5dpo, AF due 5/12, want to wait this out together? :)

[mac1979]

Dobby, every chart I looked at when I was pregnant said I was having a girl, my little boy turns 2 tomorrow.

 

[ms sunshine]

dobby sounds like you have a lovely weekend planned fingers crossed for you. hope you do what makes you happiest it is heartbreaking ttc if it taking ages. it took a year and 3 months to conceive probably longer but i had issues coming of bcp, i had one af and nothing for 3 months but we were still trying and thinking i was pg for 3 months and having loads of blood tests. but towards the end i just give up and thought i was going to have to be referred to specialist so it became ntnp and i think the stress of constantly testing and temping effected my fertility because i temped and did opks when i got my o cramps but that was it just didnt do hpts all the time. and the month i conceived i had given up was drinking eating junk food and bam pregnant. spent nearly 2 years eating healthy and no drink and the month i didnt, it worked. so i know the bfns are horrible but it will happen x

how long have you been off bcp flueky? whats wrong with his tution? hope it gets sorted for you guys. ugh better go 2 yr old strop attack he cant do the letter o

 

[mac1979]

I got red cross hairs on FF for the first time since TTC today!!!! Woohoo!!!!!

 

[Flueky88]

Sunsine. I been off for almost 3 months. I know it's my body adjusting, but very frustrating. His tuition has increased. All the new hugh school grads get to go to community college for free regardless of academic status. I do not agree with this at all. I think you should earn your scholarships. We already had the lottery/hope scholarship that was beneficial but you had to meet requirements. So now the students having to pay for their college are paying more!

 

[Flueky88]

Way to go mac!

 

[DobbyForever]

Yay mac!!!

Flueky, don't feel guilty. There is never a perfect time to have a baby. Something will always pop up and throw you for a loop. You just gave to dive right in and know that your love for that child will male things work.

Sunshine, thank you for the kind words. I'm nervous about getting on bcp again after what happened last time, but I'm only 26. If I hold off on ttc a couple years and it takes me a year, I'd be 29. Which is honestly when I first imagined myself having kids. I just achieved everything so much sooner than I anticipated that I wanted my baby now.

 

[Flueky88]

Thank you Dobby. I'm sorry about your change in plans. Any chance you guys could do a ntnp approach? 29 still isn't bad though. I'll be 28 unless it takes longer. I hope you have a great week

 

[ms sunshine]

yay good newS mac!

Flueky how annoying is that. hope it gets sorted some how. well i just hope your spotting is was late o and its implanted, fingers crossed!

Yeah dobby all you can do is do what makes you happy

 

[Flueky88]

Sunshine, yeah it's frustrating. DH worries more about money than me. It'll pay off when he's done with college. I hope that's what it was. Even if I don't get a bfp this cycle. I want my body back on track. I'm trying not to stress so it won't delay it even longer. Any symptoms for you?

 

[ms sunshine]

dunno not sure. im 19 dpo still high temps. i keep getting twinges at the top of my belly and sides, currently got twinges at bottom of my belly. so dont know what to think. the stretchy acheyness didnt start until about 6 or 7 weeks last time i think so dont know if its a bad sign or not. other than that not much else. im a week late as i o'd about a week early but if i hadnt o'd when i did today is the day i would have been due on so happy i made it this far. last cycle i made it to cd 35 before i started spotting, so 3 days to go and i might test this sat if no problems, or i might chicken out until the week after lol

 

[Flueky88]

So exciting I hope this is it for you sunshine. I will anxiously wait your test this week or next lol

 

[ms sunshine]

Got feeling im out. Woke up noticed boobs stopped aching so was a bit thinking thats a bad sign when you loose a symptom. Then chronic back ache took pain killers heat pads pains now bareable but had a string of blood in cm so expecting af. So its sad but always next cycle. Roll on friday so i can get the wine in

 

[Flueky88]

Sunshine. I'm sorry to hear that.

 

[ms sunshine]

Aw thanks. Nothing else has happened so will know in the morning. But it will happen im not down or anything just dont want to stress myself out over it. Any other symptoms or anything for you?

 

[Flueky88]

Not really. I had a backache last night it was hard to fall asleep. I'm pretty sure it was from me working the 3-11 shift yesterday and I drove a LOT! Also, it hailed on me while driving. I took Tylenol for my back last night and haven't had pain today. I'm just trying not to stress

 

[ms sunshine]

Yeah same here had back ache yesterday was killing me today nothing. Guess will find out whats happening soon enough

 

[mac1979]

My temp went up today, don't know how accurate it is though. We were woken up by our dog at 2 am, evidently a hose had burst in the downstairs bathroom and water was going everywhere. I could just imagine what would have happened of it had run all night. We got back to bed around 3:30 since my husband had to make a Wal Mart trip to get a hose. Anyway, the toddler woke me up around 6 when I took my temp. Also, the ceiling fan was off last night, so I roasted.

 

[ms sunshine]

it should be ok i think if you dont get enough sleep it goes colder than hotter or at least it does for me... you really didnt have good night mac least your dog alerted you mine would have just played in it.

 

[Flueky88]

Goodness, what a night mac! I'm glad the dog alerted you before it caused a ton of damage. Hope you ladies are doing well today.

I got my wondfo opks and the hpts they threw in there today. I tested for fun when I got home. It wasn't positive but I did have a line on it. I'm thinking I may test when I get home in the late afternoon. I'm in and out of people's home so I can't do midmorning or noon.

 

[SilasLove]

On the hpt flueky?!?