2013 losses- rainbow baby making thread...

[Miniegg27]

Bless you! Thanks hun! Will let you know how it goes!! Think positive thoughts girls!! X

 

[AwesomeSauce]

I am hoping all of you get the sticky bfp's you seek very very soon. Hugs to all.

 

[twinmummy06]

So I ended up with a hysteroscopy and curette today and they got rid of the 5 cent size piece that's been causing me dramas. So I hold almost no chance for this cycle if I did in fact O. Of course these things all had to fall into place at the exact same time

 

[Miniegg27]

Hey lovely ladies. All was fine at the scan today! I cannot tell you the relief I felt when I saw that little heart fluttering! It's measuring spot on what it should do and we even saw it moving about! Thank you for such wonderful support! Sending you all bucket loads of baby dust!!
X

 

[Kasey84]

Hey lovely ladies. All was fine at the scan today! I cannot tell you the relief I felt when I saw that little heart fluttering! It's measuring spot on what it should do and we even saw it moving about! Thank you for such wonderful support! Sending you all bucket loads of baby dust!!
X

Oh Miniegg27 I'm so glad for you!! That must have been amazing! Thanks for the baby dust I hope the rest of us can join you soon

 

[Peacenik]

Hey lovely ladies. All was fine at the scan today! I cannot tell you the relief I felt when I saw that little heart fluttering! It's measuring spot on what it should do and we even saw it moving about! Thank you for such wonderful support! Sending you all bucket loads of baby dust!!
X

Yay! Congrats - that is such good news!

 

[george83]

Yay miniegg congratulations!!! I'm so pleased it went well must be such a wonderful relief

And seems as though its a day for good news just thought I'd share that i got my bfp this morning so I'm now sending buckets of baby dust over all of you ladies, hoping the good news is spreading x x x x

 

[george83]

So I ended up with a hysteroscopy and curette today and they got rid of the 5 cent size piece that's been causing me dramas. So I hold almost no chance for this cycle if I did in fact O. Of course these things all had to fall into place at the exact same time

I'm sorry that it means this cycle is out but at least it all sounds like a step in the right direction, fingers crossed the next cycle is the one for you x x

 

[Miniegg27]

Yay miniegg congratulations!!! I'm so pleased it went well must be such a wonderful relief

And seems as though its a day for good news just thought I'd share that i got my bfp this morning so I'm now sending buckets of baby dust over all of you ladies, hoping the good news is spreading x x x x

Yay!!!!!!!! Congratulations!!!!!!! XXX

 

[Kasey84]

Yay miniegg congratulations!!! I'm so pleased it went well must be such a wonderful relief

And seems as though its a day for good news just thought I'd share that i got my bfp this morning so I'm now sending buckets of baby dust over all of you ladies, hoping the good news is spreading x x x x

Congrats george83!!! I'm so happy for you I'm loving the good news, it makes me feel hopeful Maybe this the start of a trend!

 

[LucyLake]

George83, I teared up with joy here at work reading this! Omg congratulations! You've been such a huge support to me and this is so well deserved . I really can't tell you how excited I was to read this, you made me believe again.

Miniegg, yay!!! I'm so glad baby is looking perfect!!

You guys are making me smile, love it

 

[GalvanBaby]

That is wonderful miniegg!!

George83 a huge massive congratulations!!

I am still waiting on AF, it has only been 2 days since I stopped BCP, but I am very impatient today!

 

[george83]

Thanks ladies I'm hoping its the start of a positive trend too. I'm sure it's normal but at the minute I can't enjoy it and I feel like I'm just waiting to mc again, I haven't even told my husband yet because once I tell him it's real and if its real then I can lose it again I want to be as naive as I was when I fell pregnant with my son x x

 

[twinmummy06]

Miniegg woohoo for a great scan!
George - Congratulations!!!

 

[AwesomeSauce]

Congratulations George! This is going to be it for you! Sticky baby dust.

