Hahah Red. Whatever works. You shouldn't be jealous. I wouldnt normally be like this. I wasnt with the other 3. I really think it's from the cancer last year. Its control and comfort. Yes! I dont know your rules over the pond but educate yourself. I didnt know until dd2 in 2007 that I had choices medically. I didnt have to do everything the OB, hospital or pediatrician said without question.