15 dpo and still BFN...

[ClaireFairy92]

Awww i wish i cud go for one but i dnt wanna unless AF never comes. Then i might have to. i have this really irrational fear of needles and have never had a blood test in my life that im aware of! So tbh i need to break this fear cause child birth has to be off the scale worse than a needle! lol.

Good luck with your blood test, I still have no update. Gonna test tomorrow morning. But will let you guys know before anyone! i'll be on here like a shot! lol xx Good luck with you blood test results! xx

 

[Fluffyangel]

Hi, doc didn't even do blood test even though he told me he would...but had tests back in general, and apparently, my thyroid is underactive. I wonder if it is possible for this to happen because I could be pregnant?? Still bfn though, trying every day. Must have gone through at least 20tests in total in 2 weeks! Had implantation bleeding, tiny ed pin sized dots, 6 days after sex, and af is late, so not only am confused, but extremely frustrated!!!

Good luck for you, hope someone gets a BFp soon!! Xx

 

[ClaireFairy92]

Unsure tbh! I did a test about 30 mins ago. Digital, Sainsburys own... BFN on the display. but to dispose of the test you have to remove the stick from the electric test. as i did this i noticed a second line. Very VERY faint but there... however. having looked this up people keep going on about how it cud have picked up LH but i thort this was just for the Clearblue one with the conception indicator... surely this wouldnt be looking for the time of conception so i dont understand why i have two lines on it but telling me im not pregnant. i've have brown spotting now for like 5 days in a row.... Is that even normal? If im gonna have a period i just wish it would bloody hurry up!!! Put me out my misery! xx

 

[Fluffyangel]

Unsure tbh! I did a test about 30 mins ago. Digital, Sainsburys own... BFN on the display. but to dispose of the test you have to remove the stick from the electric test. as i did this i noticed a second line. Very VERY faint but there... however. having looked this up people keep going on about how it cud have picked up LH but i thort this was just for the Clearblue one with the conception indicator... surely this wouldnt be looking for the time of conception so i dont understand why i have two lines on it but telling me im not pregnant. i've have brown spotting now for like 5 days in a row.... Is that even normal? If im gonna have a period i just wish it would bloody hurry up!!! Put me out my misery! xx

Hi babe, how much brown discharge are you having? If it is like a small period, then: If I was you, I would go and see the doctor..because you might hate me for telling you this, but it could be a miscarriage, I had that few years back, and went doctors then went for scan, and they told me. It was devastating, but it means it's not meant to be, or body not ready. I hope so much I am wrong, but I don't know if anyone would be telling you honestly like I am, as we all want to have a baby. I pray to god I am wrong, but please see the doctor, at least you will know. I hope you don't hate me for telling you this. Other women have experienced a bit of brown spotting, so have I, yesterday only, once, but I don't think for 5 days. I hope you are ok, not too distressed. I hope it is normal though, and healthy. Please let me know xxxx big hug for you xx

 

[ClaireFairy92]

Its not a lot at all. its not coming out on to my panties. just when i wipe after the toilet. or after sex (sorry) but when my fella finishes in me that comes back out brown later on in the toilet. but obviously cause its brown up there. its odd but i havent had any yet today. i dont think its a miscarriage as i've read up im not to worry unless its blood. but tbh i feel im losing touch with the feeling of being pregnant now... i felt it before having loads of symptoms but other than feeling tired quite prematurely in a day im having no other symptoms at the min. i dnt wanna go the doctor as mine is a pain to get an appointment and i only go if i really really have to. xx

 

[Fluffyangel]

Ok, I hope it's ok then. If it is not that much, and not happening anymore

I have been having those feelings as well, sometimes not having that bond, but other times it's back weird, maybe it is because body getting used to it? And perhaps because it grows only time to time?

