I'm so sorry.
Please try not to panic. I'm sure everything is fine. I'm sure the BFP calls get made first every day, but then they start to get backed up and it just takes a while to get back to everyone. My nurse has told me that even though the clinic closes at 4, she usually isn't done making calls until after 6 every day. And I'm going to say it now (and repeat myself as necessary!) - when they call, do NOT worry about the actual number! TRUST your clinic when they tell you it's risen enough. Don't go googling to find out what you think it should be. There is a HUGE range that is considered normal - googling that stuff will ONLY make you worry - so trust your medical team. If they say it's risen enough, it's risen enough. Enjoy your pregnancy - you've been through a lot to get here and you need to enjoy it, not worry about it.
5-6 days later I was in bed trying to sleep and I got the worst cramps...def pre-pill period-like and very very way down in the pelvis area dead center. I was in tears it was so bad, needed the heating pad. Next night - same thing but this time it was on the left hand side of the pelvis. ok after that (that was about 3 days ago). Now my breasts are so tender and heavy and sore (they also have grown in the past 3 months, up a whole cup size and still growing!) 
especially to Missyt and to OMM. 
Hi Everyone - am very new to this site, first post!
Here's my story:
due to some very heavy periods, I was put on the pill 9 years ago and it helped immensely to regulate me. I just got married this past January (yay!) and I went off the pills a couple of months ago.
this month: I'm pretty sure I ovulated on Memorial day weekend. As my period was on my bday in May(nice gift, huh?) this was a month we were going to try and we did, every day that whole weekend.
Yesterday I was not hungry at all but was craving cheese cheese and more cheese. Then I was in church and the AC was going and I was literally sweating buckets! My hubby is worried about me but I just tell him all is ok. Now I'm peeing like a racehorse lol....
My 25 days, if it will stay like that, will be next Monday. This week will be so hard to wait! I'm going to go and get some thai food today as I'm craving it and the weird thing is - I never ever eat thai food! Man! our bodies are wonders aren't they?
Few extra things to note: I have some auto-immune issues and my husband is 19 years older than me....Not that he's old (I just turned 36, he will be 55 next month) and he already has 2 kids from long ago so there are no issues with his swimmers! lol (hopefully!)
baby bumps and dust to you all!
beth
hope you feel better soon.
(my dh doesn't know he is on here either)
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. I hope we can keep the momentum going.
. I guess the only good thing about the BFN is that I can go on this winery tour in 2 weeks and actually get my money's worth! I'm sure you'll feel at home here as a lot of us have gotten married later in life and have just started TTC since we've gotten married. There are also many other ladies on here who have been married for a while and have been TTC for a bit longer. I find these are the ladies that give the best advice as they've been through so much. As far as DH having children from a previous relationship, don't rule that out as he being in tip top shape just yet. Just because he had children many years ago doesn't mean that his physiology is still the same. My DH has an 11 year old but he formed a spermatocle about 6 years ago. His numbers are borderline on the low side so things have changed for him in the past 11 years since his son was born. I don't mean to scare you but if you need to get tested for fertility issues, don't rule out tests for him just because he has had children in the past. Besides, if it doesn't happen for you right away, you'll be putting too much pressure on yourself thinking you are the problem just because he's already had kids. I truly hope you don't have to go through that and you get your BFP soon. Best of luck on your 2ww.
I was kind of offended because I wanted to go off and tell him why I don't have children yet. Unfortunately I couldn't find a decent guy to settle down with until I was 30 and that supposed decent guy turned out to be abusive so I had to wait even longer to find my 2nd husband who I am trying to have children with for over a year and 4 IUI's later. After that meeting was when I had the message from the doctor's office about my BFN.
Just wanted to say
Lava - sounds like good news, brilliant
Beth, welcome, sounds like lots of symptoms!
and love to you all! Onmymind, you are right, those months were you don't go through all the medications, bw/us, etc are a little bit easier to take the BFN. That is exactly why I need to take the summer off and not think about it. Thanks for making me feel better.
Lava, everything sounds like you are right on track. I don't blame you for getting a little freaked out earlier. I would be the same way. I'm glad at least one of us got a BFP this month
Luvvi, good to see you back. I've missed you, soulsister!
FM, thanks for your encouraging words. I'm still fx'd for you and I'm hoping you are our BFP for June!
MJ, I'm definately having a
Beth, welcome!
AFM, I did leave work early so I could come home and break down and cry. But besides that, I found out that our new program manager who is pregnant with twins is 49! She also has a 2 year old daughter. I really wish I could approach her and ask her what her secrets are. She is a captain in the military so I'm sure her career came first and she put off having a family until later in life. On that note, I was in an informal meeting today and we were talking about her, one of my managers made some comment like "those who wait later in life to have kids" and he shot me a smirking look.
I saw a pregnant women in the supermarket yesterday, while pushing her twin boys in one of those carts that has the car in front of it. Came home and burst into 
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Hi Everyone - am very new to this site, first post!
Here's my story:
due to some very heavy periods, I was put on the pill 9 years ago and it helped immensely to regulate me. I just got married this past January (yay!) and I went off the pills a couple of months ago.
this month: I'm pretty sure I ovulated on Memorial day weekend. As my period was on my bday in May(nice gift, huh?) this was a month we were going to try and we did, every day that whole weekend.
Yesterday I was not hungry at all but was craving cheese cheese and more cheese. Then I was in church and the AC was going and I was literally sweating buckets! My hubby is worried about me but I just tell him all is ok. Now I'm peeing like a racehorse lol....
My 25 days, if it will stay like that, will be next Monday. This week will be so hard to wait! I'm going to go and get some thai food today as I'm craving it and the weird thing is - I never ever eat thai food! Man! our bodies are wonders aren't they?
Few extra things to note: I have some auto-immune issues and my husband is 19 years older than me....Not that he's old (I just turned 36, he will be 55 next month) and he already has 2 kids from long ago so there are no issues with his swimmers! lol (hopefully!)
baby bumps and dust to you all!
beth
I'm glad you found us and jumped right in. Congratulations on your recent marriage! 
Onmymind, you are right, those months were you don't go through all the medications, bw/us, etc are a little bit easier to take the BFN. That is exactly why I need to take the summer off and not think about it. Thanks for making me feel better.
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AFM, I did leave work early so I could come home and break down and cry. But besides that, I found out that our new program manager who is pregnant with twins is 49! She also has a 2 year old daughter. I really wish I could approach her and ask her what her secrets are. She is a captain in the military so I'm sure her career came first and she put off having a family until later in life. On that note, I was in an informal meeting today and we were talking about her, one of my managers made some comment like "those who wait later in life to have kids" and he shot me a smirking look.
And I'm glad you're going to have a drink tonight. 
Hi Ladies - - this "of course" is a clear indication I should test right?
Needless to say it was a BFN. While I know I'm still not entirely out, I'm thinking that just might be the case especially since my temp took a nice dive this morning. For now I'm just going to jump on "WW" at least unt AF shows up
Hope everyone is doing good, take care!
So ladies, I have to admit I cracked this morning....yes, I know, I Know!!.. yesterday brought a full day of never before experienced "symptoms"
People all over the world, join hands! Start a whatevs wagon, whatevs wagon! 
