Ok, I've talked to my nurse re how to store the menopur, and she said just to follow the package directions. The package (the actual menopur box itself, not anything from the pharmacy) says to store
either refrigerated
or at room temp (3-25 C, 37-77 F), so I think we're all good. And when I opened the shipment box yesterday, the menopur was outside the cooler compartment - only the follistim was shipped chilled.
I still can't get over the UK/Oz adoption thing, either. Not only can I not believe how messed up it is, I also can't beleive I had never heard about it before now. It's really expensive over here, too, but for most people it doesn't take anywhere near as long as 4 years, and I've never known anyone who wanted to adopt who was denied, either. The longest I've ever known it to take over here was when my SIL adopted my niece from China - it took a little over two years, but that was because of issues on the Chinese end (paperwork snafu). The cost is what's keeping us from seriously considering it for the time being - because we have insurance coverage that helps pay for the infertility treatments, but we get no help in paying adoption costs/fees. There's a federal tax break to help offset the costs, but right now it's still cheaper for us to try for our "own" first. Initially I was set against it only because I was convinced I would never qualify - we're "old", I'm overweight, I have a history of depression, and my house is a MESS (thus any social worker would, in my imagining, determine on the home study that our home would not be a suitable environment).... But my lovely counselor set me straight on all that.
So I definitely have not shut the door on that possibility. I'm more open to it than DH is at the moment, but I think he'd come around if we find out we're just never going to be able to have our own bio baby.
And to deny a willing family the ability to adopt just because of their pet??!! I am just dumbstruck at that. I mean, sure, if you're talking about a family with a pet alligator or something equally ridiculous, but come on! There is all sorts of research out there showing how beneficial it is for a kid to grow up with a pet!! Pets teach responsibility and empathy, they lower the risk of developing allergies (not that it helped me in that area, but whatever
), they are generally awesome and amazing to own, etc etc etc. I am just flabbergasted.
Now, I need someone to make me step away from the mint m&m's.... They are a serious Christmas weakness for me... I will eat myself sick on them without even realizing how many I've eaten!!