Starry Night
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Congrats on your pregnancy, jasmak! That is really horrid that people said those things to you. A lost child is a lost child. A parent never forgets.
I've started to hear a lot of "it could be worse" comments. What??? And of course I lost my baby the same week we lost our car to an accident and DH lost his job (everyone knows this). Even if those other things hadn't happened, who says that to someone who lost their child???? Yes, I know I still have things in my life to be grateful for but my baby. Is. Dead.
And every time someone has said "it could be worse" something else has gone wrong. My credit card has been "compromised", someone dinged our rental car in a parking lot and we have to pay for it and we have a racoon in the attic. I'm half expecting to come home and find our house has burned down. No more "well-wishers" please! I'd laugh, but it's not really funny at the moment.
I've started to hear a lot of "it could be worse" comments. What??? And of course I lost my baby the same week we lost our car to an accident and DH lost his job (everyone knows this). Even if those other things hadn't happened, who says that to someone who lost their child???? Yes, I know I still have things in my life to be grateful for but my baby. Is. Dead.
And every time someone has said "it could be worse" something else has gone wrong. My credit card has been "compromised", someone dinged our rental car in a parking lot and we have to pay for it and we have a racoon in the attic. I'm half expecting to come home and find our house has burned down. No more "well-wishers" please! I'd laugh, but it's not really funny at the moment.