TTC after miscarriage 2020

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  1. salamander91

    salamander91 Well-Known Member

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    Welcome :hugs: I'm so sorry for your loss xx
     
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    salamander91 Well-Known Member

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    So much fainter! Fx for a neg soon!
     
  3. LuvallmyH

    LuvallmyH The 1 whom many call Mom

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    Welcome stargirl. I’m sorry for your loss. Fx for your rainbow.

    topaz, that looks great! So much lighter.
     
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    Stargirl1993 Well-Known Member

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    Thankyou everyone I’ve been for my scan everything has cleared etc the hospital have been absolutely amazing I couldn’t have fault there care. They even given a memory box to rember my baby by ❤️ My right ovary still abit swollen but it’s to be expected it’s had surgery on xx I’ve to take a pregnancy test in 3 weeks x
     
  5. Rebaby

    Rebaby Mama to 2 boys

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    Welcome Stargirl. I'm so sorry for your loss :hugs2:
     
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    I'm so sorry for your loss :hugs:
     
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    Stargirl1993 Well-Known Member

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    Thankyou everyone x
    How did you all approach your partners about trying again ? We wasn’t trying before but just trying to miss my “Fertile window” but I guess I Ovulated late and we wasn’t using any protection so was bound to happen at some point but we was both happy anyway as we wanted to try in a few months anyway.

    But now we have had a mc I don’t know how to bring up the subject everything still abit raw atm so I probably won’t until I stop bleeding and get a negative pregnancy test x
    I’m 27 this month and his just turned 26 we have a 5 year old daughter and the mc has made me want a baby even more ❤️
     
  8. LuvallmyH

    LuvallmyH The 1 whom many call Mom

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    I might actually be pregnant again. Not sure what to think. 9dpo. Had not tested to a total bfn, but have been testing the past few days & they keep getting darker.
     
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  9. Stargirl1993

    Stargirl1993 Well-Known Member

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    Definitely dose look to be getting darker x hopefully a new pregnancy x wishing you lots of luck x
     
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    salamander91 Well-Known Member

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    Definitely looks darker. Especially that frer! Good luck xx
     
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    topazicatzbet mummy to 3 boys

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    Luvall that frer is so much darker.

    Stargirl we were ttc so it has always just been presumed that we will start again as soon as we can.

    If you were planning on ttc soon then I'd just speak to your partner and tell him you want to start trying now. I'm sure he will support you given he was happy about the one you lost.
     
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    topazicatzbet mummy to 3 boys

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    What's everyone's thoughts on this. Are they the same or one slightly lighter than the other. Im worrying I'm stuck with non fading tests again and still have rpoc.

     
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    salamander91 Well-Known Member

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    They look the same to me but it's hard to tell from a picture xx
     
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    Stargirl1993 Well-Known Member

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    The bottom one is very slightly darker not by much though x I think In a few days it could
    Possibly go negative x
     
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    salamander91 Well-Known Member

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    We were trying so there wasn't really a question of whether we would try again but I just told my DH that I needed to start ttc again asap. Thankfully he was ok with it xx
     
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    topazicatzbet mummy to 3 boys

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    Bottom one is yesterdays top todays. I also thought it was slightly lighter today. Hopefully it will continue to fade. This rpoc is really messing my head up.

    My right side hurts today too so I'm thinking the cysts are still there and maybe I didn't ovulate.
     
  17. Stargirl1993

    Stargirl1993 Well-Known Member

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    Bless you don’t forget though your tests will fluctuate depending on how concentrated your urine is x when I last had my bloods done for my hcg it was 3000 then it dropped to 175
    In a matter of 3 days.. so you could still get positive results tomorrow but then the day after it be completely negative. It’s so annoying that we can’t see inside our bodies ](*,) are you having a follow up blood tests or anything? x
     
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    topazicatzbet mummy to 3 boys

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    Just have to test again in 3 weeks and if positive still they will then do a d n c. Its just so frustrating as its 7 weeks now since I first started with problems.
     
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    Stargirl1993 Well-Known Member

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    Oh bless you it’s so frustrating isn’t it :( seems
    Strange to say it but hopefully you will get a negative very soon x going buy the tests though I wouldn’t have thought it’s going to take another 3 weeks x
     
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    I just spoke with my partner and he has agreed to start trying when I’ve stopped bleeding and I have a negative test! ☺️ I think I’m going to get some ovulation tests and a bbt thermometer etc we already have some conceive plus ☺️ I’m going to get some conception tablets in the next few days x I’m hoping my body will carry on with my 25 day cycles x
     

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