TTC after miscarriage 2020

[Stargirl1993]

I think I'm having another chemical ladies
As u all know we had one back in April.

I had sharp stabbing pains in overies at 8dpo and then got sore boobs and my nipples got sore like someone had put a cheese greater to them.
I onky did IC tests and only got faint shadow lines.
I continued having twinges and cramps in overies and I had alot of thick white cm.
Then at 12dpo. Boob and nipple pain just vanised.
I did do a frer at 11dpo and it did have a v v v faint line on but not as dark as the one I had in April.
I tested the next day with Frer again and BFN.
AF was 2 days late.
Im on CD3 now and its been heavy. Tonight I had terrible pain in my lower back and stomach and ive passed a load of dark red clots. One was quiet big.
The bleeding has slowed a bit since pasing them.
But this is what happened with my last chemical.
Im really hoping im wrong and im just having a very good clear out but with the vanishing symptoms and clots im fearing the worst.
My last chemical totaly messed with my next cycle causing me to O far to early on CD8.
Last cycle was back to normal and I O on day 14. Was so happy.
And when I started getting symptoms I was so excited and then they just vanished.

Im now worried im gonna end up Ovulating again very early if this is another meaning we won't stand a chance this cycle either

So sorry xx

 

[Stargirl1993]

I plan on starting to temp on Monday morning and using fertility friend. I’ve counted cd1 from the day of my mc I’ve seen a few places online have said to do that but not sure when exactly to expect af I doubt I will go back to my 25 day cycles. I have plenty of ovulation sticks so not sure when to start them?

Hope everyone is okay ? x

 

[LuvallmyH]

That’s what I did star. I ovulated cd18. Good luck.
Cd7 here. Nothing to report.

 

[topazicatzbet]

I'm taking my last lot of bleeding as af so I'm cd7 today and have finally finished bleeding (i ve said this loads before then started spotting so I'm nervous to say it. )

My tests are finally negative. I haven't used ovulation sticks since my first and even then I didn't really need them as my cycle was so regular. I ve got some now as god knows when I will ovulate then I have to worry about my lp as it was only 8 days this time but I did ovulate with retained products and hcg in my system so hopefully it was dien to that.

If I have truly stopped bleeding I think the plan will be to bd every 3rd day until I get signs that I'm fertile just to comer bases.

Will be nice to be close to dh as its been 9 weeks now since all the trouble started. Hopefully we can finally move on

 

[Stargirl1993]

That’s what I did star. I ovulated cd18. Good luck.
Cd7 here. Nothing to report.

Thankyou! Good luck to you too!

 

[Stargirl1993]

I'm taking my last lot of bleeding as af so I'm cd7 today and have finally finished bleeding (i ve said this loads before then started spotting so I'm nervous to say it. )

My tests are almost negative, todays if you sqint looks like an evap. I expect it to be finally gone in a few days. I haven't used ovulation sticks since my first and even then I didn't really need them as my cycle was so regular. I ve got some now as god knows when I will ovulate then I have to worry about my lp as it was only 8 days this time but I did ovulate with retained products and hcg in my system so hopefully it was dien to that.

If I have truly stopped bleeding I think the plan will be to bd every 3rd day until I get signs that I'm fertile just to comer bases.

Will be nice to be close to dh as its been 9 weeks now since all the trouble started. Hopefully we can finally move on

Hopefully both our cycles get regular soon! It sounds like your body had a good clear out and hopefully this is the end of it xx
good luck!!

 

[topazicatzbet]

I ve just edited to say my tests are now negative the evap disappeared when dry and i tested again with smu and that was def negative.

Cant believe its finally over and feels strange to be so happy to see a negative test. Now to catch this cycles egg when ever that might be.

 

[Stargirl1993]

I ve just edited to say my tests are now negative the evap disappeared when dry and i tested again with smu and that was def negative.

Cant believe its finally over and feels strange to be so happy to see a negative test. Now to catch this cycles egg when ever that might be.

Wishing you so much luck xxx glad it’s over now and you can Finally move on x

 

[Stargirl1993]

CD15 just done a ovulation test..
I will do another tonight x

 

[topazicatzbet]

Fingers crossed it gets darker soon so you can go catch that egg.

 

[LuvallmyH]

May we all ovulate and catch the next egg!
Topaz, I'm so glad it's over now. I can't imagine how awful it was to go through all of that.

 

[LuvallmyH]

I just started bleeding again. WTH?! I’m so upset. Af had stopped.

 

[topazicatzbet]

I just started bleeding again. WTH?! I’m so upset. Af had stopped.

I'm with you. I'm still spotting. So annoyed. Also feeling rather achey all of a sudden.

 

[LuvallmyH]

Why can’t our bodies just move on with it?! I don't have time to wait! Not that I have any choice in the matter

 

[Bevziibubble]

 

[Stargirl1993]

Finally got a darkish opk and I’ve only just started tracking my temp on ff. once my cycles are regular again I’m not going to bother with ovulation or temperature checking I think we will just go with not trying but not preventing it x

 

[LuvallmyH]

Good luck star.

I think my bleeding has finally stopped. I put dh on duty for the next 10 or so days. Who knows when I will ovulate. I’m temping so I’ll be able to confirm.

How is everyone else? Where are you all at in your cycles? Any good news???!!!

 

[topazicatzbet]

Cd 9. No more bleeding and hoping to finally get some bding in tonight. Still getting ever so light lines on test but I've decided not to stress over them as they will finally go and I ov'ed last month with stronger lines and retained products. I normally ovulate between day 11 and 14 but thinking it could be later this cycle given i only stopped bleeding on cd 7

 

[Bevziibubble]

Good luck

 

[Suggerhoney]

So sorry xx

Thank you sweetheart I hope ure ok