AF cramps that feel the same?

 

[froggyfrog]

Querida I do think I see something, fx its the start of something.

Rw7y I do sometimes if I have diarrhea, sorry if tmi. But once I go they disappear.

 

[rw7y]

Querida I do think I see something, fx its the start of something.

Rw7y I do sometimes if I have diarrhea, sorry if tmi. But once I go they disappear.

No, no, not TMI, haha. That is actually why I mean by tummy ache type cramps. Usually the first day AF comes my cramps are very strong and I often confuse them for diarrhea pain. >_< I've had very dull cramps like this for weeks now. I guess it is from the infection.

 

[Wishing1010]

Brighteyez, I'm so sorry....I know this must be hard. My heart breaks for you, many hugs and prayers headed your way.

 

[Wishing1010]

Querida87 - I'd like to help, but I don't have much experience with line spotting on tests

Quick question for you all - Does anyone else have tummy ache cramps and AF cramps that feel the same?

Yes! I have had those same aches before!!! It's so weird!

 

[Wishing1010]

I adopted our youngest fur baby after being devastated last winter about no BFP yet! I have 4 cats and a dog, DH and I never sleep alone lol!

 

[froggyfrog]

Querida I do think I see something, fx its the start of something.

Rw7y I do sometimes if I have diarrhea, sorry if tmi. But once I go they disappear.

No, no, not TMI, haha. That is actually why I mean by tummy ache type cramps. Usually the first day AF comes my cramps are very strong and I often confuse them for diarrhea pain. >_< I've had very dull cramps like this for weeks now. I guess it is from the infection.

They seem to mimic each other. Most months I even get diarrhea for hours preceding af.

 

[froggyfrog]

I adopted our youngest fur baby after being devastated last winter about no BFP yet! I have 4 cats and a dog, DH and I never sleep alone lol!

Oh my kenna! Add in a chicken and I think you have a farm! Lol.

 

[Wishing1010]

Lol! I can't help it, I have so much love and want to give it to everyone and everything! Will be so glad when I can love a little one!

 

[froggyfrog]

Kenna I was reading your journal and we were married in the same month, what day were yall married? Ours was 10 2 10

 

[aidensmommy1]

Mine is Syris, and he is not as small as he thinks he is. He is currently sleeping in my lap. He is great dane mixed with shepherd, so he is a pretty big boy! He loves his daddy and gets super excited when he comes home from work, but he follows me around ALL day! DH calls him norman bates because he is sort of obsessed with me. Very smart though, I taught him to ring a bell when he needs to go out!

LoL! Sounds like my doggy! Other than the being a big boy part. Mines a lil boy lol. But he follows me ALL day. He loves his daddy too BUT even when we're all going out for a ride or on a walk, he will not go without me. He will walk in my shadow, even if I just go to use the bathroom for 20 seconds, he's right there. Lol. I love it! I wish our pups could be friends!

 

[froggyfrog]

Aww me too. He can be a little intimidating to little dogs though. There are two little dogs down our street that come up wagging when we walk by, but when Syris tries to play, they start backing up fast! We are heading down to see our parents, and im really excited for him to play with my moms dogs. They are big too and very outgoing.

 

[aidensmommy1]

Froggy and Brighteyez - I'm sooo sorry!!! I really thought you both had it this month!! :'(

AFM I had some weird, I guess you could say twinges, that felt like they were coming from my cervix. And my stomach felt funny, not crampy but different when I woke up, and the feeling was definitely coming from my uterus. I really have no idea how to describe it as I've never felt anything like it before. My temp is up, higher than any other day, excepting 1dpo and currently on 8dpo. I see a really faint blue line irl and I think I see pink on the other. Anyone else want to squint with me?

I'm sorry, I dont see anything BUT its very early still! DO NOT look at blue dye tests after the 10 min time frame. They almost always end up with a slight line after the 10min time frame. They're evil and I refuse to use them! Lol Id try testing again in a day or two and u might have better luck . U could have been feeling implantation cramping/twinges & def could be too soon. 10dpo is the best day to test but i use cheapies until then fx for u!

 

[aidensmommy1]

Querida87, looking at your chart, it truly doesn't look like you've oed yet hun . I just noticed that. Opks sometimes turn positive and ur body gears up to O but then fails and then usually ull really O a couple days to a wk or more later. Its common for delayed O straight off of birth control also. I'm thinking yest or today could have maybe been O, as ur temps just barely going up now. I think you may only be 1dpo today but ur next few temps will tell us better. If thats the case, u still have a good shot bding wise and itd def make it too early for a bfp. O causes some weird pinching/twinges and cramping as well so that could be what you've been experiencing. Just throwing that theory out there so you aren't confused if ch's suddenly pop up or AF seems late but no bfp or something like that. Can I ask, is there another reason other than the positive opk that makes u believe you oed already? After O, ur body will warm and it'll cause ur temps to shift at least .2 higher than the majority of ur pre O temps and todays temp is actually the only one thats a bit higher. It looks like the very high temp at what ur considering 1dpo was a fluke, due to delayed O. I get spiked when O delays as well. I could be wrong but I def wouldn't stop bding until you see higher temps good luck hun!

