AFM DH told his parents this weekend and his Mum really upset me, she didn't say congrats but went straight into a tirade how she knew I just needed to relax and it would happen and that I didn't need to waste my husbands money on all that treatment. Well I have been very patient and calm in the past but I guess the hormones just got to me as I blew up and stated that she didn't know about half of the treatment I have had and stated that what we had chosen not to tell her was that part of the problem had been DH bad swimmers in the last 12 months so we had needed treatment and then reminded her that it was our money and not his. I earn far more than my husband and it annoys me that she assumes that as he is the man he must keep me and I must be spending his money. Needless to say it shut her up.
Told DH and he has been amazingly supportive and told me that I don't have to have his Mum around immediately after the birth but she can wait a month until she flys out to see us.
Family and Friends they never cease to surprise us all.
Take care all and I am off to read all your posts and catch up