Well thanks so much ladies for your support as ever. I caught him online earlier today and yes, it is kind of the worst. I think it is time for him to get on with his life - he has met a couple of people who he thinks are dating material and it is not really possible for him to do that in the current situation. I kind of knew this scenario was likely when we started so it is not too much of a shock. Like you say he has been great so far. He says we can give it one more shot at the end of October if this month is not successful (and I'm really not feeling it tbh) but after that it is unlikely there will be more chances.
At the moment I am of the opinion that I do not want to go this alone so i will not look for a SD. I am, to be quite honest, sick of doing everything on my own, and this would just be too much.
I'll give it a few days for my thoughts to process (and I will likely be testing on Monday) and see what I think about things then.
p.s. sorry for the me post - hope everyone is OK
Butterfly hope that's not what you are thinking. HUGS HUGS
Chris I thought of sthg for you. Check out the BNP sell and swap forums. Sometimes women have left over meds they don't need and they try to sell it half price or give them away. I saw a thread the other day like that. That must be gone by now but you never know sthg might be again. xxxx
Update:
hormone levels dropped to 1566
Little bit sad but concentrating on the positives, i can now look at doing yoga tacher training and go and 'enjoy' the birthday i'm going to tonight.
thanks again ladies for all your support
Ladies, hugs to you all!!! I am going to add to the depressing news we have had lately with Twinkle and Sunny, DH and I have decided that if we cannot get the meds for free with the Compassionate care program then we are going to give up on the IVF idea, we just cant see financing $5000 for meds, we would end up paying $107 a month for the next 60 months!! And i just cant see paying that when our chances of getting pg are so low. Skye has offered a great idea that i could check the BNB buy/sell forum and i might find someone there that i could get a deal with, so i will check into that. I know you ladies are disapointed and its not over just yet, but like i said we just cant see spending that much, we are barely making it right now, i just dont think we can add another $107 payment and for 5 years!! So fingers are crossed that we will get lucky still, but at least if not, then i am done. Thank you all so much for all your support, i love all you ladies, you have all been so wonderful to me!!
Well thanks so much ladies for your support as ever. I caught him online earlier today and yes, it is kind of the worst. I think it is time for him to get on with his life - he has met a couple of people who he thinks are dating material and it is not really possible for him to do that in the current situation. I kind of knew this scenario was likely when we started so it is not too much of a shock. Like you say he has been great so far. He says we can give it one more shot at the end of October if this month is not successful (and I'm really not feeling it tbh) but after that it is unlikely there will be more chances.
At the moment I am of the opinion that I do not want to go this alone so i will not look for a SD. I am, to be quite honest, sick of doing everything on my own, and this would just be too much.
I'll give it a few days for my thoughts to process (and I will likely be testing on Monday) and see what I think about things then.
p.s. sorry for the me post - hope everyone is OK
I've got my fingers crossed for you Sunny. I went in too early for my scan and they saw a sac but no baby & no heartbeat. I was told to prepare for the worst, come back a week later for another scan & possible D&C. It was a difficult situation made more painful by the way it was handled by my nurse and the initial doctor. But, everything was on track the following week. You went in really early and your numbers look good. Hope is not lost so hold on.
Thankyou, good to know, i have had my blood test and now await the results...
Update:
hormone levels dropped to 1566
Little bit sad but concentrating on the positives, i can now look at doing yoga tacher training and go and 'enjoy' the birthday i'm going to tonight.
thanks again ladies for all your support
Aw thanks Amanda, maybe you can send some of those single guys down my way
So sorry to hear this hun, it is so hard. I am thinking of you and hope that you take good care of yourself. Glass of wine and lots of chocolate and TLC is in order, I think.
I look you're positive attitude, although I know it's hard. What's going to happen now? Will they carry out tests as you've had three mcs?? I think you said you had. Sorry if I got this wrong..
Anyway, thinking of you,
Axxxx
So sorry to hear this hun, it is so hard. I am thinking of you and hope that you take good care of yourself. Glass of wine and lots of chocolate and TLC is in order, I think.
I look you're positive attitude, although I know it's hard. What's going to happen now? Will they carry out tests as you've had three mcs?? I think you said you had. Sorry if I got this wrong..
Anyway, thinking of you,
Axxxx
Thanks, i have lots of chocolate and may have had a couple of wines last night
Yes your right my 3rd, I will make sure they carry out every available test they possibly can dont worry. I go for another blood test tomorow just to check my levels are still falling and then i guess its another dreaded D&C
So sorry to hear this hun, it is so hard. I am thinking of you and hope that you take good care of yourself. Glass of wine and lots of chocolate and TLC is in order, I think.
I look you're positive attitude, although I know it's hard. What's going to happen now? Will they carry out tests as you've had three mcs?? I think you said you had. Sorry if I got this wrong..
Anyway, thinking of you,
Axxxx
Thanks, i have lots of chocolate and may have had a couple of wines last night
Yes your right my 3rd, I will make sure they carry out every available test they possibly can dont worry. I go for another blood test tomorow just to check my levels are still falling and then i guess its another dreaded D&C
Ladies, i had my consult with the doctor this morning, i start my IVF cycle when AF shows!!!!!! Now all i have to do is figure out how to pay for all the meds lol. I dont remember everything right now, but i know they will have me on 375ml follistim, and 75ml menopur (Sorry not sure of the spelling on that one) and a whole bunch of other meds. They were so nice, they gave me a box of 15 of the Progesterone and she said if she gets any more she will give that to me too. I have a friend that just did her IVF on wed, and she is going to give me her left over meds too, hey every little bit helps right. So we are one our way, although i do still have the stupid hope that we did it ourselves this cycle lol. I hope all you lovely ladies are having a wonderful friday, now if it could just get over with lol, well for you UK ladies it is already over with, can i just skip into your time zone lol.