=/ This month isn't going too well.
Last month my DH wanted and could do it every day, sometimes twice a day. Now I'm looking at every other day, and when we do BD (the last two times we tried) he hasn't been able to finish. This never happened, and we're being very laid back about this, so he isn't pressured. He has no idea, he just gets so worn out and his muscles hurt too much to finish. He works a very demanding factory job that really wears him out, but he's usually able to still do it at least once a day. He hasn't done anything different, so I don't know why suddenly now it takes him longer and his body runs out.
The first time it happened I didn't mind - I was only CD 8 and I was even on top. This time I'm CD 10, and I'm getting worried. I have a lot of CM and thinking I'm entering O. I'm nervous that we're going to miss our chance!
I'm really wanting this month to be the one - or at least give it the best try. I've been holding my nose and chugging grapefruit juice (which I hate!) and a bunch of other stuff to make my body "baby ready". But it seems to be going to waste, if the sperm isn't going anywhere.
Sorry, bit of a rant, but it just happened again and it left me feeling down. We talked about it and he said it's not that he can't in "that" way, just that his body is worn and it's hard to keep going. I don't know how to help him keep going so we can both get what we want.
I really wanted an October BFP, and with the way it's going, there's going to be zero chance of that.