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[cdex67]

Aww mkyerby always glad to hear from you. I'm sorry your BD has been nonexistent lately. I hope you can get back into it and enjoy it before you have a belly (and then a baby) to contend with.

 

[MrsHudson]

cdex that sounds absolutely amazing lol. Sounds like what I get on top. I've only ever been able to "get it" on top, or with him going down. With me on AF we haven't DTD in a minute. But next week it's on!

We found another house for sale last night and we're putting an offer it. It's on Hudson St, which is obviously our last name. It needs work but it's 15k under our price point so it works out. Wish us luck again!

AFM - I feel like I'm bleeding to death.... I hope this ends soon lol.

BBT Question: So the last two days my BBT has been 98.6 when usually it's 97.73. Is that normal during AF? And yes I've woken up at the same time as usual, but have been sleeping way harder thanks to AF.

 

[Turtle0630]

You ladies crack me up! I'm getting such a kick out of this over here. And I might just have to try this later...

Mkyerby, sorry your bd'ing has been pretty non-existent here lately. I hope you guys can get back into a good groove with it! I've found that sometimes when it dies off a little, it's kind of hard to get back into the swing of things. Hoping that happens soon for you!

MrsH, I'm so sorry that you didn't get the house. I know it's hard to look at it like this, but try to see it as that just means there's a better house for you and your needs, that you'll find SOON!

MsElizabth, sorry that you're having trouble trying to sell TWO homes! Man, I can totally guess how frustrating that must be...it seems stressful enough to sell one, much less TWO! Good luck!

Patience, you're still well above your cover line, so don't give up yet! I still have everything crossed for you, I really hope AF stays away!

Well this morning my temp SKYROCKETED. Like, went WAY up. Higher than it's ever been with temping, even after a night of heavy drinking (it was 98.54, compared to 97.72 yesterday). So I got really hopeful this morning and tested, but still bfn. And I'm now 14dpo. I'm just pretty confused over here. And that high temp is giving me a lot of hope! I can't decide if I'm going to test again later today or just wait until tomorrow morning. I'm scared that I'm getting my hopes up for nothing!

 

[MrsHudson]

Good luck Turtle!!!! I am blowing baby dust your way!

Houses are hard to buy and sell. I feel for you MsElizabeth. We decided to rent our home out if we buy another house. If we get the one we're now putting an offer on, I have feeling we'll be in it for a long time. It's big and would make me want to kids not one lol. Just got work on convincing DH.

 

[patienceiav]

Turtle I've heard that the temp the night after drinking is often high, something to do with all dat booze Did you take the temp at a different time to normal ?

I'm having such a crisis at the moment, at 13dpo with bfn that's pretty definite that it's a no go, at the same time i'm terrified that it might just be some mad fluke !

Little TMI: Today i've not had any spotting except when I check internally and only get light brown creamy CM, CP is super high. IF by some miracle i'm actually preggers then i'd bring on a MC by stopping the cream, the amount i've been using is probably around 80g per day and would definitely bring on AF when not using it. That being said it's been 20hours since I last used the cream and nothing yet. Normally when i'm using it, AF comes regardless how much I use. It'd just kill me to wake up tomorrow to AF and find I have a faint BFP also.

Sorry for the rant, i'm on edge here I don't feel pregnant but i've never been in this actual situation in all my months TTC !

 

[cdex67]

Ah I so hope it works for all of you lol! Please let me know how it goes!

Also, I'm CD14 and negative opk but pretty dark

 

[Turtle0630]

Sorry Patience, I wasn't very clear with what I was saying on my temps. I meant that previously when I've had a lot to drink the night before, I've noticed that my temp has been WAY up...so lots of alcohol does definitely affect it! But today's temp was even higher than it has been in those situations by quite a bit; I didn't actually drink a lot last night. I did have 2 glasses of wine last night, but it was early in the night and I wasn't even close to tipsy, much less drunk so I don't think it would have affected it that much. Especially since I also had 2 glasses of wine (plus a beer) on Monday night, and my temp on Tuesday only went up .02 from Monday. It went up .82 from Tuesday morning to Wednesday morning. Does that make sense? And nope, my temp was taken at normal time this morning.

