Glad your hand is doing ok Stacie, and that it wasn't in a bad spot!
Jessy, chances are your ms will let up! think positive!! at least there are drugs out there though
My baby shower thoughts: Outside is fabulous!! My mom hosted mine outside and I think people appreciate being able to enjoy a nice day outside for something like that. Definitely yes to the booze, even if it's just wine. I know when I'm at one i like a drink!
Personally i'm totally against shower games. Sorry to anyone that likes them, but I like to just go, get a bite, chill and see you open my gift...then goodbye!
Any ones that I helped host I kept to 2 hours. Am I a grinch?! haha
Doppler - I had one with DD but after her it broke...so I never used it on my angel baby. maybe if I did I would have known something?? I don't know. So I got a new one for this baby, and I love having one. That being said, early early on it's very hard to find the HB, and I understood this from the beginning...so I never panicked when I couldn't find the HB. I just put it down and tried again later. But I liked knowing there was a HB, and that I could count it and it did give me reassurance when I needed it. I used it probably once a week until I started feeling consistent movements. Even now I give it a random check just to make me feel better!!
Kris, I'm so sorry you feel that way...of course you did everything you could, you definitely can't blame yourself for that. xoxoxoxo