TTC 1st child 35+ (Please spoiler any PG news/announcements).

Missyt,
The boy will be named William Alexander but we will call him Liam.
The girl will be named Lillian and we will call her Lily. Not sure yet about her middle name. We can't decide.

Purple,
My dad had prostate and bladder cancer and my mom has had breast cancer twice and both are survivors. I pray that your dad gets the treatment that he needs and I'm sure being close to you will help him immeasurably. I can imagine that as a nurse you think of all the possibilities - good and bad - but have faith in your father's recovery! We will be here to support you as you support your parents.
 
Dwrgi, soy is like a natural clomid that strengthens ovulation -I'm not sure I need it as I have a regular cycle but at this stage I am willing to try anything :shrug:

Purple, yes I am thinking about SD as I don't think I'm ready to give this up quite yet so I'll try find that thread.

Never, I have everything Crossed that all is ok :hugs:

Lava, loving the names and hope you get the 3d view :hugs:

:hugs: to everyone else.
 
Good morning everyone! I hope everyone has a wonderful day!

FM, where are you? I've been thinking about you. I hope you are doing well. Sending positive vibes your way.
 
Thank you ladies...even those brave ones for entering the journal :wacko:

No more bleeding since yesterday morning...having betas done and won't know the results of second beta until Monday probably so it's all about waiting for now :coffee:

Missy...hope you're holding up ok :hugs:

Lava...love the names :cloud9:

Dwrgi..you in the TWW now? :dust:

Lou...any news on scan date?

Butterfly...soy also is supposed to improve egg quality too...glad you haven;t closed the doors on it all yet :hugs:

OMM...chucking you a big :hugs:

Everyone else...hope you are doing ok too :hugs: and :dust:

XxX
 
Thanks hun, so kind of you to be thinking of others when you are going through this. God, it's just a waiting game, isn't it?? I hope that the results will give you good news-you hear of loads of people who bleed early on and go on to have happy, healthy babies, so hang on in there! I shall be thinking of you! :thumbup:

Oh yes, I am in 2WW now, as I ovulated at 3.30pm yesterday!!! Honestly, I felt it, realy sharp pain... Luckily, I was headed in to acupuncture so I hope that will do some good for me as well....

FM-I've also wondered where you are! Are you okay hun? Thinking of you! :hugs:

Missy-how are you feeling today? Hope the PMA is still prevailing!! Not long to go now before you know, and fingers crossed you will have good news!! Can't wait to find out! Take it easy and try to relax! :hugs:

Lava-lovely names. My (ex) BF named her daughter Efa (f pronounced as a v in Welsh)Lili and her boy, Madog Llewellyn. I love the names Lily and Liam! Bet you can't wait to meet them!

Butterfly, soy sounds good! Keep at it-always worth trying something different-makes you feel as if you're not just waiting for life to do its own thing! Good luck with your next cycle, hun! Do you take soy as a tablet or a drink, or what?? I am an ignoramus...! :hugs:

Purple-how are you hun?? Thinking of you! xx

Skye, what are you up to? I hope you're behaving yourself!!! :happydance:

Pad, if you're there, you are in my thoughts! Lots of love!

Love to you all, NorthStar, KeeKee, Dodger, Twinkle, Macwooly, OMM, and anybody else I may have missed!

:hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs:
 
dwrgi, I'm sorry if you've mentioned it already but are you going to try another IVF cycle any time soon? I know things are different over there in the UK. I bet your AMH number went up with taking all that DHEA. I still think that AMH test is rubbish anyway.
 
I spoke to my consultant at the clinic yesterday. She said that DHEA, Royal Jelly and Omega 3 all good for improving egg quality. Luckily, got those covered, but, quite frankly, I need to get up half an hour earlier every morning to take all my vits and meds....! And I'm sure that I rattle!

Oh my goodness do I ever know what you mean! I DO rattle when I walk or move! I swear I do! I kind of laugh to think of me as a kid sneaking the vitamins into the toilet because I hated pills, and now I'm voluntarily taking a ton so that I can get pregnant!!

Had cramping all day yesterday and have had a bleed this morning so things are not looking good...again.

I already had this one quoted when I read your update, but I'm so glad the bleeding has stopped! I'm hoping and praying for you that the betas come back showing a happy healthy growing baby bean! :hugs:

AFM,
Yesterday, we tried to do a 3D sonogram session but the boy has moved head down so that he & his sister are facing each other cheek-to-cheek. So no pictures of their little faces because they are blocking each other. We will get one more chance next week, but if no luck, we will have paid a non-refundable $175. I don't care though b/c they seem to be healthy. I am now having weekly apps with my OB doctor & twice-monthly appt with my specialist. So far, so good. DH is out of town for the rest of the week for work so it's me & the cats aka the "nutty buddies" ;)

Glad to hear that the babies are healthy! I do hope they cooperate and give us ladies something to ogle over though! :)

Missyt,
The boy will be named William Alexander but we will call him Liam.
The girl will be named Lillian and we will call her Lily. Not sure yet about her middle name. We can't decide.

