2/3/4dpo and going crazy already?!?!

[sprite30]

You have to go to sharing> setup> publish intercourse data.

Well dec/jan isn't too far away. Ill give you a chance to give it a good go. Yeah I think we just reached that point were its not fun anymore. I think if they give us and all clear with the dye test and SA then well either go ahead with iui or be very relaxed but it's starting to get to me now.

I like temping but now I'm beginning to understand why the RE told me its not perfect.

 

[laurarebecca1]

I've done it now! When you click can you see my chart now?
Our bd timing was okay, wish we could have done it day before o though!

Yeah I know it'll go very quickly, I just hope I get my bfp before then!

I know exactly what you mean, that is why we've done sooo many months of ntnp just to keep it fun! and i try not to tell oh when im ovulating, i just jump him lol so he thinks its spontaneous (luckily i'm always horny around ovulation so its fun for me too!)

Yeah I never realised it was so inaccurate! I'm excited to see my temp tomorrow, altough I'm getting up earlier!

 

[sprite30]

Awesome thanks I see it.

I think your timing was fine maybe that what you needed again for oh to abstain and then bd like bunnies, it's almost the same situation as last cycle for you so I have my fingers crossed that that is what works for you.

Lucky for you lol this whole process is just turning me off and the months I was horny I was so excited that our timing was perfect and everything looked like it was leaning towards being pg and then i wasn't, so I am discouraged now.

Dhs SA is today, I get out of work at 4 so I can drive with him. Yippee and my dye test is tomorrow. I just took the first dose of antibiotics and ill be doing an opk in an hour and a half. I think this is prob the only time I've ever wished it wasn't pos but I have a funny feeling that it might be pos today because last night my spotting picked up a bit. Hopefully they don't cancel the dye test due to this stupid spotting she said as long as its not a flow they can do it. I'm getting excited for this to be over with and just know either way.

How are you doing? Any symptoms?

 

[laurarebecca1]

Yeah I hope that's the reason, all the other months when we bd everyday and sometimes twice a day its never happened!

I've got sharp stabbing pains in my uterus, I'm exhausted and my boobs are aching, I really can't help getting my hopes up! I've promised myself I'm not testing until this money comes through, which should be wednesday so I'm only letting myself go buy tests then otherwise I would go buy them today and 6dpo is wayyyy too early!

Oooo good look for dh! Fingers crossed!
I'm excited for your dye test tomorrow (I hope your spotting stops!) I hope your opk is - !!! We want a positive on monday for you!!!

 

[sprite30]

When I first went to the re she said every other day that way you cover all your bases and your not doing it too much but then I came on here and everyone was saying that everyday is fine but if everyday is not working then why not try something else.

Yay for sharp stabbing pains lol haha never thought I would say that to some one or never thought I'd be happy to get a neg opk today. Hopefully you keep having symptoms and my pos opk doesn't come until Monday. That would be awesome. I only have 3 ic OPKs left, my order for new ones hasn't come in the mail yet so I'm hoping those come by tomorrow otherwise ill be stuck using the smileys and that can get pretty expensive. It's gonna be a pain to temp and test while we are away this weekend so I'm going to have to find lots of excuses to go to the bathroom. Lol

 

[laurarebecca1]

I guess its just what works for you! Every guys sperm is different etc hopefully the way we've done it this cycle works!

Did you do the opk?

Yeah stabbing pains have continued and I had a weird pulling sensation to the left of my belly button! I'm very gassy today tmi lol! I really hope these twinges/cramps are implantation!!!

I hope your new opks come soon, so you can continue testing! Ill be stalking your chart everyday now!

What time is your dye test?

Lol at all the excuses you're going to have to make!!

 

[sprite30]

Yes I took the opk, it was neg. so I think I'm in the clear now. If I get a pos opk tomorrow I prob won't o until Sunday then so just in time to dtd quick and still have a chance.

Only 45 minutes yet until we leave the house for the SA and tomorrow's dye test is at 1:30 pm my time so I think that's 630 your time, I think.

