TTC After A Loss... Race for the BFP! - 211 BFP's!!!

[Fergie89]

2 Days Late For Period heartburn & sickness :/ -- hoping this is my month!!!!! ..X congrats to all the BFP's ..X

 

[ttcstill]

Thank you all for the help with the chart link..... I do believe I got it this time and you are all welcome to stalk it..... this particular one is messed up because I did not start charting right after MC whic was the 25th August. I do believe that I O'd on the 6th but I am not sure...... I suppose we will all know soon enough.

 

[VGibs]

Hi Ladies
I lost my baby on the 4th sept 2010.. i was 18 weeks pregnant..he had died a few days earlier...
i'm still spotting from miscarriage...does anyone know how long this will go on for?
we are TTC striaght away...
not had chance to read thru thread propperly but will do when kids not about as i'll cry...

After my still birth I spotted and bled for almost 2 weeks. But they had problems removing the placenta and said I had mild uterine trauma. And because I had that trauma my uterus felt very bruised so I knew when I ovulated the next month. I think it was about 6 weeks after he was born.

 

[Megg33k]

Congrats, Lou!

 

[babesx3]

Hi Ladies
I lost my baby on the 4th sept 2010.. i was 18 weeks pregnant..he had died a few days earlier...
i'm still spotting from miscarriage...does anyone know how long this will go on for?
we are TTC striaght away...
not had chance to read thru thread propperly but will do when kids not about as i'll cry...

After my still birth I spotted and bled for almost 2 weeks. But they had problems removing the placenta and said I had mild uterine trauma. And because I had that trauma my uterus felt very bruised so I knew when I ovulated the next month. I think it was about 6 weeks after he was born.

thanks for replying!!. i had a retained placenta and had to go to theatre to have it removed and haemoraged too.. i had thought with all that bleeding i wouldn't bleed for long...its 16 days since i lost my boy and still spotting..wish it would stop!!!
the MW said about 6 weeks, that just seems ages..

 

[babesx3]

Thank you all for the help with the chart link..... I do believe I got it this time and you are all welcome to stalk it..... this particular one is messed up because I did not start charting right after MC whic was the 25th August. I do believe that I O'd on the 6th but I am not sure...... I suppose we will all know soon enough.

Good luck TTCSTILL... i remember u from lovebugs.. unfortunatley i lost my love bug too..


hope this is your lucky month

 

[VGibs]

thanks for replying!!. i had a retained placenta and had to go to theatre to have it removed and haemoraged too.. i had thought with all that bleeding i wouldn't bleed for long...its 16 days since i lost my boy and still spotting..wish it would stop!!!
the MW said about 6 weeks, that just seems ages..

Well 6 weeks seemed ages to me too...but in hindsight I am very very glad I waited that time. It was during that time I found out my ex had been with someone else and had him leave the house. I waited almost 3 years to get pregnant again, sadly we lost that baby in April, but 2 weeks later *after almost raping my fiancee on Mothers day hehehe* we conceived this little bundle!

I had massive bleeding as soon as they broke my water with my Dylan *the baby we lost* I thought I was having the baby as my water came out but it was a bad clot. Very very scary and very traumatising.

 

[babesx3]

thanks for replying!!. i had a retained placenta and had to go to theatre to have it removed and haemoraged too.. i had thought with all that bleeding i wouldn't bleed for long...its 16 days since i lost my boy and still spotting..wish it would stop!!!
the MW said about 6 weeks, that just seems ages..

Well 6 weeks seemed ages to me too...but in hindsight I am very very glad I waited that time. It was during that time I found out my ex had been with someone else and had him leave the house. I waited almost 3 years to get pregnant again, sadly we lost that baby in April, but 2 weeks later *after almost raping my fiancee on Mothers day hehehe* we conceived this little bundle!

I had massive bleeding as soon as they broke my water with my Dylan *the baby we lost* I thought I was having the baby as my water came out but it was a bad clot. Very very scary and very traumatising.

thats sounds exactly what happened to me, i still had my jeans on when it happened so scared my baby was in my trousers..but like u it was a massive clot.... so sorry for your losses
if u don't mind me asking how many weeks pregnant with the baby u lost in april were you when u got pregnant again 2 weeks later? i just feel so desperate to be pregnant again...

