Okay sweetheart that is actually great news that your mom didn't reach menopause until she was 56. Your genetics believe it or not will be pulled from your mom more than your grandmother obviously, so that means chances are you won't go through menopause anytime soon. Which means the eggs that are left are good eggs hun! You have a very good chance of conceiving especially I bet with in the next cycle.
If that was the case tho id of fallen again by now. My last loss was over 5 months ago and all ive had is bfn.
When we was trying for our youngest i was falling pregnant every other cycle, or every 3rd cycle and after my june miscarriage lasr year i then went 7 months of bfns which nearly destroyed me but was hoping it was down to being so unwell last year.
What with the chemical in April, then finding out im pregnant again in the June and then losing that one at just over 5 weeks. Then in july i had covid. And then end of September going into October i had flu. End of October i had a partial blockage of the bowel and did not ovulate that cycle.
Then ovulation was back in November and December we all had stomach flu.
I was hoping that was why we wasnt falling. Then seeing that bfp on 4th feb i was so shocked but also sad because i new with the late implantation it wasnt going to stick. I yes i lost that one too. But it still have that push to carry on. Ive only been unwell once this year and that was early april and when i was on af. Bit i still ovulated. Was just a few days later.
But still no bfp. Ive had nothing but bfn for over 5 months now.
And we bd regularly, from as soon as af is out the door.
Weve tried every day. Every other day. Doing it twice a day and absolutely nothing but bfn.
I have a very low sex drive. My husband has a very high. So this ttc is very difficult for me.
I really hope your right and the next cycle (as soon as af starts) will finally finally be mine but i can bet your bottom doller it wont and ill here this time in july upset and depressed because ill be out again.
I can still see me trying this time next year!