I love those names!! :)

Welcome Zoe!!



AFM, I updated my journal, but didn't have time to post here, so here's my update:

PHEWPH!!! Both results were good. In fact better then I expected!

My DH has 131mil sperm concentration with 59% of them with rapid progression (67% total progressive motility)! The prognosis for him is "good fertility potential" though in terms of normal vs abnormal sperm formation, he was on the low side of "good fertility potential". The OB didn't seem concerned about it though, it was just something we talked about after the meeting and getting a chance to look terms up in more detail/examples. So all in all amazing concentration and good motility.

For me, I have a subseptus uterus, BUT the OB says it's so slight that they actually consider it a normal variant and not something to be nervous about or that needs surgery. She described it as a dimple on my uterus rather then completely smooth. She said that based on how slight it was, it would not interfere with getting pregnant or growth of a baby in my uterus. She said I do have some cysts which were expected because of the pcos, but that they are small and inconsequential.

So overall she said there are no flags and that with these 2 tests done and showing pretty conclusively that all flags are green, that the fact I'm not ovulating is the fertility issue for us. So she stepped up the timeline!! If I don't get my period in 35 days I need to take a pregnancy test. If that shows negative, then she wants me to go ahead and kickstart my period and gave me a prescription for Clomid to take cd's 5-9! She also said that if my period comes naturally, then I can also go ahead and start the Clomid as well. At my previous appointment, she'd wanted to wait 4 months before taking the step to Clomid, but now, just a couple weeks later (one cycle) she feels that things are ready to move faster. So I'm really excited that things are moving ahead and that the results were good!

Oh and she was happy with my crosshairs on ff (based on temp, cm, and cbfm) as well even though neither of us are considering them the end-all be-all. BUT based on the high fertility of the cbfm and combining them with the crosshairs on ff, it's a good possibility that I did ovulate on the day or somewhere close to where ff says I did. So we'll see what happens. I'm even more hopeful about this cycle then I was at the start of it!! YAY!

Don't worry.. I'm not getting my hopes up too high, but even if I don't get pregnant this cycle, I still count all of this and forward progress and I know I'm getting just that much closer to being a mom.
 
dodger, that is good news. At least you know what you are dealing with and are taking steps to fix it. I know plenty of women with PCOS that got pregnant. My two SILs for example. Best wishes to you!
 
Hello my lovely ladies!!! I just wanted to pop on and say hi to you all, i am lurking and checking on all of you almost every day lol. I am sending you all tons of :hugs: and :dust:
 
Hi guys!

Dodger-everything sounds very hopeful for you! I am keeping my fingers crossed that they can sort out the ovulation issues! At least what you have done is a step in the right direction-and you will get there! Good luck! :hugs:

Missy-how are you feeling today hun? I am sooooo keeping all my fingers crossed for you! I intend to do another cycle at the clinic I used in the summer, in February. I really like the people there, and they have had fantastic results with others. I've spoken to so many people, and it is getting a reputation as the best clinic in Wales for IVF. So, I am just hoping that the DHEA, Royal Jelly, Omegas 3,6 and 9 that I'm taking (as well as all the other stuff) is improving the quality of my eggs. I am going to ask if they can take my bloods with every scan so that my estradiol levels can be taken. I'm also going to ask for another stimms drug, as I've heard that menopur might be too strong for those with low amh and simply over-cook the follicles, and I'm also going to ask for Pregnyl, instead of Ovitrelle, as this again is not ideal for low amh patients. So, I'm going to be a very demanding patient, clearly!!! I think I was very unlucky with my first cycle, and this does happen with some. So, February it is, and fingers crossed for a good result! In my head, I am still hoping that I succeed in getting pregnant naturally, especially as I'm making such a concerted effort to improve my egg quality. However, my PMA comes and goes with this one!

Phew-that was a long-winded answer!!

I am thinking of you and hoping that you get your BFP! Fingers crossed hun-you've done so well so far!

Lots of love,
Axxxx
 
good morning ladies,

I hope everyone is having a good day.

Never - I am thinking about you today and hoping they find a good vein and easily for your blood test- and I am still hoping with everything, that the results will be good!! :hugs: :hugs:

Dwrgi - I didn't realise that you had planned a date for next IVF, it's good to have a plan and still there is chance you won't need to go that route becase it'll happen natrually - I really hope so :hugs:

Missy - I am on the edge of my seat for you and sending a ton of :dust: your way, I really hope you get your good news soon!

