2013 losses- rainbow baby making thread...

[LucyLake]

Nimyra: so excited for you!! Looks like a positive to me!!!!!!

KatS: I'm so sorry and thinking of you. I'm feeling down lately as well . Huge hugs and prayers.

So, it's day 10 and for the second month in a row, I awoke to all my life normal day 10 cramping and yep....a peak ClearBlue smiley for the second month in a row. Gigantic eyeroll. The peak this early throws me off and makes me bd too soon. Last month, I o'ed on day 16 and had a second peak day 15. Not sure what to do.

Could you not try catch both times lucylake? More bd fun hehe. Good luck honey xxx

Thanks so much for your quick answer Bluestars. I think I'll bd today and then if I get a - tomorrow hold off until I get a bit closer unless my temp skyrockets. Thank you . I know the wait stinks, hope you get your BFP ASAP!!!! 3333

Clear Blue Digital should give you a negative tomorrow because it goes on spikes. It compares your LH to the number you had the day before and if today jumps up then you get the positive. Even if you are still high tomorrow, you won't get a positive unless you are much higher then today. That is why they say not to test anymore after you get a positive.

Thank you KarenH, this makes so much more sense than what the ClearBlue people tried to explain when I asked last month. I really appreciate it!! CB figured it was a faulty test on Day 10 last month. My only question is why a peak on day 10, but chart shows o on day 16 after a high day 14 and another peak day 15? I want to test just once, but since I didn't o until 5 days later last month, it's just so strange? Seems like I'm gearing up to o, but it's delayed? And yes, like you said on Day 11 last month I got a -

Huge hugs and I'm going to venture over to your blog today!! Hope the first garage sale went well

 

[Nimyra]

KatS, I'm so sorry. How heartbreaking.


Lucy, I think your plan is a good one. BD today then wait for the next peak.

 

[bluestars]

Awww thank you Bluestars and best of luck TTC this month!! . I love the way you're doing it, it's how I conceived my son. After the missed MC, I felt like I had to know if I was ovulating and what my phase was, hence the charting and opk.....now I feel like I know, but my OB said keep going so I have a paper trail in case I don't get a BFP and need her help. Thanks again and huge hugs.

Good luck mrs! Got my fingers crossed for you xxx

 

[george83]

https://docs.google.com/file/d/0B9SCp0xGxPDNMjB3cFRKdmdQZWM/edit?usp=sharing

So... I think I see something... 12 DPO, NOT FMU.

Anyone see anything?

Slightly late reply but I definitely see something - fingers crossed!!

 

[Nimyra]

Still incredibly faint this morning. Barely there. I'm either 12 or 14dpo depending.

I think I'm losing my mind. Going to try to wait a few days before testing again.

 

[Kasey84]

Still incredibly faint this morning. Barely there. I'm either 12 or 14dpo depending.

I think I'm losing my mind. Going to try to wait a few days before testing again.

Fingers crossed! Sending lots of positive vibes your way

 

[LucyLake]

Still incredibly faint this morning. Barely there. I'm either 12 or 14dpo depending.

I think I'm losing my mind. Going to try to wait a few days before testing again.

Awwwwww congrats!!!!! . Wait until where I was at like 18 dpo and test again, it will darken. I know this is it for you...it's early days and those hgc levels will double!! Huge hugs and lots of love!!

Just saw your chart--triphasic and it tells the story!! . You could definitely get bloodwork done at your doctor, but you got this Nimyra!! Test on FRER only

 

[jessshakespea]

Ooh fingers crossed Nimyra!!

 

[george83]

Still incredibly faint this morning. Barely there. I'm either 12 or 14dpo depending.

I think I'm losing my mind. Going to try to wait a few days before testing again.

A faint positive is still a positive

 

[Nimyra]

CD 1 here. Guess that was a chemical pregnancy or a cyst.

 

[Kasey84]

I'm so sorry Nimyra

 

[LucyLake]

Nimyra, Thinking of you so much. I'm so sorry and hope it was a cyst. Biggest hugs ever. I will be home later

 

[nurseH]

Hi,
im just new to this site but love hearing other stories!
I got a BFP in march this year (first pregnancy) but went for a 12week scan in may and find out that our twins had already died. after a D&C we are ttc and in the horrible 2ww! Feeling rather frustrated waiting.....
Hopefully there are lots of 2014 rainbow babies!

 

[Nimyra]

Welcome NurseH. Sorry to hear about your little ones.

 

[bluestars]

Hi,
im just new to this site but love hearing other stories!
I got a BFP in march this year (first pregnancy) but went for a 12week scan in may and find out that our twins had already died. after a D&C we are ttc and in the horrible 2ww! Feeling rather frustrated waiting.....
Hopefully there are lots of 2014 rainbow babies!

Hey NurseH

So sorry for your loss! Hope you get your bfp soon ♡


Xxx

 

[x_WelshGirl_x]

Hi ladies can I join? I miscarried on Wednesday just gone at 11 weeks. Ideally I'd like to wait a cycle but if it happens it happens, I'm not going to prevent it.
I know I've only just lost my angel and still coming to terms with it but we don't really want to wait too long before having another baby.

 

[bluestars]

Hi ladies can I join? I miscarried on Wednesday just gone at 11 weeks. Ideally I'd like to wait a cycle but if it happens it happens, I'm not going to prevent it.
I know I've only just lost my angel and still coming to terms with it but we don't really want to wait too long before having another baby.

Welcome Welshgirl. So sorry you join us under these circumstances!
Hope you are ok. xxx

 

[x_WelshGirl_x]

Hi ladies can I join? I miscarried on Wednesday just gone at 11 weeks. Ideally I'd like to wait a cycle but if it happens it happens, I'm not going to prevent it.
I know I've only just lost my angel and still coming to terms with it but we don't really want to wait too long before having another baby.

Welcome Welshgirl. So sorry you join us under these circumstances!
Hope you are ok. xxx

Thank you for the welcome. I am ok thank you. I have my little man to keep me occupied.
I know it's the one thing I truly want is to be pregnant again and have my children close in age. It won't stop the hurt for losing this baby but id like to be pregnant by September.

 

[bluestars]

Hi ladies can I join? I miscarried on Wednesday just gone at 11 weeks. Ideally I'd like to wait a cycle but if it happens it happens, I'm not going to prevent it.
I know I've only just lost my angel and still coming to terms with it but we don't really want to wait too long before having another baby.

Welcome Welshgirl. So sorry you join us under these circumstances!
Hope you are ok. xxx

Thank you for the welcome. I am ok thank you. I have my little man to keep me occupied.
I know it's the one thing I truly want is to be pregnant again and have my children close in age. It won't stop the hurt for losing this baby but id like to be pregnant by September.

I totally get you. Its not wrong at all. I hope you get your little rainbow soon! Your little one is a little stunner xx

 

[Kasey84]

Welcome nurseh and welshgirl. Very sorry to hear of your losses

Sending lots of positive thoughts and baby dust your way. Hope you both get your rainbows soon. This forum has tons of wonderful, supportive ladies and I've found it so helpful in my ttcal journey.