@ maggzieP
Hi
, yeah on CD35 atm
, so still impatiently waiting for AF to show up.
I know lots of people say it gets better in time but for some people that time is far longer than for others imho, so I think it's important to give yourself how ever much time you need, no matter what anyone else says. No one else can know how you feel and what pain you are in. Even if you tell them, they aren't in your head so they don't really know what it's like for you.
The crocheting is a really good idea, I was never any good at it though, always did it too tight or to loose, could never get the hang of it so I started knitting lol If we ever manage to conceive, baby will have lots of hand knitted blankets, booties, hats and jumpers
It's good to have something to busy your mind and distract you and the Hoodeanie sounds intriguing.
I wish you good luck for your appointment and I really hope you get the outcome you want!
Take care, hun x
Hey
what are your normal cycle lengths like? waiting is the worst because we are our own worst enemies lol im just so glad i learnt to do crochet, i tried knitting but i really was crap at it so this seems to suit me
Went in for a walk to town with fella today, he got himself a bass/accoustic guitar as a treat then took me into the little shop that sells wool, crochet hooks etc
he got me 7 different coloured wool
now i have 2 massive bags full of stuff lol
Thanks hun im prepared for what ever they throw at me
x
Mommyof2reyes - congrats!!! Hope it keeps getting darker!! I had my birthday party last night too, my birthday was on the 25th.
Nexis - I know it's nervewracking, just try to concentrate on if they do find that you need a little "help", they can give it to you and you can get your BFP!
Magic - so sorry to hear about your FIL. Hard to deal with everything all at once isn't it! Fx you and him both get good news soon.
AFM - I'm 6dpo now, and my temp yesterday and today has been the highest it's ever been since I started charting. I'm hoping it's a good sign!!
Happy birthday hun
sorry im being lame with replying at the moment and keeping in touch with everyone, ive had so much going on im just trying to get everything back to normal and im finally sorted
prepared for everything that is thrown at me now
hope everythings good with you
whats been happening with you? what have i missed
Ok ladies I am back. I haven't been on in a while because I have had a BAD cold. I was also spotting very slightly last week. Not enough to fill a 1/4 of a pad in 5 days. Well finally I have a strong tugging in my belly and my BBs are huge. (more than usual) Last night at my birthday party I couldn't hardly eat. Well today while shopping I decided to buy a HPT. I am on CD 40. I thought last week was AF but I didn't count it now. I got a faint
! I can't believe my eyes! I will test in a few days again to see if it gets darker. The pics turned out horrible. There is one on TWW section if you care to look. I think I ovulated really late. I keep using the same brand and get a stark white control area. This time there is a light pink almost invisible line. I asked my 7 year old if he saw anything and he said yes a line. I am in complete shock. This was my first real period since being off depo shot. I have been off for exactly 1 year.
CONGRATS
im loving this :BFP: count is climbing high
Congrats on the BFP that is great news
Hasn't the weather been great this weekend, I wish it would last!!
I am booked in on Tuesday with my regular doc to tell her about what has been going on and that the hospital doc said I needed to be sent for a scan and blood tests. I really hope that she agrees so I can get this sorted out. Fingers crossed the bleeding has basically stopped but I still have a bit of pain and just feel generally bloated and uncomfortable. Even my neck aches which I do not think is supposed to be a symptom but I have found a few posts from people over the internet who have ovarian cysts and complain of neck pain.
Hate, hate, hate needles so not looking forward to blood test if I have to have one but I have had the feeling my hormones are a bit out of whack for a while now.
I think we will deffo be having this cycle off from TTC which in some ways makes me feel like we are wasting it but in other ways after the cycle from hell it will be a relief.
@nexis thanks for the support and good luck at the docs
@wantababybad hope the weather has been better for you this weekend
@lawyerchick good luck with getting to the BMI you need
@magic I am really feeling for you right now. I truly hope everything goes well for you
@jo thanks for the support hope you are doing well
Sorry to anyone I missed and welcome to the new ladies feel free to tell us all about yourselves and how your journey has been so far. We are all here to talk about anything TTC, weight loss or just life in general. I think you will find that we are a really supportive bunch who are here to help each other.
