I got the call back... HCG is at 81
the nurse said it was weird...so they want me to get my blood work done on Monday and then schedule an US next week to see what's going on. Ugh...I just want it to be done so I can start the next cycle. It's nerve racking to think it can be an ectopic. I have really good pain tolerance so that makes me nervous that I won't catch it but I know Sometimes there isn't pain. She also said to call if I start bleeding. I'm lost.
They could be wrong. About all of it. sometimes things are just slow to pick up and then it's all fine. I haven't cont'd reading through. BUT I have heard of women being told this and then going on to have a baby from that very same conception. Even having an US and them telling her it wasn't viable then weeks later, everything was FINE. I hope I'm not jumping the gun on this.
***Okay, good. I was so scared, I was going to say that and then read further and find out you had gotten a definitive answer. I don't know how you feel about terminations but I have know a couple ladies that have went and there was no HB or something else just as devasting, like them saying things weren't developing correctly early on after an US at a certain point, saying it wasn't viable, (yada, yada) and suggesting to go ahead and terminate. IMO I would not do that. Just from what I have seen happen with friends, DOCTORS CAN BE WRONG. They are HUMANS too, and people are unique, sometimes EVERYONE just doesn't "fit' into their textbook. Go with your intuition on this one, hun. Things could be perfectly fine and you go on to have a beautiful baby. I've seen it happen, but only bc those women refused to listen and not terminate prematurely. Now, i'm NOT saying if you found out it was ectopic to not do what they say, but otherwise, I would wait it out. I honestly have a good feeling about this and I think that things are going to be fine. I hate saying that you, bc I don't want to give you false hope, but I am normally right about these kinds of things. I'm hesitant, bc I've never met you or talked to you on the phone, but when it comes to babies, I've had a gift for a long time, like knowing the sex, when they will born, if there will be problems, etc. Without actually speaking to you, I can't truly be sure, but my intuition on this one is that they are wrong, and you should wait this out. Disregard all if you would like, as I am no expert, I just feel like there is more to this then what they are saying, and that things will pick up very quickly for you. Hugs. I hope I"m right.