Things I cannot say out loud....

Hv, or whoever is doing the injections today....

Please don't hurt my baby! :cry: xx
 
if you are genuinely scared he will hurt you, then maybe it is time to think about getting out before he does. if you have nowhere to go, women's aid can help you:

https://www.womensaid.org.uk/?gclid=CNbQvY6n56oCFYwPfAodjEnT8Q

really hope everyone is safe this morning x
 
Kalah - I hope you're safe =).

The world - I turned my back to grab something and Sophie fell off the footrest where I had just changed her. She landed on her shoulder and head and screamed so loud :cry:. She was quiet after less than 2 minutes, had a feed and has been smiling and playing again, but I feel too horrible to admit me being such a bad mummy :cry:.
 
Awww! Don't worry, she's obv fine, but you need a cup of tea! :) x
 
Lauki - its awful but it happens - Caitlyn fell right off the bed the other day -I should know better than to turn my back on her now she is crawling but I did and BANG! I felt awful for ages but she was fine after a few minutes crying - its shock I think that makes them yell so loudly as much as anything

You are NOT a bad Mum!

Mizze xx
 
She's really drowsy now and I couldn't waker her up from sleeping. I hate being so worried, but my husband's too busy at work to come and take her to the hospital as I don't have a car :(. Ugh..
 
Call your doctor and get someone out to see you ASAP! :hugs: Drowsy is usually not a good sign, hun. :hugs:
 
I agree! Call the doc! Always better to be safe! :hugs: xx
 
Thanks everyone I just saw the posts back to mine, that actually means a lot that you all care. After last night I'm feeling especially sensitive. I just woke up from 5 hours of sleep I am exhausted. OH ended up just going to bed and didn't send anymore argue-texts thankfully..I swear it was like he just did not want to stop being an ass! Had the nerve to tell me I need to come to bed because I have to be up with Kili in the morning. Like I didn't already know that..she's my daughter..and there's NO way in hell I'm asking him for a thing any more especially not to look after her for an hour so I can get extra sleep! I'd rather be sleep deprived. I'm so done with him, last night was just it I've had it I'm not coming back here after I go back home in 2 weeks I'm staying there I don't need his crap any more. Now I just have to wait for him to wakeup and I'll tell him that. I'll go stay at MIL's house down the street until I leave if I have to he's never going to make me feel like he did last night I'm just not having it. Happened once with the last man I didn't stand up it got worse. If this one even tries to get in my face I'm ripping his eyes out with my fingernails and shoving them down his fking throat. :growlmad: :gun:
 
I said to my husband on the phone: If you decide that you care about your daughter, let me know. He got angry and hang up on me. I know it was a low blow, but it worked as he's gonna come home now. If a bit of a row is what it takes for Sophie to get checked out, I think I can handle that. He wanted me to walk to the hospital. It's like an hour and a half that way, idiot ><. She's never fallen asleep that easily without any crying whatsoever and no matter what I did, she wouldn't wake. So honestly I don't care how busy they are at his work.

Kalah, good on you that you step up for yourself and your daughter! I hope things turn out like you want them to and you can be happy :), lot's of :hugs:!
 
Hun, I wouldn't even wait. If she won't wake up easily, that is a sign of a head injury. :hugs:
 
She woke up now and seems quite pleased. I just don't know what to do, cause normally when she falls asleep on my and I move half an inch or breath too deep she wakes up. The fact she's up and alert now does that make up for it? Sorry for hijacking the thread, you ladies just seem to respond quickly :).
 
Kalah you go girl, stick up for you and your LO, u dont need him, your family will be much more supportive.

Lauki i hope your LO is ok hun!
iv had to do the exact same thing with my OH when work was too busy to come home in an emergency, if you care about the health of your daughter you will get home now! if your not home in the next x amount of minutes then we wont be here when you get back because whats the point in LO having someone in her life that doesnt care. its harsh but they just dont get it sometimes and need a big kick up the A hole to get moving! lol! xx
 
She woke up now and seems quite pleased. I just don't know what to do, cause normally when she falls asleep on my and I move half an inch or breath too deep she wakes up. The fact she's up and alert now does that make up for it? Sorry for hijacking the thread, you ladies just seem to respond quickly :).

id take her the docs to get a quick check over, the sudden sleepiness and not waking up could of just been the exhaustion from the shock and crying, but its always best to get these things checked xxx
 
To LO - you are 9 weeks old and cannot cope on 10 minutes sleep in 4 hours. I have fed you, changed you, tried your swing, the comfy pillow and me. You are twirling your hair and are obviously exhausted, so - here's an idea GO TO BLOODY SLEEP!!!

To Auntie June - if you decide to turn up unannounced and without checking, you run the risk that me and LO have gone out. I have had a baby, not had my head amputated - I have to go to the district nurse x3 weekly, and LO likes going to the park. You have done this 4 times now and you would think you would learn. Leaving me a grumpy answerphone message will not make me stay in everyday on the off chance you may decide to pop by.

To the District Nurse - seriously?? You expect me to change Pudding's important MRI for a 10 minute wound check?? I think not love.
 
To LO - you are 9 weeks old and cannot cope on 10 minutes sleep in 4 hours. I have fed you, changed you, tried your swing, the comfy pillow and me. You are twirling your hair and are obviously exhausted, so - here's an idea GO TO BLOODY SLEEP!!!

To Auntie June - if you decide to turn up unannounced and without checking, you run the risk that me and LO have gone out. I have had a baby, not had my head amputated - I have to go to the district nurse x3 weekly, and LO likes going to the park. You have done this 4 times now and you would think you would learn. Leaving me a grumpy answerphone message will not make me stay in everyday on the off chance you may decide to pop by.

To the District Nurse - seriously?? You expect me to change Pudding's important MRI for a 10 minute wound check?? I think not love.

they expected you to change such an important appointment! are they crazy! i would of laughed in her face! stupid woman! that is deffo something that you should of said out loud!

Have you tried ashtons and parsons powder to settle LO? when DD was little and being restless and not sleeping properly for over 3 days i would give her half the reccomended amount for her age and it worked a treat! its herbal and used to soothe her to sleep after a little while. i wouldnt of survived some days without this!!
 

Users who are viewing this thread

Members online

Latest posts

Forum statistics

Threads
1,650,308
Messages
27,145,010
Members
255,759
Latest member
boom2211
Back
Top
monitoring_string = "c48fb0faa520c8dfff8c4deab485d3d2"
<-- Admiral -->