2013 losses- rainbow baby making thread...

[AwesomeSauce]

It has depended onthe pregnancy. With my first I had really sore boobs, but no other symptoms until after my missed Af. With my second I had zero symptoms until about six weeks and then I thought I was going to die for five months. I was soooo sick. With my third I had massive heartburn around the time of my missed Af, which is what triggered me to test. It was a shock to be pregnant with her. Each of my three miscarriage pregnancies though, I have not had any symptoms what so ever until seven or eight weeks.

 

[ticklemonster]

Is it normal to stop bleeding 2 days after a d and c? Also when will my af return? X x

 

[Miniegg27]

I bleed fresh blood for 2 days after my d&c but then spotted for a few weeks.

 

[EarthMama]

Well I've decided to take a pregnancy test today. I'm having more symptoms (emotional moods/irritability, queasiness, headache) and I think I just want to know. I'm 5 days away from AF so don't know if I'll get a confirmation even if I am, but really wanna test, lol.

 

[mowat]

Good luck Earth Mama!

 

[AwesomeSauce]

I hope you get bfp earthmama!

I am suddenly struggling through this mother's day weekend. Cry

 

[twinmummy06]

Good luck EarthMama!

Ticklemonster - I think everyone varies. My first D and C I bled on and off for like 3 weeks, but it was never that heavy (before the D and C was a different story lol). After my most recent D and C, I bled heavy for like 10 days, passed some clots and then it went to lighter on/off bleeding for another 5-6 weeks. But I found out I had a small piece retained. It took my body 4/5 weeks to ovulate the first time, and I'm pretty sure I just ovulated at 7 weeks this time.

 

[Peacenik]

I hope you get bfp earthmama!

I am suddenly struggling through this mother's day weekend. Cry

Good luck Earthmama!

And Awesome, me too. It's like it came out of nowhere and hit me like a ton of bricks. I've been miserable today and just dreading tomorrow soooo much - which isn't fair to my mom or grandmother, but I think I'm going to just stay home and try to avoid any reminders of the day.

 

[george83]

Good luck earth mama keep us posted!!

 

[george83]

Massive hugs for all you ladies struggling with Mother's Day, we had ours a couple of months ago and it's horrible

 

[ticklemonster]

Good luck earthmama. Thinking of all you lovely ladies this Mother's Day. It's a tough time but we can get through it x x x

 

[Kasey84]

Happy Mother's Day to all you lovely ladies. Whether our babies are here with us or angels in heaven, we are mothers nonetheless. I wanted to share this lovely poem.

Happy Mothers Day to you,
and may peace fill your heart
as you and your sweet baby spend
this mothers day apart.

My thoughts and prayers are with you
on this Mothers Day
for you have seen your hopes and dreams
softly slip away.

Happy Mothers Day to you
you deserve nothing less
for you have borne the burden
of loss and emptiness.

You have earned the right to roses
or daisies in chubby hands
but all I can offer to you
is a friend who understands.

There's so much pain and sorrow
when things turn out this way
but we share a special bond
on this special day.

So Happy Mothers Day, my friend
may it bring some joy to you
for you have loved that special way
that only mothers do.

 

[Raggydoll]

Thinking of all of you on Mother's Day.

Quite a bit to catch up on.

Miniegg I'm so glad your scan went well. I hope the spotting has stopped so you can enjoy your pregnancy.

George83 congratulations on your I love all these positive updates.

Trickle monster. Welcome to the group. I'm really sorry for your loss. How are you doing today?

Earthmama, good luck with your test.

Kasey84, that's a beautiful poem. Thanks for sharing it.

Awesome sauce and peacenik, massive hugs. I hope today has been easy on you. It's incredibly hard to hit a low point especially after you've had good days.

Lucylake, how are you getting on? Are you not so patently waiting out the TWW like me?

Sorry if I've missed anyone. X

 

[ticklemonster]

Raggydoll. I'm ok, keep having little bouts of feeling down, just trying to spend every little minute with my little boy as he keeps me smiling. I still keep thinking why me, which I suppose everyone goes through. I do want to try again soon but I'm petrified its going to keep happening now. I don't know whether to book in and speak with my dr?

How are you? Xx

 

[Miniegg27]

Thanks raggydoll! I haven't had any spotting for the last 2 days so keeping everything crossed that its over and everything with my little miniegg is still ok! How are you doing?

 

[AwesomeSauce]

I think I am pregnant.


How is it possible to have had a period and be pregnant?


At the end of march, when I miscarried yet again, I bled for a couple of weeks and then stopped. I took cheap Walmart pregnancy tests until they were negative, and then I took frer tests until they were negative. About a week and a few days after they went negative bbt and ff indicated I ovulatd. I did have sex around that time but I am not certain of the date. I had come to peace with waiting to try hard to conceive until the end of summer and had determined that I would just embrace the upcoming months. I was at peace for the first time in a year. Ten days after ff I dictated ovulation my period came. It felt like a normal first period after loss. I bled pretty hard for four days and light for another day. I then continued to spot. I thout it had ended yesterday, but this afternoon i still had some pink spotting. This morning I took my bbt and was Really confused as to why it might be high. I took a Walmart pregnancy test and it was positive. How is that even possible? I am certain I am pregnant. I have since taken two more tests, another Walmart $.88 and a cb easy digital. Both are positive. The lines on the Walmart tests are dark enou to be seen from across the room.
I don't have any symptoms. How is it possible to be pregnant and have a heavy period?

Can hcg rise after it went negative after a miscarriage?

I am trying to prepare myself for another miscarriage, but I am having a hard time pushing down the excitement that seems to want to take me over.

 

[george83]

Wow awesomesauce!! I really hope it is a true positive!! I've read stories where people didn't know they were pregnant and went on to have normal periods for months after so yes it is possible although I don't know the reasons or explanations behind it. Can you get a doctors appointment to find out for sure? x x

 

[AwesomeSauce]

I am going to try to get in to see a dr. in the morning.

 

[karenh]

Good luck awesome sauce!

I tested yesterday, 9dpo and BFN. Glaringly so. Oh well.

 

[AwesomeSauce]

Sad face karen