Gl fx xxxx

 

[ClaireFairy92]

I dunno maybe. After a BFN tho it upsets me and makes me feel dead negative bout everything... Let me know when you know more yourself

Mystique let me know when u have an update too! xx

 

[Mystiqueuk]

Hi girls!
Sorry for late reply! Have either of you got an update? I am now about 23 dpo and nothing! Luckily for me I am friends with my midwife (who also lives over the road lol) and she gave me a blood test form and so I went to the hosp yesterday and had bloods done. Gotta wait 48 hours I think for results but at least I'll know either way!
x

 

[Fluffyangel]

me too, went to have blood test this morning, with doctor who really didnt believe me!! i said"i even got higher temp!" her answer was.... "Well, it has been hotter lately.." wtf??? i mean she kept saying how the hpt test we done together should be positive, and it is very sensitive, so the result would give the answer...ba bla bla.. made me feel like a loonatic!

ah well, time will tell.. gl all fxx

 

[Ali33]

Hey everyone, sorry to bust on it but looking for ladies in my same situation. I am 8 days late today, had a very faint positive on Sunday but nothing but BFNs since! Have any of you gotten your BFP? I have just about given up

 

[Fluffyangel]

try again, perhaps you ll get another pos soon! good luck!! for us nothing yet

 

[Mystiqueuk]

hi Ali33,
nope no bfp here yet, and no af either, getting very annoying. How many dpo are you?

 

[Ali33]

Thanks, I'm trying to stay hopeful but at this point it is hard. Grrr I wish our bodies didn't mess with us!

 

[Ali33]

Well despite what FF says, I am pretty sure I ovulated 7/25. I started charting for the first time after that date so I really can't be 100%. I guess that would make me 21dpo? I have never been this late, ever. I was reading a post yesterday where a girl got her bfp finally at I believe 64 dpo! I am pathetically living on that hope lol..

 

[Mystiqueuk]

64 dpo??? oh my goodness! I am lucky that I've been able to get a blood test, i dont know how much longer i couldve held out!
How long have u been trying?
I think im 24 dpo now, hoping for a result today! x

 

[MrsTurner2012]

I'm 15dpo today & still a BFN!
So frustrating
Wishing it to be tomorrow morning now so I can test again!

 

[ClaireFairy92]

Hi girls!
Sorry for late reply! Have either of you got an update? I am now about 23 dpo and nothing! Luckily for me I am friends with my midwife (who also lives over the road lol) and she gave me a blood test form and so I went to the hosp yesterday and had bloods done. Gotta wait 48 hours I think for results but at least I'll know either way!
x

Mystique! missed you! lol. omggg! so you'll know really really soon! omg message on here as soon as you do know!

So happy you finally gettin a blood test. Can i be a total wuss and ask... does a blood test hurt? lmao im a huge wuss with needles and they really freak me out.

xxxxxxxx

 

[ClaireFairy92]

Well despite what FF says, I am pretty sure I ovulated 7/25. I started charting for the first time after that date so I really can't be 100%. I guess that would make me 21dpo? I have never been this late, ever. I was reading a post yesterday where a girl got her bfp finally at I believe 64 dpo! I am pathetically living on that hope lol..

Oh my god! cant believe that! 64 days would drive me insane. The only thing i can think of in your case is that HPTs dont always work for everyone. some people never find out until they get a blood test so i would suggest like the other girls in this thread to get a blood test if your that late...

I think my lateness is either i've ovulated much later than i first thought, orrr my pill has just refused to give me my period yet....

Frustratingg.... and the other half has nooo idea... hes too patient... haha

xx

 

[Ali33]

64 dpo??? oh my goodness! I am lucky that I've been able to get a blood test, i dont know how much longer i couldve held out!
How long have u been trying?
I think im 24 dpo now, hoping for a result today! x

We have been trying for 9 months. I should have had a new baby by now lol.. I think I am 22dpo today. Going to maybe test Sunday and if no hag by Monday I am going to also get a blood test. Let us know how your test turns out. I am hoping you have your BFP!!!

 

[Fluffyangel]

Hi girls,

I am writing now feeling sad and baffled.. Got results back from blood test, and I have 1.2 level of hcg, meaning am not pregnant.
How can the body trick you so much, with so much cm discharge every day, and so many other symptoms?? I don't get it, but am not gonna wonder anymore, am just gonna wait for af and does it. I am having a scan in 2 weeks, just to see if all is ok down there, and if I still don't get my period. If iend up pregnant after all, I will let you know. Until then, goodbye, good luck to all xxxxx