Stopping BCP to TTC***Updates & Progress/Noted Changes Since Stopping BCP***24BFPs***

[Ms Elizabeth]

thanks for the measurements patience. somewhere the paper listed the specific dimension of each ovary. Like they took a tape measure to them while I was knocked out. lol. one was 3cc and one was 6cc. so....one was fuller? Or one is half empty. Sigh…..I tried to research on google but that failed as it’s nothing but worst case scenarios.

I know it said they appeared normal and my endometrial was 14cm. Hope that’s thick enough….but not too think.

So….AF stopped…I’d say 2 days medium and 2 days light. I say light rather than spotting cause I still needed a pad…but nothing more than a tablespoon for the entire day. Overall, not too bad for my first AF off BCP. So now….now I want to O!!!

 

[Ms Elizabeth]

patience - how are you feeling? resting well?

mrshudson - sorry to hear about the place. I'm trying to sell the two I own...it's sooo stressful! want them gone too so I can focus!

 

[patienceiav]

I'm currently trying to decide if i'm up for work, I feel like a ******* at the moment because sitting here I don't feel too bad but when I move about I get dizzy and I worry work will be too much focus

Definitely out this month too, another bfn and a temp drop, i'm going to stop with the cream and just let AF come, if I didn't have an HSG in a week I might carry on and see how far it goes till AF breaks through the progesterone cream, but as of now I have 6days to get rid of AF x.x

 

[Ms Elizabeth]

Aww patience. Hang in there. Poor thing. Rest!!

AFM....nothing much temp wise. Just waiting to go up next week I think to show O. Going to start opk this weekend as a test. I'm only month two ttc but....delusional this may be the month! Stay hopeful. Lol....so busy at home and work BD isnt as much as I'd like. I'd love every night! Think DH had it in his head to wait three months to get bcp out of my system.

 

[patienceiav]

I forgot to say your lining is perfect 8-13mm is what I've read ivf patients are required to have ^^

Now waiting for something to happen, had virtually no spotting today, I guess the cream and vit b really did something this month! Now I need af to hurry the fuck up or I won't get my hsg in before I ovulate :'(

 

[Ms Elizabeth]

Thx patience.

Jump up and down! I swear when I BD the day before I'm due for AF...it's like he stirs it up to start it. Like when you cant get the last of the jelly out of the jar....

 

[patienceiav]

Haha yes I probably should do that it normally works a charm! Just didn't want to the past days since I was worried it was ib and then you should be more gentle

 

[Ms Elizabeth]

Gentle bd sounds nice too

 

[cdex67]

Ladies...tmi here but I have to tell you. Last night dh and I were bding and he was on top and all of a sudden I moved just right and omg it was amazing. He saw the look on my face and just let me go....like 4 times lmao. Afterwards he says did you know you could do that? My response...if I knew I could do that don't you think I would have done it a long time ago?! If anybody is really curious I can describe what I did lol otherwise I'll leave it at that.

 

[patienceiav]

Haha I'm curious! It's normally great when he's on top and I angle my hips upward if that makes any sense, do share your new found tips

 

[Ms Elizabeth]

DO TELL!!!!!!!!!

i warned you guys i feel like an idiot when it comes to things.....
after 10 years of marriage (15 in the relationship) finally got out ...met my current DH.. OMG, first time i was like....ARE YOU F'NG KIDDING ME! That is what it's supposed to be like!?!?!? WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN!?!?!?

He laughs cause i myself enjoy 2-3 each time...to his 1. I tell him I don't feel bad because I have some catching up to do.

TMI, but personally, on top for me is heaven!

 

[cdex67]

Ok well...I was sort of half asleep lol and when I'm tired I prefer more sort of love making I guess. It always feels amazing when he's on top anyway but this time he leaned down a little and I leaned more into him. Pushed my hips up and sort of just grinded against him rather than him moving so it was more of an up and down than in and out. When I reached my peak I pulled him in really deep and arched my back. It hit both of my "spots" and was just very passionate and incredible. I'm hoping I can recreate it

 

[cdex67]

It was basically the same thing I do when I'm on top (back and forth rather than up and down).

 

[Ms Elizabeth]

come on clock....go faster....i have to go home to try something!!

 

[cdex67]

Hahaha I love it! I hope it works as well for you as it did for me! Even if you don't get off I bet it will still feel really good. I can't wait to try again.

 

[Ms Elizabeth]

I'll let you know later tonight!

 

[cdex67]

Please do!!

 

[patienceiav]

great tip! Will try to get hubby into that position sometime, it's not often soft n smooth goes into the equation I always feel bad for getting 2 when hubby doesn't so we laugh when sometimes I only get one and he's like now we're even! Poor you only one lol

 

[cdex67]

I have days where I just can't get there, no matter how hard I try. Then I have days where it takes no work at all. Those times are amazing but exhausting. I'll get off 4 or 5 times before dh and by then I'm dead.

 

[mkyerby16]

Oh ladies...glad your all enjoying BD at least. I don't remember what that is. DH hasn't been near me lately. Makes things worse bc my face has been sooo broken out since the bfp and I feel hideous. He still tells me I'm beautiful, I think our schedules have just been a bit nuts lately. Hoping to make things better next week while we're on our anniversary trip. I'll have to remember the tip Tmi but him on top is really the only thing that feels good for me for some reason and I guess that won't last long when the belly gets too big so I better enjoy while I can.

I'm still here following along and crossin my fingers for yall... just been feelin a bit guilty for having it so easy.