Ttc #1 Positive thinking buddies, sticking together. (13 BFPs, 2 angels)

[Loobs]

The last we heard was she went for a scan and the baby was measuring much smaller than it should have been, and they were told to expect mc. So awful x

 

[laura2lyn4]

Oh no.. That is very very saddening I have hope she will get her rainbow baby in her arms one day soon!

 

[Michellebelle]

i've been lurking too

laura, seems like you should have a bfp by now with your temp still up!! then i wondered, maybe you ovulated on CD48...? and so it's still a bit early? fingers crossed for you!

michellebelle, i'm totally with you on the "would be nice to be pregnant by may" train. and hopefully the specialist can help you get your bfp!

loobs, i actually just read the whole "new" positive thinking buddies get their bfps thread last night. exciting and also sad. hard to believe you are already 12 weeks along, congrats!

Yes! Hopefully we can all be pregnant by May! I have my appt Wed morning and DH is doing a SA at the exact same time. So hopefully we can get some good next steps soon and make any adjustments and get preg by May!

I've been following but not commenting.

Sorry the witch got you Michelle

Laura - I've to everything crossed that this is it for you. I was crampy too, and had the "imminent AF" heaviness etc until around 6 weeks.

x

Thanks Loobs! Not too sad about it this past month since I feel like I have some good next steps! Also DH and I are taking a mini-vacation for part of next week with friends and it will be nice to be able to have some wine (and not to have to explain why I'm not drinking). So I looked at the positive side of things this month!

I hope you are doing well and everything is going great with your pregnancy!

The last we heard was she went for a scan and the baby was measuring much smaller than it should have been, and they were told to expect mc. So awful x

Oh no. That is heartbreaking. My thoughts go out to her and her husband.

 

[Pearly86]

Omg really feeling v sad for her and family hope she gets answers to all her question as how to avoid this and achieve healthy pregnancy!!

Loobs how are u hun??

Fx for all here!!

 

[laura2lyn4]

Feeling pretty crampy today had a rough morning at work, hoping it's just stress feelings but they sure feel A LOT like af

 

[laura2lyn4]

Oh hey AF, I was wondering when you were going to crash my party

 

[jumpingo]

Booooooooo!!!!

 

[Michellebelle]

Noooooo. Ugh. Sorry about AF Laura. Did you say you have a doctors appt coming up in March?

 

[laura2lyn4]

Yea I have one with a fertity specialist in March. He is supposed to be the best for my area. Hoping he has some good news for me that doesn't involve tons of drugs! I am going to stay away from the clomid for as long as possible. I just don't trust persxription drugs very much

 

[hanrh]

Hi ladies. Keep meaning to Pop over and check in. Looks like I'll be joining you girls again.
Went for my 12 week scan and as loobs said baby was only measuring 7 weeks. We have since been got a further scan and told I was misscarrying so have had to go through a d and c again! Feeling lost and numb again! Have an appointment with a specialist early March so hoping I can get some answers!

Hubby has been amazing and have bought me a puppy. She is amaizng and is called hope (my counsellor says it stands for hold on pain ends)! She is keeping me busy and giving me a distraction from my awful thoughts!

So sorry af got you ladies this month! I'm glad you are managing to see specialists about it soon tho. Who'd have thought having a baby would be so stressful!!

Lots of love to u all x

 

[jumpingo]

sending (happy puppy) thoughts your way hanrh.

i don't know what else to say...

...we are here if you ever just need to cry or vent or spam someone with puppy photos.

 

[laura2lyn4]

Dogs definitely help you get through the tough times, that's why I have 6!! Haha, you are definitely in my prayers, fx this specialist can give you some answers! I have been looking into bioidenticle progesterone which can help prevent mc, you can find more info about it on natural fertility websites, could be worth looking into for you?

 

[hanrh]

Thank you jump and Laura. Your kind words really help! And don't worry I'll definitely be spamming you with puppy photos soon!!

Laura - I've not heard of that progesterone that you mention?! How does it work?! I'm not sure I'm my mc are 'normal' or realted in why I lost them as far as I can gather. But any help would be much appreciated!!

 

[laura2lyn4]

https://natural-fertility-info.com/progesterone-fertility-guide There is the link, hope it can help!

 

[Michellebelle]

Hanrh, so sorry to hear about your loss. Hopefully a sweet puppy will help. They can definitely be a great distraction! Mine is here sleeping next to me, waiting for a walk. Makes me get out of the house, which is always great to distract me and provide a good quiet walk.

 

[Loobs]

I'm doing ok thanks (can't remember who asked - baby brain has landed!)

Sorry the witch got you Laura.

Good to hear from you hanrh x

 

[hanrh]

Thank you Laura this is really interesting.

Michelle - a good quiet walk is definitely needed at the moment!!

Loobs good to hear from you too

 

[Camichelle]

Just wanted to pop in to check on you ladies since I haven't in a while and am heartbroken for you Hanrh. Sending massive virtual hugs! Such a great idea to get a puppy. I'd love to see a pic! I did the same think last June after one of my losses and got a kitten. She really helped.

AFM, got a faint frer positive this morning first cycle trying since November loss but I'm not getting my hopes up because like with my last two chemicals I feel the line should be darker at this point. We'll see I guess.

Hope everyone else is doing well.

 

[jumpingo]

camichelle!!:wave:

i hope it's just a shy rainbow.

 

[hanrh]

So nice to hear from you Carmichaelle. Here is a pic of my little hope - she's such a little cutie but it's chewing on everything at the moment! Any of you ladies with puppies - any tips?

Carmichelle - so exciting about your bfp mi am praying hard for your rainbow right now. :babydust: