Ok so here is the story!
Tuesday night I started getting contractions about 1/2 hr apart, which was an issue with sleeping, but I got a bit of sleep. I had an Appointment on Wednesday at the fetal assessment unit so was 42 weeks exactly, for them to check up, and another sweep (that was number 3 and I was 2-3 cm and 80 effaced) I started getting more frequent contractions 3-4 every 10 mins, that went on through the night (again no sleep!!). Thursday had more contractions about the same frequency. I went for a scan of the placenta to check that it was still working and the baby was happy, all was OK. The contractions where more regular and stronger, and all in my back, so it was killing me to lay down, I had to sit on the edge of the sofa as the contractions where getting stronger and stronger. At 1 am on Friday morning we rang the community Midwife to come, when she arrived she checked me out, and I was 3 cm I could have cried!!! Again I didnt sleep Thursday Night, so Friday I had another appointment at the Fetal assessment unit at 12:30. At 07.45 my waters broke, and there was some greeny mucus in it. So I rang the Community Midwife and she told me to go to my appointment so at 12:30. I sat in the room contracting in quite a lot of pain, and the ladies that had been seeing me for the last 3 days I think knew something was up, and got me into examine me. Again more on the back laying (which was painful) They had a look and said there is a lot of meconium and that I would have to go to labour and delivery. To be honest at that point in time
I was so tired, I didnt really care what was going on. So I waddled down to room on the Labour ward, and currently trying to write this story I cant really remember everything that happened next, I was introduced to the midwives, one put a Cannula in, between contractions, then someone examined me again and said, 4 cm 100% effaced.. It was all the work that was on my back, that was killing me and I couldnt understand why everything had to be done on my back!! They decided because of the meconium I would have to be put on the Synocotin drip to speed everything up, so that they could get her out quicker
the Gas and air was very good, and just made me feel a little drunk my lips were numb, and I got that far away feeling you get when your arms seem to far to do everything!
However they explained that if they gave me the drip it would start hurting a lot more, so suggested either epidural, or Pethadine. Now as everyone knows I wanted a natural birth with only gas and Air. I was so tired, so said fine, give me the epidural. At this point (Im very scared of needles get cold sweats and panic) the epidural Dr came in, sets everything up, I had to be on the bed (pleased to be sitting up!!!) they took my temp, and it was 38.1 (very very high) so they take it again (its 37.8 still to high) so they gave me paracetamol, and start me on a drip and antibiotics, the epidural was done, which credit where its due, was not painful at all and not at all what I expected and shockingly must mention again not painful!! Then everything calmed down, everyone left, and I just sat/layed on my bed the epidural was given at about 7.00pm, I could still feel my legs, and to be honest would have preferred to be allowed to walk around, but they wanted to monitor the contractions and the babies heartbeat, so I just had to sit there
They swapped shifts and the next midwife was a bit of a stickler, so I was practically strapped to the bed to sleep, however sitting up with ridiculously tights bands on which hurt quite a bit when I contracting, just sitting there, trying to sleep which obviously even though I was knackered it isnt very easy sleeping in the sitting up position!!
I was then put on the drip to speed stuff up. At midnight, I was examined and had got to 7 cm
which they were quite impressed with but suggested I get some more sleep but by about 3 O clock in the morning I really wanted to push, they midwife checked me and said, you need to not push, and wait for her to turn, you can start pushing a bit later. Now trying not to push is about the hardest thing I have ever done in my life!!!! I sat there trying so so hard not to push, my Midwife went on her break, and I had two others come in to baby sit me whilst she was away. Well whilst she away I said I cant not push, so they got the consultant who came to check on me and said, you can push now as the baby is there
So I started pushing and after 8 pushes she was out!! I was pushing for 15 minutes in total and my original midwife only just made it in time to get her! She was born at 4 in the morning. Exactly (got the time wrong before as well as not writing her correct name will blame it on the baby brain) she was handed to OH, then checked because of the Meconium, I was a little shocked, as Im sure she was, but everything was fine, however after about 1 hr she was given to me, and I put her to my breast, and though she was obviously starving, (crawling to the breast trying to latch on) but every time she did, she got upset, and then the Midwife noticed that she wasnt breathing as well as she should, so the Paediatrician was brought to check her again, and they decided to take her to the special care baby unit just to check what was going on, but said she should be fine. We waited in Labour room, until I could go up to Post natal, where I was put on a ward with 4 other people and OH was with me, and then we were allowed to SCBU to check on her, well I just burst into tears, She was in an incubator with tubes, and drips, and beeps and after all the hormones, and the fact she had left me clothed and happy and now was not, It was so upsetting.
So currently she is in SCBU on antibiotics for an infection, and oxygen to keep her breathing well, and actually doing quite well, at 8lbs 6 she looks very chubby and fat compared to her counterparts in SCBU, they keep trying to do a lumber puncture but cant get any fluid so they arent sure whether the infection is going to turn to meningitis or just a normal infection, but hopefully (fingers crossed) if everything continues well we will be able to take her home at some point!
So thats the story (I think) sorry its so long and I will attach a few pictures!