HappyAuntie
LTTTC#1 after 5 mcs
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I'm not having the best day, first email I opened was my prego friend that I'd confided my TTC worries to (before she got pg) has sent me a second scan, and I've told her that I can't be the person she talks to about this stuff, she's pretty pissed off and has sent me back an email that she thinks I am being too sensitive.
Sorry to say this because I know you have a relationship with her, but she is clearly no friend to you. Even if she can't understand the pain you're in, she knows you're in pain and that should be enough - if she truly cared about you, she wouldn't need any other explanation, full stop. I wouldn't bother trying to explain any further - she's already made it clear that your feelings are not important to her - you told her honestly how you feel and she doesn't care. It's not like you are the only person on earth she can show her scan pics to. This is an unequal relationship - she feels she is more important than you are. If she were to apologize to you at some point in the future, I would accept and forgive, and keep her at arm's length.