The Vasectomy Reversal Wives & Girlfriends Club. aka (VR WAGs)

[wannabeprego]

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@Sukisam, Welcome to the thread!!! I am so sorry that you had such a bad experieince with that fertility specialist. What she said was horrible and not correct!!! I am a size 16 as well, and my DR's didnt say anything to me about my weight!!! With all of the modern medicine and technology women get pregant well into their 40's!!!! So please do seek other help from another fertility specialist and dont give up on your dreams of having another baby!!! Good luck and baby dust to you hun, I hope you get your BFP soon!!!

@CJones, I am sorry that the got you hun... But, I am glad your moving went well and that you guys are all settled now!! Good luck and baby dust to you for this cycle!!!

@Happy, Good luck and baby dust to you too hun..I hope you get your BFP !!!..I hope the stays away!!

 

[wannabeprego]

@HappyBunny, i saw another thread were you said you were moving ahead with IUI coming up and i just wanted to wish you god luck with it hun, I hope you get your BFP finally!!.I am glad that you are still moving ahead with it despite your DH's SA numbers, after all you wont know what is possible if you dont at least try and see!!! I got everything crossed for you!!..

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[chattyB]

Hi Sukisam, welcome to the group!

I've been off colour for a few days now with a horrid cold but gradually feeling better! Waiting to (hopefully) Ovulate - I'm hitting it on all fronts this month with soy iso, temping, CBFM, IC OPKs in the afternoons, softcups after BDing. If I do Ovulate, I'm hoping to spot it this cycle!

Babydust to all!

 

[wannabeprego]

Hi Sukisam, welcome to the group!

I've been off colour for a few days now with a horrid cold but gradually feeling better! Waiting to (hopefully) Ovulate - I'm hitting it on all fronts this month with soy iso, temping, CBFM, IC OPKs in the afternoons, softcups after BDing. If I do Ovulate, I'm hoping to spot it this cycle!

Babydust to all!

I hope yoou feel better soon!! Good luck and baby dust to you for this cycle!!!

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[HappyBunnyAB]

@HappyBunny, i saw another thread were you said you were moving ahead with IUI coming up and i just wanted to wish you god luck with it hun, I hope you get your BFP finally!!.I am glad that you are still moving ahead with it despite your DH's SA numbers, after all you wont know what is possible if you dont at least try and see!!! I got everything crossed for you!!..

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Thank you! I'm glad my dr allows me to do it because I know there are other drs who are very strick with the required amounts. From the beginning the dr has always said what he recommends but it was our choice to try IUI. The first time we did it I was so heart broken I went in and dropped my sample came back and waited for two hours for them to pull me in a room and tell me there was no sperm I couldn't hold back my tears I was so devastated! We did something different that day, DH went to work early in the morning and came back to give me my sample. I read that sperm can hide if you have tons of stress or are worried, and by him going to work and trying to get his day started he began to stress about the things he needed to get done before returning home to do his sample. I was so upset at him for not remembering to stay home that day. I'll never do that again

The next time we do IUI I'm going to tell those girls that if they do not find sperm to call me so I can go back to work. I do not want to wait around for a "no sperm"

Now I'm just waiting for to come so I can have my clomid back

Thanks babe! I hope we all get our soon. We deserve it!

 

[HappyBunnyAB]

Hi Sukisam, welcome to the group!

I've been off colour for a few days now with a horrid cold but gradually feeling better! Waiting to (hopefully) Ovulate - I'm hitting it on all fronts this month with soy iso, temping, CBFM, IC OPKs in the afternoons, softcups after BDing. If I do Ovulate, I'm hoping to spot it this cycle!

Babydust to all!

I know the feeling! I remember reading on this thread of ladies who had a cold and then finding out they were pregnant.... I hope this is you! What days did you take soy? I hope you get better soon it looks like you are going to be a busy in the this month!!

 

[chattyB]

Thanks Hun! I took soy on cd2-6 .... Turned me into a crabby cow for a few days, but if I Ov (preferably with a BFP!) I'll be very very happy indeed.

 

[sukisam]

Thanks ladies for the warm welcome,
you're all right I don't want to give up on my dreams yet. I think I'm going to get my CD 3 and CD 21 (7 days post ov) bloods re-done at my GP's and then make another appointment with another fertility doctor.

