That OTHER 2 Week Wait!

[LiSa2010]

love! hope everything went well at your OB appt.

grey! are you doing clomid this cycle?

everyone else!

 

[GreyGirl]

drinking lots of h2o and getting ready to head to ob appt..i am so nervous..and anxious..please dear God, let me have some good news..please please please
grey..hope you get lots of in the next couple of days


afm: good news..+opk ....brillant in their colors..will get busy when i return from appt..

Congrats on the +opk! Get !!! I wish I could guarantee sex when I get close to O. I even asked yesterday if once a day for the next few days was plausible so we could definitely catch the egg...he said yes, and today...nothing I'm really getting down about the whole thing. I can't allure him, if he's not in the mood he won't be seduced, I try talking about it, not talking about it, all the same result. I'll be gutted if we miss the slot again this month.

love! hope everything went well at your OB appt.

grey! are you doing clomid this cycle?

everyone else!

Yes, I've taken the clomid, just waiting to O now. How are you?

 

[loveanurse1]

grey...my dh has had his moments..but luckily he has been better about it..hopefully by o time your dh will be revved up and roaring to go
lisa...how are you getting on???
sam..how are you hun
I was tired yesterday so i didn't post but here is the gist of the outcome of my appt.
ob says i have two cysts..a 1.5cm simple cyst (that should resolve on it's own) and the hemorrhagic cyst (2cm) so i believe it shrank. she says with my 25-27day cycles that i am ovulating every month. she asked if i did a fsh test (over the counter one) i said yes and that it was good. she then asked if i wanted a referral to a fs and i said i would rather wait a little longer. She did ask my dh to do a SA..YIkes..but he is going to next week or so as he has to abstain from for 3 days prior.. I go back in three months for a further u/s and at that time if we have not conceived we will check into the fertility specialist. So in conclusion, no bcp's for me and we can continue to ttc..
oh and today is o day....on a full moon..

 

[GreyGirl]

grey...my dh has had his moments..but luckily he has been better about it..hopefully by o time your dh will be revved up and roaring to go
lisa...how are you getting on???
sam..how are you hun
I was tired yesterday so i didn't post but here is the gist of the outcome of my appt.
ob says i have two cysts..a 1.5cm simple cyst (that should resolve on it's own) and the hemorrhagic cyst (2cm) so i believe it shrank. she says with my 25-27day cycles that i am ovulating every month. she asked if i did a fsh test (over the counter one) i said yes and that it was good. she then asked if i wanted a referral to a fs and i said i would rather wait a little longer. She did ask my dh to do a SA..YIkes..but he is going to next week or so as he has to abstain from for 3 days prior.. I go back in three months for a further u/s and at that time if we have not conceived we will check into the fertility specialist. So in conclusion, no bcp's for me and we can continue to ttc..
oh and today is o day....on a full moon..

That's great news!!! I'm so glad you're able to keep TTC and no bcp's, brilliant news!!!!

Today I got a +opk!!!! Same day as last cycle...I hope I o'd today as we had some this morning! I had to work hard to get it mind you, I had a feeling it'd be a + today...I don't know what my chances are of getting any more tonight or tomorrow...but fingers crossed!!!! It'd be ideal if I did ovulate today, def preferable so plenty of waiting!

How's everyone else doing?

 

[GreyGirl]

Well, me again (is everyone else in 2ww now?), I had a + (really dark) opk yesterday!!! And we'd had that morning! My temp didn't go up this morning, so I initiated (and somehow managed to get) some more , but I think maybe he was tired or feeling pressured or something, so let's just say it didn't 'end' well...can you still get pregnant from pre-cum? I've got 0% chance of trying again today as he won't want to after that....so I'll only have yesterdays and this mornings pre-cum to possibly get my pregnant...I was feeling so positive...do I still have any chance? I found out ANOTHER friend is pregnant yesterday, she got pregnant on 1st cycle (we'd talked about TTC together)....when is it my turn?

 

[loveanurse1]

Grey, To be honest, I have heard that pre-cum is more potent than the other ...you may want to look it up. I think you still have a great chance. Men,,when they can have all they want they drag their heels, but if you withhold they act like it's the end of the world.

 

[neffie]

Love - I'm so glad to hear that your appt was positive, and you don't have to take BCPs. Also yay for O day! Hope you caught that huevo!

Grey - I have also heard that you can get pregnant by pre-cum, so hang in there chick! I know it's even harder when it seems like you're fighting this battle all by yourself (I know that's a strong word, but TTC is not far from being a battle at times). I REALLY hope your timing was spot on this cycle.

 

[GreyGirl]

Grey, To be honest, I have heard that pre-cum is more potent than the other ...you may want to look it up. I think you still have a great chance. Men,,when they can have all they want they drag their heels, but if you withhold they act like it's the end of the world.

More potent? What do you mean? I tried to research it this morning and some said it doesn't have in and others say it does because it passes through the same channels....
I'll be honest, I've never said no to I guess I'm just so thankful he's obliged me (do I sound like a man or what?!) that even if he wakes me up at 3am (which is the most frequent way he initiates) and I'm shattered, I'll still do it...I guess maybe once I should say no to see what happens to explain that's how it feels....hurmmm

Love - I'm so glad to hear that your appt was positive, and you don't have to take BCPs. Also yay for O day! Hope you caught that huevo!

Grey - I have also heard that you can get pregnant by pre-cum, so hang in there chick! I know it's even harder when it seems like you're fighting this battle all by yourself (I know that's a strong word, but TTC is not far from being a battle at times). I REALLY hope your timing was spot on this cycle.

