Aayla
TTC IUI #1
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I was very open about the whole process. I documented it all on FB. I wanted everyone to know what it was like to go through infertility and how the whole process worked. I had to shut a lot of people down that kept telling me to relax or how they tried for a year and as soon as she stopped "trying" they got pregnant. I don't know how many times I had to tell people I don't have stress induced infertility and that I just don't ovulate on my own.
After the mc I went silent for the most part. Hubby doesn't want anyone to know until we get our first scan with the next bfp. Our announcements went crazy and spiraled out of control the first time. People told when the shouldn't have so I was forced to announce on FB so that no one would hear it second hand.
So now I limit who I talk to about it. If someone asks I will talk their ear off
but I usually just talk to my mom and a bit to my best friend, but he's a guy so he doesn't always want to hear about the nitty gritty.
My other "best friend" was ttc along with me but she wasn't doing very much other than having sex at what she thinks was the right time. No temping, no real tracking other than af. She stopped talking about it awhile ago and I have no idea what is happening with her. But then, she hasn't called me in about 2 weeks. She says she is my best friend but it seems to be I'm the choice she makes when she has no one else to hang out with.
After the mc I went silent for the most part. Hubby doesn't want anyone to know until we get our first scan with the next bfp. Our announcements went crazy and spiraled out of control the first time. People told when the shouldn't have so I was forced to announce on FB so that no one would hear it second hand.
So now I limit who I talk to about it. If someone asks I will talk their ear off

My other "best friend" was ttc along with me but she wasn't doing very much other than having sex at what she thinks was the right time. No temping, no real tracking other than af. She stopped talking about it awhile ago and I have no idea what is happening with her. But then, she hasn't called me in about 2 weeks. She says she is my best friend but it seems to be I'm the choice she makes when she has no one else to hang out with.