2013 losses- rainbow baby making thread...

[Kasey84]

I don't know what I'd do without all you ladies

 

[tlk71411]

Sorry got you Kasey!! FX for your next cycle

I'm still bleeding...it's exactly like AF bleeding...I'm hoping it stops soon cuz I would like to be able to at least try for the week DH is here... I guess we shall see!! If not yall will have to put me down for July/August!

 

[Kasey84]

Sorry got you Kasey!! FX for your next cycle

I'm still bleeding...it's exactly like AF bleeding...I'm hoping it stops soon cuz I would like to be able to at least try for the week DH is here... I guess we shall see!! If not yall will have to put me down for July/August!

Thanks! FX for you too! Hope it stops soon so you can ttc when your DH is home!

 

[tlk71411]

Me too! He's only here a week...and I'm pretty sure you cant get pregnant while still bleeding

 

[LucyLake]

Hi everyone, how are all of you?

I'm sorry I haven't been on much, this managing thing is kicking my butt in terms of multi-tasking.

I'm kind of frustrated. Tomorrow is Day 28 post Miscarriage (placenta coming off wall) Feb 28. I'm expecting my period and cramping some for the past 5-6 days but nothing...it doesn't even feel like it's close to coming. My HCG Levels were at 0 FINALLY last Saturday....and my periods are short and come at Day 26-27 like clockwork. But, so far nothing.

Sigh. *

Waiting for this first AF to start TTC again is no fun. My doctor warned me that I might not see AF for a month to the day AFTER my levels hit 0. They even told me not to call until exactly 8 WEEKS FROM TODAY if I'm still waiting for it. That feels like a freaking eternity!!

I'm anxious to get this party started!! I know it's silly, but I'm pretty adamant about not having a baby with a March-June 2014 Birth-date. It LITERALLY means we have to go down to one income because I can't work in those months as manager. It's going to be almost impossible to leave a week old baby in the care of my hubby who works nights or a daycare!! Self-employed small business=NO maternity leave. So I really want to get this show on the road. And of course, that's IF getting pregnant and not miscarrying is even an option.

Also, I'm just so sad. My October baby would have been PERFECT timing. But, it was not to be and I'm missing him I found myself at Target after work today and somehow ended up in maternity clothing section just hopelessly dreaming.

Anyone else patiently awaiting that first AF and getting nowhere? I feel like I'm missing my opportunity by trying to do the right thing and wait/be patient.

 

[Peacenik]

Anyone else patiently awaiting that first AF and getting nowhere? I feel like I'm missing my opportunity by trying to do the right thing and wait/be patient.

I'm pretty sure I should be due this weekend but thus far I've got zero symptoms so I guess we'll see. By now I should be craving salt/chocolate and raging crabby!

 

[LucyLake]

Anyone else patiently awaiting that first AF and getting nowhere? I feel like I'm missing my opportunity by trying to do the right thing and wait/be patient.

I'm pretty sure I should be due this weekend but thus far I've got zero symptoms so I guess we'll see. By now I should be craving salt/chocolate and raging crabby!

YES!! Same here!! I've got cramps, but they aren't staying put. Lol, I want to cramp and cramp like never before. Instead, they come and go and are too light to be AF related--I have to take advil on day 1 of AF. I'm hoping it just magically comes, but I just have this feeling it's going to take longer in my case. Hope you have a VERY short wait in comparison

 

[george83]

Also, I'm just so sad. My October baby would have been PERFECT timing. But, it was not to be and I'm missing him I found myself at Target after work today and somehow ended up in maternity clothing section just hopelessly dreaming. .

I totally understand how you feel, my baby was due in September and was perfect timing, now I'm stuck thinking about whether to stay in a job I actually hate just in case we fall pregnant again or risk changing jobs and falling pregnant when I'm there, I feel like not only have I been robbed off my baby but literally everything I wanted too x x

 

[LucyLake]

Also, I'm just so sad. My October baby would have been PERFECT timing. But, it was not to be and I'm missing him I found myself at Target after work today and somehow ended up in maternity clothing section just hopelessly dreaming. .