Aww huni
sorry ive not been around but im back now and here to supply massive amounts of
looks like me, you and nexis is going through the same thing at the moment
it is just another slight obsticle in our way but we've climbed so many already so whats one more aye
we will come out stronger i promise, Im petrified of needles so you have my total sympathy babe
here if you need to chat hun xx
How do you not get discouraged I'm in my 2nd month of trying. Af is due soon and I have cramps they feel like at so i doubt I will get my BFP this month..and I guess I'm kinda sad my sister has 2 kids who she pays no attention to and then she just had a miscarriage my thing is if you d t pay attention tithe kids you ave why would you be so careless to get pregnant again. I mean I'm sad that she had a mc but makes mwonder all I want is one baby when is it my turn
hun its hard but you have to find ways to distract yourself or you will go crazy, trust me after 2 years ttc its hard when your body doesnt want to do the things you want it to do. All you really can do is just try to prepare your body as much as you can and try not to stress because its well known that stress can cause havoc with ttc and a lot of women find that when they actually stop thinking about it and obsessing about it, it happens naturally... it doesnt just happen in the movies hun, try not to beat yourself up about things.
A baby will come when they think we are ready, not when we think we are ready
it will happen hun just try to enjoy things more because you want the birth story to be a happy one
i really dont want to have to tell my teenager that he/she was a complete pain in the arse and was nothing but hassle from the get go lol i wanna be able to say we enjoyed the experience and we did everything in our power to have them, take up crocheting and become a happy hooker like we are
Just back from the doctors, definitely PCOS, testosterone was normal last blood test though. GP can't prescribe me anything so being referred to gynae as she said they could prescribe me metformin
Sorry to hear your news hun
we are in the same boat so im here for lots of
we can now move on from the "not knowing" to get treatment and then start back on the TTC train together
waiting on the appointment number from gynae then ill know more, hope everything goes ok for you hun
here if you need a chat x
SORRY about the mammoth message, i know i missed a whole heap of people so im sorry,
Hi and Welcome to all the new ladies :wave: good to see the group is getting a lot bigger
LOVING the :BFP: list is getting longer
gives me lots of hope
What have i missed? ive been really lame at coming on and keeping in touch and im sorry but im back now so be good to get to know all the new ladies
@josephine
where you hiding girly, hope everythings good
hows the groin doing? xx
@jo-bean fella got me LOADS of wool and crocheting stuff
i have markers now so i can make baby booties
or at least try to
Im booked in to the blood bank on the 6th of june, i know im scared of needles but im biting the bullet and im goin to do it
i figured that its my birthday that day so im going to be really happy so it might make it a little easier to deal with
plus ive been told there is a demand for my blood type too as not many people with AB negative blood donate and only 1% of the population have AB neg blood which i didnt know, me, my mum and my sister all have AB negative blood which is cool
i used to give her blood transfusions when i was a kid but developed the phobia when i was 8 and a horrible doctor came at me with a needle and i fainted. been a wimp ever since lol
Going to upload a photo of my new crochet hats for you to see
still learning
well I'm thinking it could be the weight loss making my cycles longer. When I had the 36 day cycle I thought it could be that but the doc reminded that weight loss can do that and sure enough AF did turn up 
yeh i kinda need to do some boys stuff dont i lol looks like im obsessed and just want a little girl lol i keep saying to fella that our daughter wont be able to wear them if she has a normal shaped head lol i just have to make them perfect now lol im going to do a boys hat next after ive finished my Hoodeenie lol its taking forever 
I love the pics, those are really great! 
- I'm more of a drummer than and guitarist or pianist). I think being able to do something constructive like crocheting and/ or creative like playing the guitar is a great thing, especially when you're trying to keep yourself occupied. 
) She seemed unconcerned that I had been having real trouble going for a pee for 2 days and I started to wonder if she realised that the problems were connected but I thought it was better not to tell her to get google up on her computer so I could show her 