 

[Querida87]

Querida87, looking at your chart, it truly doesn't look like you've oed yet hun . I just noticed that. Opks sometimes turn positive and ur body gears up to O but then fails and then usually ull really O a couple days to a wk or more later. Its common for delayed O straight off of birth control also. I'm thinking yest or today could have maybe been O, as ur temps just barely going up now. I think you may only be 1dpo today but ur next few temps will tell us better. If thats the case, u still have a good shot bding wise and itd def make it too early for a bfp. O causes some weird pinching/twinges and cramping as well so that could be what you've been experiencing. Just throwing that theory out there so you aren't confused if ch's suddenly pop up or AF seems late but no bfp or something like that. Can I ask, is there another reason other than the positive opk that makes u believe you oed already? After O, ur body will warm and it'll cause ur temps to shift at least .2 higher than the majority of ur pre O temps and todays temp is actually the only one thats a bit higher. It looks like the very high temp at what ur considering 1dpo was a fluke, due to delayed O. I get spiked when O delays as well. I could be wrong but I def wouldn't stop bding until you see higher temps good luck hun!

Thank you! I could be totally off. I looked at the temp dip on mirena removal day followed by the jump on what I thought was 1dpo. Also, I've had progressing symptoms since what I thought was 2dpo and my bf says he feels like I'm preggers and he's never said that before

 

[laurac1988]

Froggy - we were married (well... Ours was a civil partnership) on the same day as you! Yay us!

2dpo over here and boooooored already.

Oh and I'm another who has tummy cramps like AF cramps that sometimes turn into diarrhoea. That used to be my for sure sign that AF was coming, but if anything they were worse the month I got my BFP

 

[aidensmommy1]

Querida87, looking at your chart, it truly doesn't look like you've oed yet hun . I just noticed that. Opks sometimes turn positive and ur body gears up to O but then fails and then usually ull really O a couple days to a wk or more later. Its common for delayed O straight off of birth control also. I'm thinking yest or today could have maybe been O, as ur temps just barely going up now. I think you may only be 1dpo today but ur next few temps will tell us better. If thats the case, u still have a good shot bding wise and itd def make it too early for a bfp. O causes some weird pinching/twinges and cramping as well so that could be what you've been experiencing. Just throwing that theory out there so you aren't confused if ch's suddenly pop up or AF seems late but no bfp or something like that. Can I ask, is there another reason other than the positive opk that makes u believe you oed already? After O, ur body will warm and it'll cause ur temps to shift at least .2 higher than the majority of ur pre O temps and todays temp is actually the only one thats a bit higher. It looks like the very high temp at what ur considering 1dpo was a fluke, due to delayed O. I get spiked when O delays as well. I could be wrong but I def wouldn't stop bding until you see higher temps good luck hun!

Thank you! I could be totally off. I looked at the temp dip on mirena removal day followed by the jump on what I thought was 1dpo. Also, I've had progressing symptoms since what I thought was 2dpo and my bf says he feels like I'm preggers and he's never said that before

I really hope you are and if not yet, hopefully a baby is in the making now! I will say, I'm almost 99% sure your either just barely 1dpo today or haven't yet passed O as ur temps haven't rised at all until now. I know EVERY little thing pops out like crazy while TTC and it stinks. I cant count the # of times I "just felt" I was pregnant. I wish I was right and id have like 12 babies! Lol. Just keep bding as you have been and there's a great chance you'll see a bfp 2wks or so after your rise Dont be alarmed if the rise takes a lil bit. Sometimes it takes a while for your body to get back in routine and pop out that egg for O. Its completely normal.
My dh thought I was preggers last cycle, and I did too, and AF fricken came FOUR days early!!!!! Ugh. I found out it was prob due to a cyst since I had a clear O shift and usually have a LP of 13 days.

If you have any questions on charting and such, I'm more than happy to give pointers. I didn't understand the whole "ovulation" process 100% until a couple of cycles charting. I never thought id have to learn some of the fertility info that I know now. I always thought I could just O anytime or on day 14 and didn't realize how wrong I was. Now i feel very in tuned with my body. Anyway, Once you see the red crosshairs on ur chart, ull know you've o'ed. I do think O def could have been yest though. FX! I wish u alot of luck. Just think of this as more time for a BFP to come Good luck!!