January 2020 Garnets!!!

Discussion in 'Pregnancy Groups & Discussions' started by co_fostermom, May 14, 2019.

  1. GemmaG

    GemmaG Well-Known Member

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    Cofostermom I’m so so sorry and all my thoughts are with you and your husband this morning. Life can be so very cruel.

    A DnC isn’t too bad at all, I’m not sure if they do it the same way were you are but I got started with a pessary to open the cervix for the procedure that can be a bit uncomfortable so make sure to ask for pain relief if you need it. After that it’s pretty straight forward. I really wish you all the best moving forward and I know how difficult this path is. Please know if there is anything you ever need even just to talk I’m here x
     
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  2. Yellowmoon

    Yellowmoon Well-Known Member

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    So sorry to hear your news cofostermom. A d&c sounds like a good choice. I'm wishing you all the best for the future too, I hope your rainbow will be here soon. Thank you for sharing your positivity with us and for being so kind to everyone, you are an amazing lady. I will keep you in my prayers xxxx
     
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  3. Fit_Mama2Be

    Fit_Mama2Be Well-Known Member

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    I am so sorry co_fostermom. You are such a kind, uplifting person and you will be very missed around here.

    I have had two d&c's, one where I was put under and one where I was conscious but sedated and both were painless.
     
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  4. MommyPrice

    MommyPrice Well-Known Member

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    I'm so sorry foster It's simply not fair. Please take some time for you and your husband to recover. I'll be praying for your little girl.
     
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  5. Literati_Love

    Literati_Love Well-Known Member

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    Co foster mom - I am so very for your loss and that you didn’t get the outcome you wanted. My thoughts and prayers will be with you over these next couple weeks. The D & C does sound like a good choice, and I’m glad you’ll have a few days off to recover after. All the best in the future. I understand needing a break from TTC for now. I know how hard you worked to get pregnant in the first place. You truly deserve a happy & healthy pregnancy so much. I wish you all the best in the future, and hope you get a rainbow baby very soon after you have grieved and healed. Lots of hugs. Thanks for all your support on this thread, and let us know how you’re doing in a few months if you’re up to it!
     
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  6. robo123

    robo123 Well-Known Member

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    So sorry co foster mom, your positivity and strength has been amazing. Take time for you. Xxx
     
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    goingforit Well-Known Member

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    Sending you huge hugs and the strength to deal with this. So sorry for your loss. You've been so uplifting and positive and are an amazing woman. Xx
     
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  8. Serenyx

    Serenyx Mummy to an angel

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    So sorry to hear this co_fostermom x Take all the time you need and I am sure you will have your rainbow soon x
     
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  9. ashley2pink

    ashley2pink Mom to 3 girls

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    I’m so sorry CoFosterMom. It’s seriously so unfair. I pray your rainbow baby comes fast
     
  10. co_fostermom

    co_fostermom Mom to 2 Angel Babies

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    Hey all...I just wanted to say my D&C went really well. I didn't realize how much pain I actually was in until the pregnancy was removed. I'm recovering well. DH said I looked like a huge weight had been lifted.

    And then at the end of the day, yesterday of all days, a rainbow showed up right outside our living room window. It's been nearly a year since I've seen a rainbow, so I don't believe for a second this was just a coincidence.

    Thank you everyone so much for all your support the past few weeks. I'm glad you started a new thread and I hope you all have happy and healthy pregnancies! Maybe I'll check into that thread closer to January to see how you all are doing.

     
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  11. Fit_Mama2Be

    Fit_Mama2Be Well-Known Member

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    Glad to hear you are feeling better after your d&c co_fostermom.


    And that is a beautiful rainbow, such a beautiful sign of what is hopefully to come very soon for you!!


    After I lost our first baby at 16 weeks I was devastated and it was definitely the darkest time in my life. About a month later, when I was still waiting to stop spotting so we could try again, this incredible rainbow appeared outside our office window. It was the craziest thing I’ve ever seen – normally rainbows are off in the horizon, but this one was right downtown, smack between the highrise I work in and the highrise across the street. It was absolutely breathtaking and the photo really doesn’t do it justice! One month later I got pregnant with my rainbow DS, so I absolutely believe in signs like that.

     

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