Happybunny-I'll keep everything crossed for the IUI

Chattyb-I;m liking the sound of feeling off colour FX it's signs of a

Wannabepreggo- apparently size 16 is so now!!


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[chattyB]

I'd love to take feeling off colour as a good sign but I've not Ov'd yet lol. DH and I have an unexpected night to ourselves tonight! The oldest is away in Rome on a school holiday, the younger two are away to their dads (schools off tomorrow). We're both full of cold so we're sitting here drinking sherry as we don't have the ingredients for a hot toddy ... It's my first alcoholic drink in MONTHS and I plan to enjoy it! (kinda hoping it might be the missing link to a BFP this month haha)

Don't give up hope huni! Insist on a referal to another FS. I cant believe how badly you were treated! Truly shocking. Im sure we'll all get our BFPs eventually ladies!

 

[chattyB]

Waaaahooooo!! (happydance!). I got a peak, I got a peak, I got a peak!!

Well ladies, after months of not detecting Ov on CBFM or the smilies, I'm over the moon to see those 3 bars this morning! It really looks like the Soy Iso did the trick!

Mission 1 - Detect LH surge - DONE
Mission 2 - Ovulate -
Mission 3 - BFP -

Babydust to all!

 

[sukisam]

Fantastic news I'm reeally pleased for you.
Severe for you, I hope your OH's had his weetabix!! Get lots of in place to greet the eggy when it comes!
FX you can complete your 3 steps and get a great big
Sending you lots of

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[sapphire1]

Chatty, fab news! Go get and lots of to you (and everyone else lol!)

 

[cjones82]

I have a question for all you ladies that have used pre seed. This is our second month of using it although i dont really count last month as because we were moving we didnt actually get much in in my fertile window. I guess what i want to know is how much you all used and did you use the same amount everytime? the few days leading up to ovulation i thought we should use a bit more so have been using 3g but i thought around the peak time only use 1.5g as technically i should have my own CM but i dont know, can using to much affect your chances? i know it is a sperm freindly lubricant, but can using to much make the sperm less able to swim? any info would be great.

to all x

 

[chattyB]

I'm not sure! I'd imagine that too much might have a diluting effect tho. I find it makes everything too slippy so I prefer to put a little in a softcup as "turbo charged sperm food" before inserting.

Babydust!

 

[wannabeprego]

@Chatty, Thats awesome that you OV'ed... Make sure you get in lots and lots of ...Good luck and baby dust to you hun!!

 

[sapphire1]

CJ, I used preseed the month I conceived Holly. I had the pre-filled applicators and used the whole lot each time we BD. I never get EWCM though, so I'm not sure about the diluting effect. The instructions do say to use the whole thing, but I know a lot of women find it too much. I've used it on 2 of the TTC #2 cycles, but had no luck. We tried conceive plus this cycle - but it was an old tube I found that I bought ages ago, it's probs out of date

 

[HappyBunnyAB]

Waaaahooooo!! (happydance!). I got a peak, I got a peak, I got a peak!!

Well ladies, after months of not detecting Ov on CBFM or the smilies, I'm over the moon to see those 3 bars this morning! It really looks like the Soy Iso did the trick!

Mission 1 - Detect LH surge - DONE
Mission 2 - Ovulate -
Mission 3 - BFP -

Babydust to all!

Yay...... time to get busy!!

 

[HappyBunnyAB]

Hi CJ,

The first time we tried it we used exactly as the instructions said to fill the tube and it ended up being to much for us, so after we started just to use half. I guess it would depend on you. Good luck!

 

[wannabeprego]

@Cjones, I just use the lubrication now when we need it and dont buy the insert one anymore...... At first I used the tube with the inserts, but I didnt have any luck with getting my BF, I also filled up the entire tube but it was way to much and the one with the inserts is a little more pricey than just the lubrication one as well...You will probably just have to adjust the amount you use to your liking and personal taste....

 

[nicoley]

okey doke I am just curious...so around ovulation time which today got a very positive opk today...do you guys bd every day or every other seeing the chances of our mens sperm count being lower compared to others?? Just being nosey...lol