 

[VGibs]

thanks for replying!!. i had a retained placenta and had to go to theatre to have it removed and haemoraged too.. i had thought with all that bleeding i wouldn't bleed for long...its 16 days since i lost my boy and still spotting..wish it would stop!!!
the MW said about 6 weeks, that just seems ages..

Well 6 weeks seemed ages to me too...but in hindsight I am very very glad I waited that time. It was during that time I found out my ex had been with someone else and had him leave the house. I waited almost 3 years to get pregnant again, sadly we lost that baby in April, but 2 weeks later *after almost raping my fiancee on Mothers day hehehe* we conceived this little bundle!

I had massive bleeding as soon as they broke my water with my Dylan *the baby we lost* I thought I was having the baby as my water came out but it was a bad clot. Very very scary and very traumatising.

thats sounds exactly what happened to me, i still had my jeans on when it happened so scared my baby was in my trousers..but like u it was a massive clot.... so sorry for your losses
if u don't mind me asking how many weeks pregnant with the baby u lost in april were you when u got pregnant again 2 weeks later? i just feel so desperate to be pregnant again...

We were only 5 weeks with that one...and we misscarried. And then got a bfp 4 weeks and 1 day later!

 

[animalcracker]

Hi ladies - this is a cross-post from ttc over 35 - wanted to give you gals an update as well on my situation.

So I have my follow up appointment after my D&C with my Dr. tomorrow at 9:45am. I'm still bleeding and it shows no sign of letting up. I spot then it gets heavier, it is so frustrating.

I also booked an appointment with a high-risk fertility specialist in NJ too. His name is Dr. Manny Alvarez and I heard about him through one of my hubby's work associates. He delivered 2 of her babies and although I hear his bedside manner is a bit cold, he will give it to you straight as far as any complications with future pregnancies.

He is the Managing Editor of health news at Foxnews.com and adjunct professor of obstetrics and gynecology at New York University School of Medicine in New York City, so his resume is impressive.

I want him to tell me what I am dealing with as far as my fibroids are concerned. My current Dr. keeps telling me not to worry about my fibroids and just keep trying. However, the research I have done about where they are located in my uterus and their size states I am at risk for recurrent miscarriage. Fibroids can distort the uterus leaving you unable to carry a child to term.

My current Dr. also told me that I may have more fibroids in addition to the 2 that were caught with the scan, but she's never suggested I go for another more thorough scan to see what we are dealing with. I mean WTF, right? I'm 38 years old FFS.

I am angry that my current Dr. feels it acceptable suggesting that TTC for me can basically be a 'trial and error' project. I'm not going to just keep getting pregnant if I can't carry a child to term, so hubby and I are going to the best there is so that I can get thoroughly checked out and get a straight answer.

I'm so nervous, frustrated and scared. My appointment with this specialist is October 5th which can't get here fast enough!

I hope you are all doing well xoxo

 

[mumanddad]

congratulations on the Latest BFPS this looks like it is going to be a very good month x

 

[Tigerlilies]

Congratulations on the new !!!!

Sorry for a couple of ladies that had to join this thread, I wish you soon!

to all BnB ladies!

 

[Tulip]

Congratulations to the BFPs!!!! xxx

 

[selina3127]

well af got me tonight onto next month i guess xxx

 

[ttcstill]

so sorry Selina

 

[Megg33k]

Good luck, animalcracker! I hope the new FS can be more useful than your doc is now!

Sorry Selina!

 

[Helen76]

Hi,

Can I join here please? Just had my first IVF and had a chemical pregnancy.

It was my first ever BFP (after nearly 2 years) and I'm hoping I won't have to wait that long for another.

H xx

 

[Megg33k]

Aww, Helen! I'm sorry, love! I'll add you!

 

[svetayasofiya]

AF got me today.............. *sigh

Congrats to everyone who got BFP's recently and love and support to our new gals. I could use a group hug right about now.

 

[Megg33k]

Svetaya!