Hi ladies, have been reading the thread about feeding tonight as I was up early this am with Ajay. It seems like we all have some really similar questions about feeding which reassures me as a paranoid first timer!
Ajay is 5 days old now and we started off FF as well as BF and hand expressing/then pumping as he wouldnt latch on apparently I have flat nipples (sorry for TMI). So we have slowly tried to remove the FF and I always have at least one expressed bottle in the fridge for emergencies. But I had some questions
. Can you help me?!
We have to wake him for feeds every three hours, the MWs told us to, but for probably the last 24 hours we have woken him every time. Should we let him sleep for longer? Im finding it takes me time to wake him then he never latches properly as he is tired and groggy.
As an example, he has literally just dropped off to sleep but is due another feed in the 3 hour cycle a 10 am - I hate waking him knowing that he has fed off and on for 2 hours and then gets woken again!
Also, I am so worried that he isnt getting enough. This am I woke him at 7.30 for a feed and he has literally been on and off the breast since then falling asleep, then he wakes and I try again, asleep etc. Finally he has seemed to fall back asleep now. He is poo'ing and wee'ing well though and seems content enough most of the time.
I can express about 25 mls at a time in 20 minutes Clare I saw that you expresss 3 ozs which is about 3 times what Im doing
. So Im worried about my supply really although the MW said that was a good amount.
Anna - Im trying to what Linds suggested too keep him on the breast until he has enough although Im in pain with the latching (need to get that looked into as I dont think he is latching properly) but its tough. I think my problem is differet as he falls asleep at the breast and then never comes off! I have to unlatch him after waking him to keep going tonnes of times.
Doods I too have 2 stone to lose. I only lost about 7 kgs from labour (was vainly disappointed) so have about 2 stone left. Weirdly because its so busy Im literally eating whatever is in front of me, I dont care. But my tummy is about 4 months pregnant still.
Re pumping what pump do people use and how long does it take you to get to 3 ozs?
Clare so sorry youre having a bad night. Hope things are better this morning?
Any advice you ladies could give me would be hugely appreciated.
ps: also the umbilical cord stump fell off today when I was doing a nappy change. It scared the life out of me - I was so worried Id hurt my little man.
We have the 5 day check up today for his weight etc so I hope that goes ok. So worried he will have lost too much.... Oh I'm a paranoid wreck!