I haven't asked. I actually just got a message when I got out of work. They will call in the AM to confirm the appointment, so I will ask then. I just don't know enough. I am wondering if reading up on it as much as I have has just stirred my anxiety about it. I like to control situations, so I don't always let go and let things happen I think I will dig around with them tomorrow, though...thanks!
Sorry to jump in so late in the game but I had not looked at this thread...was led here by Indigo.
I am having a 5day transfer on Friday but they assured me that the success rates for 3 days and 5 are the same.
The reason the are doing a 3 day on you is because you have less than 5 embryos so they don't want to risk losing those by waiting...I agree with what you are saying but apparently they may have a better chance to make it in you than outside of you. So that is why.
I had been scheduled for a tentative 3 day too but they called me this morning and said we are going for the 5 day (so Friday)
I know people who have been successful on the 3 day so fingers crossed for you!!!!
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sending you loads of positive vibes !