I totally understand how you feel, my baby was due in September and was perfect timing, now I'm stuck thinking about whether to stay in a job I actually hate just in case we fall pregnant again or risk changing jobs and falling pregnant when I'm there, I feel like not only have I been robbed off my baby but literally everything I wanted too x x

Exactly George83!!! My heart breaks for you...this whole thing has really added insult to injury. I had to lose my sweet October baby which would have had me returning to my manager job (I work from home usually, but go in March-June) starting the 2nd trimester and most likely losing morning sickness. Instead, I'm going to have to hope I get pregnant again, don't miscarry, and somehow don't have morning sickness even though I'll be in the office all first trimester. With my son, I had a bookstore university job and was going to the bathroom to vomit on the hour. It was pure hell. This time would be even harder because unlike then, as manager I can't just run off. We have drivers coming in and out in a panic trying to get to the airport and needing keys, paperwork, etc sometimes items locked in a safe. So I'm frustrated and more sad than ever about our fates...just praying it somehow all works out.

Hope it does for you too.... I can think of nothing worse than going to a job you hate and dealing with this loss

 

[ece77]

We lost our October baby too, which would be due around our 1st wedding anniversary, and would be the greatest gift ever. And now I can't help thinking how that day will pass with this pain I hope I'll be pregnant again with a healthy bean by that time so that it won't be just torture!

 

[Raggydoll]

Hi ladies, hope you are all well. Kasey I'm really sorry the got you.

I've had a few days break. I went to watch Olly Murs yesterday. I had been kind of dreading it since the MC as in my head I'd prepared to be 18 weeks pregnant when I went.
I really enjoyed myself though and feel nice and relaxed today.

Welcome to all the new ladies.

I finally stopped bleeding at the end of last week. It was just over 5 weeks post ERPC and 6 since my MC started. I've posted my first ov test in the test section. I'm trying to decide if its positive.

Sending you all lots of baby dust.

 

[Kasey84]

Hi everyone, how are all of you?

I'm sorry I haven't been on much, this managing thing is kicking my butt in terms of multi-tasking.

I'm kind of frustrated. Tomorrow is Day 28 post Miscarriage (placenta coming off wall) Feb 28. I'm expecting my period and cramping some for the past 5-6 days but nothing...it doesn't even feel like it's close to coming. My HCG Levels were at 0 FINALLY last Saturday....and my periods are short and come at Day 26-27 like clockwork. But, so far nothing.

Sigh. *

Waiting for this first AF to start TTC again is no fun. My doctor warned me that I might not see AF for a month to the day AFTER my levels hit 0. They even told me not to call until exactly 8 WEEKS FROM TODAY if I'm still waiting for it. That feels like a freaking eternity!!

I'm anxious to get this party started!! I know it's silly, but I'm pretty adamant about not having a baby with a March-June 2014 Birth-date. It LITERALLY means we have to go down to one income because I can't work in those months as manager. It's going to be almost impossible to leave a week old baby in the care of my hubby who works nights or a daycare!! Self-employed small business=NO maternity leave. So I really want to get this show on the road. And of course, that's IF getting pregnant and not miscarrying is even an option.

Also, I'm just so sad. My October baby would have been PERFECT timing. But, it was not to be and I'm missing him I found myself at Target after work today and somehow ended up in maternity clothing section just hopelessly dreaming.

Anyone else patiently awaiting that first AF and getting nowhere? I feel like I'm missing my opportunity by trying to do the right thing and wait/be patient.

LucyLake, I hope AF visits you sooner rather then later so you can ttc again! My fingers are crossed for you. I waited for 2 AF's before ttc again and it was very hard to be patient!

My OH and I ttc this cycle, but sadly I got a BFN and AF arrived just yesterday

I know what you mean about missing your October baby. I can't believe I won't have my little bundle in June as planned I'm hoping for a BFP before my "would have been due day" but there's only a couple of opportunities left to make that happen!

I hope your cycles get back on track soon! I sure would love to see news of some BFP's on here soon

 

[Kasey84]

Hi ladies, hope you are all well. Kasey I'm really sorry the got you.

I've had a few days break. I went to watch Olly Murs yesterday. I had been kind of dreading it since the MC as in my head I'd prepared to be 18 weeks pregnant when I went.
I really enjoyed myself though and feel nice and relaxed today.

Welcome to all the new ladies.

