Ashley sorry to hear Violet's birth wasn't a good one. I hope that you are all now having wuality bonding time. FitMama awwww congratulations he is perfect and I love the name. Hope you are feeling okay after the section. Literati it's a great idea having the party earlier and hopefully it won't be too stressful for you. Very annoying about your husband and his work...men can be so set in their thinking...my husband would be the same. Fx nothing happens whilst he is away. Is there a back up birthing partner if needed? I have my pre section appointment this morning 3 more sleeps. Thought I'd post a bump photo. I am already measuring at 40 weeks but this was taken yesterday at 38+3. Excuse my pyjamas I am struggling to find comfort in even my maternity clothes.