Dh and I. I spoke with the re about going back on bcp so we can try to control when I start taking the meds but she doesn't want to do that and she said if I got pg it wouldn't be anything to worry about but my chances are slim at this point so I said to dh it's better that we just don't get our hopes up and then in June once I have confirmation that there is no fluid in my uterus then we can start trying again. I just really know there is no way it could happen right now so why tell myself lies.