Yea Toots, the spotting has stopped thank goodness! ANd we do get along but we've only meet one time before. She came when my son was born for 2 wks. She doesn't speak english and my spanish isn't to good. She's VERY old school religious, no dancing,no music,girls don't wear pants etc. When she was here she was great about not pushing that on me and very respectful about my tongue ring, me wearing make up etc. We actually got along great but now I work in my home. So it would be like bringing your MIL w/ you to work and then bringing her home with you. We will be together 24 hrs a day 7 days a week. It will be really hard but I'm just going to try and learn as much as I can from here and hope my kids get to learn spanish. My DD speaks it much more than my DS. It will be good for all of us!