Hey Ladies! I new here (dont really understand how to post) so quick intro: I'm 35 with two sons (6&4) and live in North Carolina. Had the Paragard IUD removed August 17 and my cycle and symptoms ever since have been out of whack. We are not trying, nor not "Not trying," just kinda letting nature take its course. in the past months since August my cycles have been 36 days, then 38 days, then 32, 36 and lastly 33...I was due to start on March 9th, and still no AF. There have been several months I "felt" pregnant. (sore boobs, bloating, odd twinges, nasal congestion, you name it.) I used to never get the boob issues unless I was definitely pregnant. Anyhow, after months of quasi-disappointment, now I am officially 19-20 DPO, (This would be cycle day 39!!!) but still getting BFN. I'm only using the internet cheapies (Clinical Guard - not sure I like them), and did a dollar store test. I dont want to run out and spend a ton of money on the FRER just yet, but my anxiety is getting to me. I want one more (think pink this time lol), but I'm worried maybe my body is playing tricks on me now the older I get. Our first two were so easy (literally got pregnant 2 days after our wedding - oops! and then another surprise two years later!) Any advice would be great!