2013 losses- rainbow baby making thread...

[Nimyra]

And her due date is the date my little one was due. :sob:

 

[Kasey84]

My best friend just found out her baby's gender yesterday. I just hate that exciting news like this breaks my heart How does everyone deal with this kind of situation?

So hard isn't it.
My sister is 29 weeks pregnant and I'm so so jealous. X

Yes it is! Hugs to you. And lots of baby dust

 

[Kasey84]

And her due date is the date my little one was due. :sob:

Aww Hun. Big hugs to you. A friend of mine is due the same day I would have been. Thankfully, she does not live close, but i still had to delete her from facebook as I couldn't stand to see her pics and updates. I wish we could all get our rainbows soon! I keep thinking that will ease the pain of the loss. It's hard too when your caught off guard seeing a baby or pregnant woman and unfortunately others don't seem to realize how hard this is

 

[GalvanBaby]

I know how you all feel since I had my mc 3 weeks ago, since then 4 people have announced their pregnancies. The worst part is 3 of the pregnancies were unwanted and 1 is a woman who has abandoned her kids with her mom. Another is her sister who lives with and off of her mom, she doesn't even work and already has 3 kids who her mom supports, to beat it all, she is due the exact same day as I was. The other is my SIL who makes sure everybody knows almost daily that she did not want this pregnancy. She is married and ok financially so she can handle another baby, but didn't want anymore. Her BCP failed. She is due a week before I was.

 

[george83]

Massive hugs to you all ladies, your so brave facing these ladies x x

 

[AwesomeSauce]

Hugs to all. I finally feel like I am getting answers to why I have miscarried repeatedly. There is hope and now that I have a potential explaination I can work hard to fix the problem!

 

[george83]

Hugs to all. I finally feel like I am getting answers to why I have miscarried repeatedly. There is hope and now that I have a potential explaination I can work hard to fix the problem!

That's wonderful news!! You must be so happy fingers crossed it all starts to work out for you

 

[Misscalais]

Thanks girls, your support helps a lot.

 

[Charly28]

Hi lovely ladies,

I m new to these forums..

First I just want to pass on my sincere condolences to all of you who have lost precious angels (as I have) all my love, I wish us all BFP's ASAP xx

Quick intro about me for those interested - I am 28, from New Zealand and just lost my wee baby girl in Early April when I was at 20 weeks devastating is a massive understatement

I desperately want to concieve again.. And the sooner the better to be honest.. I hate this wait, I hate not knowing when I will ovulate!! (I sound like a control freak I know.. I swear I am not, haha)

I am charting with FF and the charting is helping me learn about my body and about cycles etc.. But the frustrating part is not knowing when I will ovulate (fyi, my specialist has given me the all clear to try again as everything has one so well, so I am thankful for that, waiting longer than I am already would drive me crazy I think)

Does anyone have any insight into 'ovulation after loss'? (I know everyone is different but I am curious about our thoughts, personal experiences, etc)
How long did it take some of you?

Incase anyone would like a nosey at my chart its here: https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/43bc43

Any thoughts / insights / opinions would be awesome

My temps seem all over the show

I am BD-ing like CRAZY in the hopes that I may be ovulating!! It is fun and my partner is not complaining But it would be great to have an idea of what's going on!!


Anyway, that's me,

Big love to you all once again

Xx

 

[twinmummy06]

Welcome Charly, I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my daughter at 15 weeks in mid march and am TTC too. Not to get your hopes down or anything (as we are all different) but I found my hcg to drop very slowly after initially falling very quickly. Mu hcg took almost 2 weeks to go from 35 - 12!!
Also my body's out of whack but I'm hoping the signs I'm getting (again!) mean O will finally be approaching - I'm almost 7 weeks post birth and nothing yet

 

[LucyLake]

Hi everyone,

I need help!! I'm on Day 13 past AF and was SO sure I had ovulated on Day 11. I had the cramps, the discharge, but it was never TOO dramatic or white and pliable. More like white and kind of gross (could have been husband's sperm as well perhaps). Today, out of nowhere, my temperature went back up, cramps kicked in, boobs are Full and tingly, and I got a positive OPK?

Does it look positive to you as well?

What is going on in your opinion?

Could I have already o'ed, but show a positive? Also, yesterday and all this week, my tests were negative, though I had the faintest of positives I thought on cycle day 11...but they said there's no such thing as faint positives with these tests?
Could I have o'ed twice this cycle and have the twin possibility even though it's been more than 24 hours between?

I'm waiting and dying for my husband to come home at 9 to BD!!!

https://i44.tinypic.com/2zya5jd.jpg

 

[LucyLake]

Nimyra, just want to reach across the miles and give you a huge ginormous hug. I hope everything worked out yesterday when and if you talked to your dad and that you had a better day today. Your words helped me so much, I cannot even tell you. Thank you for making me feel confident and empowered. I hope you're doing okay

Charly28, welcome and I'm sorry for your loss.

TwinMummy06 and Galvan, hope you're both doing well in your journey to TTC

George83 and Kasey84, this whole thing is crazy stressful. It's hard to imagine doing this month after month after month. I feel like Elizabeth McGovern and Kevin Bacon in She's Having a Baby. Hugs to both of you

 

[Charly28]

Twinmummy - Wow, 7 weeks, how frustrating for you Well fingers crossed it happens soon for you (both OV and PG)

I have been getting negative pregnancy tests for a while now.. I have no idea what my hcg levels were/are though - I haven't been told and I haven't had a checkup since 1 week post loss. I have a 6 week check up scheduled soon so I will have to ask then. I hope it's low/back to 0! But who knows?

My temp this morning was 36.67 (celcius) which is a significant jump from my usual temps of late (which have been between 36.10 - 36.40) I can only hope that my temp stays up now, meaning ovulation has occurred!
I hope it's not a tease Time will tell.. Not going to get my hopes up just yet

 

[Charly28]

Lucy lake - I haven't gotten into using opk's personally yet (ordered a bunch off the net though which should be here any day) it's looking like a positive though, if not awfully close!! Def BD ASAP
Goodluck!! Xx

 

[LucyLake]

Thanks Charly28 xoxo

Your situation also looks very promising with your temperature going up

I'm anxiously awaiting my husband, though we did BD last night at 9. He'll be here at 9, it's prom weekend with our business

 

[AwesomeSauce]

I am only on cd4 it seems like it should be cd 17 or so. Time goes so slowly when you are waiting.

 

[GalvanBaby]

Lucy, I have never had a double positive during my cycle, but it can happen. I can't really see the pic for some reason.

I will take my last BCP tonight! I think the cyst went away with my HCG levels because I haven't felt any pressure from it since my levels went to 0. I expect AF sometime this week. Tomorrow would be a great day for it to start LOL. As soon as it starts, I am to call me RE to set up an appointment for my baseline ultrasound. I am praying this month is our sticky bean month.

How is everyone doing?

 

[EarthMama]

I'm in the two week wait now. I did all I can do. Pretty excited to test on the 18th of May. could test earlier but not gonna. Maybe. Haha

I do have a feeling we did it though. Time will tell but...something feels different.

Love keeping up with you ladies. Good luck to us all!!

 

[GalvanBaby]

Earth Mama, I just saw that you live in Hawaii. How does it feel to live in paradise? I so envy you. LOL

 

[twinmummy06]

Never used OPK's before - is this a positive ladies? Sorry for the crappy iPhone pic!

https://i843.photobucket.com/albums/zz353/twinmummy06/image_zpsaa712818.jpg