Hmmmm...I don't know much about the cream so I'm not really sure on that answer. How come you stopped using it, and could you start it again, just in case?

 

[Turtle0630]

MrsH, good luck on this new house offer! I'm keeping my FX that you get it!!!

 

[patienceiav]

ah right sorry i probably didn't read it properly either I decided since my temp was going down this morning that i'd stop it to bring on AF since I keep getting negatives (i normally get AF around this temp, a tiny bit lower but it's 3days of slowly declining temps so i figure that's that), I have my gyno appt next tuesday for the HSG so really need AF to hurry up ! BUT i keep thinking what if... but the odds are much more likely that i'm not preggers and need it to come and go so i don't miss my test this month i've had quite a few cramps today but nothing crazy, i keep testing just in case sigh !

 

[Turtle0630]

Not your fault Patience, I worded it really weirdly! Any updates on your end? AF, or any more testing?

 

[MrsHudson]

Well the house apparently has more offers on it and offering more than what we're willing to pay so we'll see. I feel like I just won't say anything any more until we're under contract.

 

[patienceiav]

Still barely a drop of creamy brown cm loving the boobs though! i caved and put on some more cream after thinking I saw a hint of a shadow of a squinter line after the 10 min window on the test id rather reschedule my hsg next cycle than risk this one

 

[Ms Elizabeth]

Having two sucks. That's why I rent this small place. Hurry and sell so I can buy a bigger place!

Ok, I have probably the most dumb question ever about the cervix. Wtf....i cant tell whats what....ok, so sitting...in i go. Find it. Why is it i swear its always waaaay in there. So, it's like a right angle...I can feel it, and all around the sides, but it's like i have to reach in...all the way...and then to feel it, reach up. Sooo...since I'm sitting...whatever body part its close to (since I swear its a right angle) does that mean its low? Or cause I have to go waaaay in, its high? Hope that draws a pictures....lol. All during AF...it was in the same spot as it is now....soooo......

Guess i thought low would mean i wouldn't have to submerge my whole fingers....just feels like an L in there....cant thing of another shape to describe it. Lol. I travel in...following the wall....then bump into it...and it takes a sharp turn upwards. Lol

 

[patienceiav]

I read somewhere that low = to the first knuckle (but I've never had it that low!) medium = second knuckle, high = all in

 

[Ms Elizabeth]

Well poo. I'm always high

 

[DannaD]

Hey ladies, just thought I'd pop by. I'm reading everything and blowing baby dust on the thread!
Nothing hallened for me AF wise, I'm a bit depressed. Je veux mes rêgles câline!

Hubby lost his job today, he was gonna quit this month anyway but it still sucks. Like always, I'm the one crying hysterically while he's just chill. He had 2 job offers already today so I know it's not that big of a deal, and he'll probably end up getting a raise, but timing is still bad :/

 

[cdex67]

Ms Elizabeth...mine is almost always high too. The only time its ever low is right at the end of af.

 

[Ms Elizabeth]

Hang in there danna!!

Cdex...ok good...thought I lost mine or something

 

[twinkie2]

Cdex...ok good...thought I lost mine or something

OMG! at this!

 

[Ms Elizabeth]

No,laughing! I read...feel it and see...during AF should be low....blah blah....

Ok, so here i go....geez, I'm like way past my knuckles...ummm ok.....so,I checked everyday....always waaaay up,there. So I'm thinking ok....what am i comparing it to? Like if its low...it would be about to poke out my underwear? Or if its low...its near whatever this wall thing is?

You guys really dont want to be in the bathroom with me when I have such thoughts!