It really does feel like a battle sometimes, you're right! I just want to be pregnant, shouldn't be too much to ask! I hope I did O today as we definitely dtd yesterday, so hopefully!!!
How are you doing? Stopped feeling sick? I keep meaning to check in on the PAL thread, but can't bring myself to often, sorry.

 

[NewToAllThis]

I'm still here with you Grey but been ill and busy so no time to comment.
So sorry. Hoping you catch the egg this month.
Will write more soon but I am with you I promise...

 

[loveanurse1]

grey..i have read on a few articles that say pre cum is stronger than regular semen, but then others have said no. So it's indecisive, but i would say yes, how do you account for woman becoming pregnant by utilizing pre-cum situations.....I think you have a strong chance of a mY ob just told us every other day sex and to make sure dh pulls out right after he ejaculates so he won't kill the sperm. the penis staying in the vagina too long afterward will hinder the from swimming
I have on occassion not been in the mood and dh did not like it very much. It doesn't happen very often, but usually when i have a severe migraine but when it lets up i give in. When he is rip raring roaring to go and i just don't want to be budged, i don't. He understood how it felt when he did that to me. There was no amount of me trying to change his mind or vise versus. Of course that was many moons ago and now we are both on the same page and i really haven't been having that problem. Bikini season seems to help that situation....he can't seem to resisit me being in it..lol
new..how are you doing??getting excited for your holiday???
neffie...12wks..you go girl
sam..how are you hun???I miss hearing from you, but i understand
lisa
to everyone else..
off to work

 

[neffie]

It really does feel like a battle sometimes, you're right! I just want to be pregnant, shouldn't be too much to ask! I hope I did O today as we definitely dtd yesterday, so hopefully!!!
How are you doing? Stopped feeling sick? I keep meaning to check in on the PAL thread, but can't bring myself to often, sorry.

Your turn is right around the corner Grey! I know it's hard, but try and keep the faith. I completely understand you not being able to check in on the PAL thread, so don't apologize. I'm doing good, thanks for asking. We had our 12 week scan last week, and all was well (knock on wood!) Still taking it one day at a time though.

 

[loveanurse1]

neffie,,glad to hear things are well..and i must confess, that i feel the same in regard to grey's sentiments..it's hard sometimes..but glad it's all going well for everyone..

 

[neffie]

Love - I totally get how you guys feel. I was there myself not too long ago. Believe me, I want this to happen for each of you as much as you want it for yourselves. Each of you deserve it as much as all of the PAL ladies.

 

[GreyGirl]

Thanks Neffie

Well, I'm leaving here again for a few weeks (though hopefully forever - no offense!) as I've had a temp shift...I'm not sure if I ovulated on Sunday or Monday because of waking up too early yesterday for an accurate temperature. I'm hoping it was Sunday as closer to the !!!

 

[NewToAllThis]

Hi everyone,

I'm here and on cd7, CBFM is still low but DH and I are in holiday mode which means lots of . We DTD cd4 and cd6 and long may it continue until I get my peak.
Hoping its not as early as last month as don't go on holiday until Sunday.

Been really busy this week getting myself sorted (as well as working).
Off for mani, pedi and leg wax tomorrow after work... I love the pre holiday pampering - although I drew the line on a bikini wax, I'm not that brave

Congrats on graduating from here Grey - hope you caught that eggy and that I never see you here again

Hi Love, how are you doing?

Hey Neffie, congrats on 12 weeks hun, hope you are starting to relax now.

Sam - how you doing hun - hope you are ok

 

[lilrojo]

My fxed are crossed for all you to o soon and join us in the pal section.. Lots of love and dust to all of you lovely ladies..

 

[loveanurse1]

new you are indeed pampering yourself..sounds wonderful..and i don't think i will be trying a bikini wax myself..I am praying that my graduation to the tww is permanent.. and i don't have to come back here ..i hope you catch that eggy right and tight..lots of will be available with all that
lil..we are indeed all hoping to join u soon in pal thread..hope you are doing well
neffie..2nd trimester???man..time flies when you are busy growing kidneys and toes and fingers and such
sam..: and i miss ya

 

[lilrojo]

Love-I am keeping my fxed that you all leave the OTWW and TWW for good.. We are keeping your seats warm and waiting.. I am well.. have my next drs appt in a week.. on the 27th. nothing much just meeting the the nurtionist and my ob for first appt.. then schedule my next scan.. ms has been a killer so that makes me happy.. hope you are doing well as well..

 

[GreyGirl]

Hi everyone,

I'm here and on cd7, CBFM is still low but DH and I are in holiday mode which means lots of . We DTD cd4 and cd6 and long may it continue until I get my peak.
Hoping its not as early as last month as don't go on holiday until Sunday.

Been really busy this week getting myself sorted (as well as working).
Off for mani, pedi and leg wax tomorrow after work... I love the pre holiday pampering - although I drew the line on a bikini wax, I'm not that brave

Congrats on graduating from here Grey - hope you caught that eggy and that I never see you here again

Hi Love, how are you doing?

Hey Neffie, congrats on 12 weeks hun, hope you are starting to relax now.

Sam - how you doing hun - hope you are ok

Hey! I hope you O at the perfect time and can keep up the holiday too! Go get that eggy!

 

[samiam]

Thanks for the kind words, ladies. Super depressed. I'm convinced we missed this cycle, OH is leaving tomorrow for a few weeks and this trip wasn't as light and breezy as the past trips have been. Both of us were tired and sad and a bit stressed that we missed the O day. Sorry I haven't been on much, but I just feel like I need some time away.

I've got my fingers crossed for all of you!