Dodger - Im no expert but it sounds like what your doctors had to say was really positive and it must feel good to be "doing something" Im keeping my fingers crossed for you xxx

Butterfly, I am so glad you are not closing the door completely yet and that there are other options available for you xxx

HA - still thinking of you xxx hope you are ok xx

big :hugs: to all you wonderful ladies - Skye, lava, wooly, Twinkle, OMM, FM, titi, forever, keekee, northstar, bear, zoe and anyone I have missed (sorry)

afm - well Dad has his scan on Friday, Im not sure if they'll get results then or need another appointment afterwards - the waiting is torture (as I know all you ladies know) but I have some holiday next week and so my and DH are going to pop the dogs into kennels for a few days and go visit, which makes me feel a whole lot better. Thank you again for you thoughts and prayers, I am so grateful xxx

I am still poas to feed the CBFM and have had two peaks then a high and now today a low....I am also Temping and my temp is still low this am, so I am not really sure what is going on :wacko:
 
good morning ladies,


afm - well Dad has his scan on Friday, Im not sure if they'll get results then or need another appointment afterwards - the waiting is torture (as I know all you ladies know) but I have some holiday next week and so my and DH are going to pop the dogs into kennels for a few days and go visit, which makes me feel a whole lot better. Thank you again for you thoughts and prayers, I am so grateful xxx

I am still poas to feed the CBFM and have had two peaks then a high and now today a low....I am also Temping and my temp is still low this am, so I am not really sure what is going on :wacko:

So glad that you've made the decision to go and see your parents. That's the best therapy at the moment! I hope the scan goes well for him!

I don't understand the CBFM contraption.... If temps are loiw, that suggests you haven't ovulated, but then you've had two peaks... Hmmm.. We need somebody with a specialist interest in CBFM!!

I'd known all along I was doing another cycle in the New Year, but hadn't decided where. The DHEA needs at least three months to work, and the clinic suggested November, but I don't want to do this before Xmas, and had also read elsewhere that DHEA seems to produce optimal results after at least 6 months of taking it! So, that takes me up to Feb! Part of me feels to just get on with another, but I want to do everything that I can to make this a sucessful cycle, so am prepared to sit it out until then.

Hope you're having a good day hun.

Lots of love
Axxxx:hugs::hugs:
 
Hi Dwrgi, you could also try CoQ10, which takes about 3 months apparently, which is also recommended for egg health.

I'm trying it at the moment, no SE to report, so all good. I got mine in Tesco and I'm on 100mg, some are on higher doses (there's a CoQ10 thread on 35+)

Have never used CBFM but Macwooly has you could ask her, I'm a temping girl, I love a spreadsheet personally and professionally LOL, I'm not a POAS fan.
 
Dwrgi - I think you have made a good choice to wait and take the supplements etc - at least you know you are doing everything you can do! :hugs:
and yes, I was desperate to visit dad and mum before, but they banned me! - I think part of it is pride, part worry about the long drive and not wanting to worry me - my dad still thinks I am 12 most of the time, bless him. I wanted to go for the scan but mum said some good friends had volunterred to take them, and it makes sense to space out the visitors really, so they have someone is for distraction/help etc on more days
 
Hi Dwrgi, you could also try CoQ10, which takes about 3 months apparently, which is also recommended for egg health.

I'm trying it at the moment, no SE to report, so all good. I got mine in Tesco and I'm on 100mg, some are on higher doses (there's a CoQ10 thread on 35+)

Have never used CBFM but Macwooly has you could ask her, I'm a temping girl, I love a spreadsheet personally and professionally LOL, I'm not a POAS fan.

Don't worry hun, I'm on it!!!! Been using it for two months now. I did say that I am now rattling!!

Thanks for the link to the thread-I'll have a look!

I too love a spreadsheet! I do all ours in the department to officially kep a record of all our marks. I'm quite sad, really!!

Hope you're okay hun!
x
 
I'm getting that way myself, I was dead against all this stuff at the beginning and I'm now on COQ10, Vitamin B complex, omega 3's (folic acid of course) and as of yesterday Vitamin C. And I'm trying soy this cycle because we're on a break due to work timing issues.

The TTC ladies must be keeping Holland & Barret in business!
 
I'm getting that way myself, I was dead against all this stuff at the beginning and I'm now on COQ10, Vitamin B complex, omega 3's (folic acid of course) and as of yesterday Vitamin C. And I'm trying soy this cycle because we're on a break due to work timing issues.

The TTC ladies must be keeping Holland & Barret in business!

I know! And when you order on Amazon you see what other people order too, and it's clear they're all TTC! We are a highly lucrative market, alas!

:hugs:
 
Sure is an eye opener. So problems TTC are much much more common than people realise, it's just that no one talks about it :nope:
 
Hi ladies :hugs:

Just letting you know my journey is over yet again. Don't know where I will be going from here on in apart from on a break from the TTC cr*p.

Thank you for the support and stuff :hugs:

XxX
 

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