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I hope your DS has a good birthday. Good luck for when you test
Maybe OH is just scared. Men are funny creatures and if he's been childless all his life it all probably just feels alien for him to be 'trying' at his age.
I expect if a baby came along he would fall in love with it 100%.
Tell him about me and my OH at 46 and 55 lol who are trying and explain it's more common than he may think and getting pregnant doesn't always come easy so you have to give it your best shot. I expect you've already done that but is it worth going over again?
Tell him how much it means to you.
And of course it's sometimes hard for men to 'perform' on the spot when we say we are fertile, maybe tell him the week but not the exact day for a more relaxed approach?
I really hope you get a line in the next few days.
HAhaha I like your thinking. LOL I think its more my moral side of it. Id feel guilty if it were to work like that.Is there no way you can make him not pull out? Sorry to be so direct but maybe if you are on top?