tbh I'm not sure why i an the one being given the silent treatment. Last night we were at OH's mum house and i had my computer with me and OH was using it. Them i went on to send a message on Facebook and i always have it logged on So i went into messages and say a message from OH's ass of a friend who told me last year if i didn't get an a word or leave OH we would become druggo alcoholic parents with a neglected child. So i thought was weird that i would get a message from him. When i opened it i realised it wasn't from him it was a message to him from OH, he hadn't signed out of his account. It said "hey do you still sell weed. I need 50 bucks worth on Friday" i was very shocked but thought no i won't jump to conclusions. On the way home i asked about it. To make a long story short his dad had asked him to find out where he could get some. Now i an really shocked i kind of disappointed that OH would help with that sort of transaction. His dad is supposed to be staying here this week and my first reaction was tat i do not want him staying here and So OH recons i am over reacting and said that he if were to stay away from everyone that did drugs he may as well just always stay home and not go to work. I don't think i overreacTed did i? And i said it in a calm voice. He is the one who got a bit tantrumy
I think you're both right
you couldn't possibly avoid every single person who does weed (obviously you can distance yourself) but your OH was wrong in helping him. If he really needed a place to stay and he's generally a responsible person who wouldn't do this around your LO I'd still let him stay.