HA-I think this is really brilliant news. Waiting and worrying is the worst thing about IVF and now that you will have started, you will feel so much more in control! Brilliant!! Grow follies grow!!! How much menopur are you on every day? Do they test you for your E2 with each scan too?
Good luck to you hun, and let's bring that
on!!
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My protocol is 225iu follistim in the morning, and 75iu follistim plus 150iu (2 vials) menopur in the evening. They'll check my follies, E2 and LH every day beginning Wednesday (cd7), and I'll probably start the ganirelix that day, too.
My nurse also went over the trigger shot instructions with us on Friday - for my IUIs we used ovidrel which is a pre-mixed sub-cutaneous syringe, but for IVF it will be an intra-muscular shot that has to go in my bum. When she pulled out the needle for it I thought my eyes were going to pop out of my head - it was enormous!!
She saw my reaction and quickly reassured me that the giant needle is for mixing the diluent and the powder, NOT for sticking in my bum - the bum needle is MUCH smaller!!!
She then had me stand up so she could teach DH how to inject it, and he was clearly uncomfortable with it... in our first IUI cycle he tried doing one of my follistim injections just to see if he could, and he did NOT take it well - he got pretty freaked out about sticking me. Well, with this IM injection in the bum, there is no way I can do that one to myself... so my amazing nurse, seeing his reaction, asked exactly where we live... she then said, depending on what time of day my trigger shot winds up needing to be done, that she would come to the house and give it to me herself because she only lives 20 min away.
Can you believe that??!!! My nurse is amazing!!
Carole, I am so sorry you're still getting pressure from the in-laws about visiting them. My view on in-law matters has always been that if my DH has a problem with my parents, then
I have a problem with my parents and it is
my job to set things right. I think your DH needs to propose some sort of compromise, because clearly his parents are not going to let up. It's his job to do so, because love for him is the one thing you and your in-laws have in common. And a compromise really is in everyone's best interests, because you are all family now and Zara binds you all together forever - you will always be her mother, and they will always be her grandparents. But his parents aren't going to understand that until
he understands that. If your DH wants harmony in his life, then he needs to step up to the plate and lead you all to a solution here.