Yay for the symptoms, half the symptoms I get can be explained away.

 

[laurarebecca1]

How exciting! Make sure you input your opk on ff so I can stalk tomorrow, I hope you get + on saturday instead! That would be even better!

Ooo good luck to dh! Keep me updated on tomorrows dye test! Yeah 6:30 seems about right! Ill be in anticipation all day!

That's how I feel about my symptoms, I'm sure they're nothing! Uterus feels very heavy which is weird and twinges have continued! Boobs are also heavy! But like I say I'm sure they aare nothing and just me over analysing!

Edit: boobs are really hurting, with shooting pains through them

 

[sprite30]

Yah anything later would be better but I'm still spotting his morning so I hope they don't cancel my dye test. She said as long as its just spotting its fine so I guess I'll go and see what they say.

Dhs SA went ok yesterday we were late. The traffic was horrible but everyone was late after usbtoo so I didn't feel to bad. Dh said it was absolutely horrible. He said the porn and magazines they had were nasty and the room smelled like body odor. I felt so bad for him but im surprised because its a new building. But he said he was sooooo not into it that he Hardly came at all but the girl said it was enough. So I'm hoping his numbers come back ok they say the more excited you are the more you produce. At this point I'm just over thinking it but they said my nurse will call me in a week. So only a 1ww shouldn't be too bad luckily I have all this excitement today to make the time go fast and this weekend will go fast as well.

 

[laurarebecca1]

I hope your dye test is still on!! I've seen your chart, - opk how good is that!! Is your spotting heavy? When I spot its just like brown cm, (like creamy cm but with a brown tint) is that what you have?

Oh no, at least you got there! Oh how awful, I swear if I told oh it was like that he would refuse!

1ww woooo, so much better than any longer!

I can't believe af is due a week tomorrow. I've only got backache today, little twinges but not nearly what yesterdays was like (implantation yesterday? 5dpo seems wayyy too early though) ohdear I'm over analysing, I am going to be crushed if/when af shows


Edit: Crystal any news on the dye test? (I've been thinking of you - i hope it wasnt too painful!)

 

[sprite30]

Well I just got home my the dye test, we almost had to cancel it. The technician couldn't get the catheter through my cervix. She had to call the doctor and the doctor had to come from the office to the hospital and we had to wait for her. It's was excruciatingly painful but not the dye part, the getting the Cather part through she had to use a smaller catheter and even then it was a horrible struggle. Once she got it in and the radiologist was ready when they pushed the dye the right side was perfect and the the left side had some spillage but you could see it was blocked and very large, like a sausage lol her words not mine lol

So I need to make an appt with her for 2 weeks so we can talk about how to resolve the problems I have she is 100%sure that ill need some form of assistance but shell go over all the options in 2weeks and let us decide what we'd like to do. She said she can unblock the tube but it'll require surgery so I don't know I think we need to just see the costs of everything she suggests and go from there.

It's been an exhausting day. I'd like to chat more but I'm going to take a nap before we get on the road.

 

[laurarebecca1]

Was it struggle because your cervix is very narrow? good news that one is perfect and good that they are doing what you can to sort out the left one!

it does make you wonder...i bet there are loads of women who have one blocked tube but never know about it!

i have high hopes that the dye test creates a lovely little path for dh spermies to get the eggy after 24 hours, i say get bd'ing!!! have you taken your opk with you? was dh with you through the whole process?

i hope you can make a plan (and a baby) and everything works out soon for you!

 

[sprite30]

Yes because of my narrow cervix. Sorry I'm driving in the car right now so it's not so easy to type.

I'm devastated right now I just found out my sister in law in pregnant and I can't help but be sad. I should be happy or her but I just keep thinking that should be me right now and why did I have to find out today of all days when I'm already upset about the blocked tube.

When you asked before about the spotting it's enough that I can't wear just a panty liner but its not a steady flow either, it's sucks. I'm kinda sick of it all I think I need to just enjoy my weekend and put it all on the back burner for a couple weeks until we see what the RE says.