I am having so many mixed feelings. I am terrified of conceiving again. Terrified of being sick, terrified of not being sick, terrified of more heartbreak. How do you handle feelings And fears like these?

 

[LucyLake]

Thanks ladies I'm hoping its the start of a positive trend too. I'm sure it's normal but at the minute I can't enjoy it and I feel like I'm just waiting to mc again, I haven't even told my husband yet because once I tell him it's real and if its real then I can lose it again I want to be as naive as I was when I fell pregnant with my son x x

Massive hugs George83. If and when I fall pregnant, I plan to truly enjoy it. It will be my last baby irregardless of gender. But, I have the feeling that I too will have the same worries you're experiencing today. Embrace this though, I truly believe you've got this!!

How were your symptoms over the last 2 weeks? Better than the ones with the MC? Probably so!!! Huge hugs and I know your husband will be over the moon

 

[LucyLake]

Congratulations George! This is going to be it for you! Sticky baby dust.

I am having so many mixed feelings. I am terrified of conceiving again. Terrified of being sick, terrified of not being sick, terrified of more heartbreak. How do you handle feelings And fears like these?

I'm went through the same thing AwesomeSauce. My personal experience is that I'm really excited about TTC again, but those first two months post-MC, I was Terrified!! I'm taking it one minute at a time, but I plan to enjoy it come what may. Whatever happens will happen and I'm completely expecting to spot if I ever fall pregnant with a rainbow. But, I DO plan to enjoy every fleeting minute because it will be my last pregnancy if it sticks. Hugs as you make your way down the winding road. I promise it will get better and I just know in my heart that this time next year, SO many of the people here will have cute baby bumps and Scans to show off replacing the sadness. That is what I see when I search old threads.

My fear is more realizing if and when I fall just how much I wanted it to be my October 2 baby and not being willing to let myself love this new and amazing little human. I'm afraid that it will hit me that TTC again was merely an outlet to distract myself from my grief.

 

[AwesomeSauce]

I'm afraid that it will hit me that TTC again was merely an outlet to distract myself from my grief.

this happened for me. After my second miscarriage I was so obsessed about falling pregnant again. I thought about it nonstop, ad then I did get pregnant again. That came with a whole other ball of emotions, and when I miscarried yet again I finally came to terms with the fact that I had to finish grieving because another pregnancy did not and never would have healed my heart. It was then that I finally found peace with my life again. At this point I do not intend to protect against pregnancy, but I am not obsessing about it anymore either. I am willing to let go and let God work His will in my family.

I am still afraid of that bfp though, because I know how slowly time will
pass before I hold a healthy strong baby in my arms, and all of the fears that accompany that time are sure to be very difficult to deal with.

 

[mowat]

Hi ladies. I was away for the weekend and I seem to have missed lots of good news! So exciting!

Just wondering how many of you ovulated the first cycle after miscarriage? Can't tell what's going on with my temps, and of course, while I was away I didn't temp or take an opk. Hmmm.

 

[george83]

Thanks ladies I'm hoping its the start of a positive trend too. I'm sure it's normal but at the minute I can't enjoy it and I feel like I'm just waiting to mc again, I haven't even told my husband yet because once I tell him it's real and if its real then I can lose it again I want to be as naive as I was when I fell pregnant with my son x x

Massive hugs George83. If and when I fall pregnant, I plan to truly enjoy it. It will be my last baby irregardless of gender. But, I have the feeling that I too will have the same worries you're experiencing today. Embrace this though, I truly believe you've got this!!

How were your symptoms over the last 2 weeks? Better than the ones with the MC? Probably so!!! Huge hugs and I know your husband will be over the moon

My symptoms were non existent in the 2ww, I half expected af at the end of last week but didn't really know what my cycle was and since then I've been really tired, feeling sick on and off but different times everyday and my bb's are all veiny and sore.

Thank you again, I really wish everybody gets their own bfp soon