cdj1
Mummy to 2 princes
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Thanks for the warm welcome ladies!
Question: When you get those nagging "O" pains (if you get them) does that mean you are Oing or are about to O? I get them every month and I have this same question every month. DH and I BD on friday and saturday, but last night he couldnt perform. This happens sometimes as he has erectile issues but Im wondering if me telling him that I have those "O" pains subconsciously bothered him?
Also I know semen lasts 2-3 days in fertile cm, but why do I feel like if i dont do it right on O day that I wont get BFP? Anyone get BFP just doing it once or twice around O?
Thanks ladies and sorry for all the questions!
Hi Mrs Brown!!!!
For me, the O pains came before O happened, but I never really knew I was OV-ing until I started charting temps...I realised I was almost 4 days out!!! No wonder I never got pregnant!!!
Men can be very sensitive when we put pressure on them...I know that my OH backed off when I told him we "should try for a baby"....we got pregnant after I let the subject drop and he relaxed so much that the week we conceived we had more sex than we had had in ages!!! true!!!
I only BD 3 days before OV day and also actually on OV day and according to Fertility Friend we conceived during the BD 3 days before OV!!!!!!!
I hope that helps!!!! Lots of dust xxxxx