I found two more opks so I was able to bring four with me and I just got the tracking # for the new ones I ordered they should come in Mondays mail

 

[laurarebecca1]

I hope you have the most fabulous weekend, enjoy yourself and have a lovely time with dh (ie get bd'ing lol!)

I'm very sorry to hear you're sad I know you're going to be a fantastic mummy, it will happen when the time is right and until then I'm here every single month!!

That is poo about your spotting though I hope it gets better!

 

[sprite30]

I'm certainly going try. I guess it's good we have a 4 hour car ride we have done ton of talking already.

Thanks so much for the support . How is everything going with you ? Same symptoms? Anything new?

 

[laurarebecca1]

I'm certainly going try. I guess it's good we have a 4 hour car ride we have done ton of talking already.

Thanks so much for the support . How is everything going with you ? Same symptoms? Anything new?

Talking is good sounds like DH is very supportive, you are very lucky!!

I cant help but get excited about my 4dpo dip, i feel like its implantation, it coincides with the cramps/twinges and stabbing pains in boobs! Today though, no cramps/twinges, and boobs have literally just starting aching as i took my bra off (4dpo they hurt all day in bra!) i feel i am over thinking it all and this is probably normal! i'm techincally 7dpo (lol its 00:27) ohdear i'm obsessed, i've not been like this for a long time. i feel last month has given me hope, all to be dashed when af arrives

Edit: my temp has shot up this morning! Omg was it implantation?!?!?!

Edit #2: does my chart look triphasic to you? I'm seriously getting excited omg calm me down!!

Edit#3: I was so emotional yesterday it was unreal, crying over stupid things lol! I feel pregnant... Is that weird to say?

 

[sprite30]

Yep looks triphasic to me lol yay!!!

No it doesn't sound weird. Most people do feel pregnant before they get a pos test but I would certainly wait as long as you can to test now so your not getting your hopes up too much. When are you planning to test?

 

[laurarebecca1]

Crystal, i caved and bought 2 tests today lol ohdear! i'm holding my wee as we speak to do one this afternoon, my chart suggests i implanted at 4dpo so if i am indeed pregnant it should show by now surely?

then i will wait with the other and do it FMU tomorrow or wednesday! AF is due sunday but i am 9dpo, cant believe how fast its gone by!

how are you feeling? i see no +opk yet!! this is such good news, eggy will be nice and mature and following the dye test this could be it for you!!!

 

[sprite30]

That is what I always tell myself when I test at 9dpo that surely by now it should show but then I come on here and everyone tells me I still have a shot and then I just drive myself crazy for the next 3days. Lol it's a vicious cycle but just remember 9dpo is still very early and I'd like to think that if you got a pos now the eggy would have plenty of time to snuggle in and build up hcg before period is due. I vote for you to wait until 12dpo but I know if it were me that would never happen especially since your chart looks so good right now.

No +opk yet but the new ones are due in the mail today I just got the email notification that they are out for delivery. I have a bit of allergies right now or a cold coming on I'm not sure which yet but I slept like 10 hours last night. I need to start taking the bcomplex again I really liked the energy I got from it now I just feel lazy and tired lately

 

[laurarebecca1]

lol i know but they are just sat in the bathroom waiting to be used! i promised myself i wouldn't test til thursday but i've been sat on bnb and ff all morning and i just couldn't resist!

i just hope i did implant on 4dpo so it will show and if not, i will probs save the other one til wednesday (11dpo). ive seen so many people get + so early, i just hope that i am one of them!!!!

wooo how exciting!! get bding ready!! ive started taking multivitamins and folic acid again, i didn't want to take b complex for it mess up my LP but i think i will start it on cd1.

ive held my pee for 2 and a half hours so far lol going to try hold as long as possible!

EDIT: after a 3 hour hold, i think i see a very faint line but it may just be my imagination!! i'm counting it as a BFN and i'm going to wait til wednesday now!