~**The Natural Parenting Chat Thread**~

[Twiglet]

Ohh maffie that'd be ace! Do you want anything in return?

 

[Maffie]

No just send me your addy and i'll get posted monday for you

 

[Twiglet]

Ohh thank you

 

[Rachel_C]

We could leave each other feedback on CNT if we buy on here maybe? Been thinking this for a while.

I don't think the admins would like that very much, but do you think we could get away with also posting a very brief advert on CNT (not bothering with photos etc) and then straight away the person who bought it on here could reply and buy it? Then we could leave feedback cos the sale would also have been agreed on there. Also, for people on here, when we buy something could we post a message on their profile with feedback? Can other users see that?

 

[Bekkiboo]

Thanks squish, lunaty & lfernie

The overall reason I sought help was for the kids, I didn't want my behaviour having a detrimental effect on them! Sadly I see quite a few of my bad traits already showing in Jordon, but I don't know if that's him 'being young' or whether my behaviour has rubbed off on him! GOD I HOPE NOT! I just hope I've not left it too late for getting help On a good note though, the lady said they reckon people with Bi Polar are highly creative so maybe I have some well hidden talent that I can channel, although judging by the cake I made I doubt it!

I've brought the boys a new sketch pad each and some new pens, Jordon likes to draw and Devon likes to do what Jordon does lol

I've also strip washed all my nappies today whilst Cassidy is in manny sposies due to the craps

Squish thanks for offering your ears (or rather eyes lol) I may just take you up on that! Although sometimes I can talk for England and sometimes I just observe and don't feel much like socialising if you know what I mean. I then worry people think I'm being ignorant or something but I'm not! It's really hard to explain which is so frustrating!!

So I'm going to try and close my eyes and get some sleep in a moment, I'm shattered after the last couple of days! I'm just dreading coming back down again but I know it's inevitable

Anyway ladies, I hope you all had a fab time today and hopefully now I don't have to worry about work I'll be able to make the next one


Nighty night x x x

 

[Bekkiboo]

^^ sorry about the novel!

 

[Twiglet]

Ahh Bekki I love your honesty well done you for getting help too we're all here for a moan and to lend our eyes if you need them

 

[Blob]

Yea we are def here for a moan well done you for getting help

 

[dippy dee]

Bekki you know i am here for you will give you real hugs as soon as we get the nice weather for the park xx

 

[anothersquish]

Thanks squish, lunaty & lfernie

The overall reason I sought help was for the kids, I didn't want my behaviour having a detrimental effect on them! Sadly I see quite a few of my bad traits already showing in Jordon, but I don't know if that's him 'being young' or whether my behaviour has rubbed off on him! GOD I HOPE NOT! I just hope I've not left it too late for getting help On a good note though, the lady said they reckon people with Bi Polar are highly creative so maybe I have some well hidden talent that I can channel, although judging by the cake I made I doubt it!

I've brought the boys a new sketch pad each and some new pens, Jordon likes to draw and Devon likes to do what Jordon does lol

I've also strip washed all my nappies today whilst Cassidy is in manny sposies due to the craps

Squish thanks for offering your ears (or rather eyes lol) I may just take you up on that! Although sometimes I can talk for England and sometimes I just observe and don't feel much like socialising if you know what I mean. I then worry people think I'm being ignorant or something but I'm not! It's really hard to explain which is so frustrating!!

So I'm going to try and close my eyes and get some sleep in a moment, I'm shattered after the last couple of days! I'm just dreading coming back down again but I know it's inevitable

Anyway ladies, I hope you all had a fab time today and hopefully now I don't have to worry about work I'll be able to make the next one


Nighty night x x x

Dont worry about it, Im the same Im around if you ever need/want

 

[Twiglet]

I just got bought two BN BB's minky that I hope I love!

 

[anothersquish]

hmph..I will love my shiney new BBs when they friggin get here...
I need them to arrive NOW because I need to save the pennies I make from selling the ones I already have or that are girly for the Ittis or Holdens

 

[Twiglet]

no fun!

 

[anothersquish]

I just fell off my chair...friggin baby monitor is on down here and OH turned it on upstairs and its on super loud...I thought the dog was talking to me....!!!!!
crap...now its beeping.....
why is it on OH is upstairs with the baby...

 

[Twiglet]

Liam leaves ours on all the time and sometimes I hear him talking so nicely to Caitlyn and then last night I heard him tut at her men are silly!

 

[Bekkiboo]

I don't know what's wrong with me tonight, I'm so fed up it's unreal! Firstly we were supposed to go out for a meal which never happened so I got myself into a right mood. Mark kept asking me to order something but I refused. Told him I wasn't hungry so why the hell should I order food? So he ordered something minus what I normally have and I kept up the front that I wasn't hungry even though I am really hungry. So everyone but me has eaten and I went to get a glass of water and asked mark nicely to clean up and wash the dishes. His respose, I might do! So I say to him it's his mess not mine so please clear it up, and he said why should I! So I've just put everything including plates and cutlery in the bin... Problem solved!

I don't think I'll be around for a few days, I'm not good company when I'm like this. I just want to curl up in a ball and stay there. I feel so stupid for behaving the way I have but at the same time can't stop myself. I really want to delete this now because I don't want to make anyone uncomfortable or encourage anyone to keep their distance but at the same time if I don't post it stays in my head and I don't think that's a good idea! I just don't understand how I can get so worked up over something so trivial???

So I'll maybe catch up with you ladies in a few days unless I perk up before then.

 

[Twiglet]

Hun, you haven't made me feel uncomfortable!

It's not fair on Mark to wind you up and I do the same thing with the hunger I hate having made plans for Liam to break them! Do stick around though! Even if it's a moan a day / post, join me! None of my posts have been happy atm and each contain a little moan so you can join me?!

always here for you hun!

 

[anothersquish]

Bekki, interestingly I have done similar before myself...except I took the plates outside and smashed them on the front path...*cough*
Ive been known to do all sorts of wildly out of proportion things!

It may help if Mark goes to speak to someone about how not to trigger reactions in you, perhaps a local MIND group or carers association would be a place for him to start getting info.

 

[Maffie]

Bekki you dont make anyone feel uncomfortable, I think having somewhere to come talk even if its to vent helps

 

[JayleighAnn]

Bekki you don't make me uncomfortable, I hate it when Lee makes plans and then cancels

I've been away at the natural parenting meet...and came home to fluff I got a mammy made fleece pocket nappy with a fleece wrap I've never used fleece before so will be very interested to try it