I finally stopped bleeding at the end of last week. It was just over 5 weeks post ERPC and 6 since my MC started. I've posted my first ov test in the test section. I'm trying to decide if its positive.

Sending you all lots of baby dust.

Thanks! I'm glad you did something that helped you feel relaxed! It's well deserved good news that the bleeding has stopped...all the best in ttc again Lots of baby dust to you too!

 

[mumofone25]

Hi ladies, hope you are all well. Kasey I'm really sorry the got you.

I've had a few days break. I went to watch Olly Murs yesterday. I had been kind of dreading it since the MC as in my head I'd prepared to be 18 weeks pregnant when I went.
I really enjoyed myself though and feel nice and relaxed today.

Welcome to all the new ladies.

I finally stopped bleeding at the end of last week. It was just over 5 weeks post ERPC and 6 since my MC started. I've posted my first ov test in the test section. I'm trying to decide if its positive.

Sending you all lots of baby dust.

glad you got out and enjoyed yourself

 

[karenh]

I would like to join you ladies please. DH and I have been trying for just over 6 years. We finally got our first BFP Jan 2nd. Baby's due date was Sep 10th. It turned out to be an ectopic pregnancy and I had to have methotrexate to terminate on January 28th. I had weekly blood tests to follow my HCG drop. It was finally negative March 12th. I have goetten my period but my RE wants me to wait another month to start trying. I will take Femara April 19-23 and then my mis cycle U/S is May 2nd. Most likely IUI on May 4th and Beta May 15th.

 

[twinmummy06]

Still bleeding here which I totally expected - I'm pretty sure I bled for 3 weeks last time and I was only 8 weeks then, not 15.
I've made a promise to myself to lose as much weight as (healthy) possible and cut out all the shitty junk food before we conceive again. I'm totally not expecting to even O until probably end of April, if even by then.

 

[Peacenik]

I would like to join you ladies please. DH and I have been trying for just over 6 years. We finally got our first BFP Jan 2nd. Baby's due date was Sep 10th. It turned out to be an ectopic pregnancy and I had to have methotrexate to terminate on January 28th. I had weekly blood tests to follow my HCG drop. It was finally negative March 12th. I have goetten my period but my RE wants me to wait another month to start trying. I will take Femara April 19-23 and then my mis cycle U/S is May 2nd. Most likely IUI on May 4th and Beta May 15th.

Hi Karen, sorry for your loss. I just wanted to say hi to a fellow ectopic survivor.

 

[LucyLake]

Took a hpt earlier this morning and sadly got a BFN. A while after taking the test AF arrived...I guess the symptoms I was hoping were pregnancy related were actually signs that AF was coming. My chances of getting a BFP before my " would have been due date" are getting slim now

I hate being back at this stage...Testing and being dissappointed! It's hard to stay positive!

NO!!!!! Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry Kasey84, I was really hoping you'd be the first in the group and just hope you'll still be. I'm sorry I missed this announcement and didn't scroll back a few pages yesterday!!! I'm really praying for you to still get pregnant around April 15....you can have the cutest little New Year's babe--or Jan 7 thereabouts. Love to you and big, big hugs. The wait is absolute TORTURE, especially when you feel you did things right by being patient. It's just SO unfair and I'm just praying that maybe in your case, a Capricorn or Aquarius baby was what was in the stars for you I'm SO afraid of cycles taking time to get back to normal

 

[LucyLake]

Hi ladies, hope you are all well. Kasey I'm really sorry the got you.

I've had a few days break. I went to watch Olly Murs yesterday. I had been kind of dreading it since the MC as in my head I'd prepared to be 18 weeks pregnant when I went.
I really enjoyed myself though and feel nice and relaxed today.

Welcome to all the new ladies.

I finally stopped bleeding at the end of last week. It was just over 5 weeks post ERPC and 6 since my MC started. I've posted my first ov test in the test section. I'm trying to decide if its positive.

Sending you all lots of baby dust.

Hi Raggydoll, great to see a familiar face back here and just very happy to hear you think you had a positive OPK and bleeding stopped. Huge hugs and baby dust

 

[2013myyear]

Evening ladies I hope everyone is well wishing everybody lots of luck and sending lots of baby dust xxxx xxxx