January Jelly Belly's testing thread TTCAL 24% BFP's!

[bluesky]

Oh Tiger looking forward to hearing your symptoms.

Congrats again Bluey so pleased for you.

AFM we BD last night and I have some spotting again, def something not right in there anyway I have my appointment with the Gynae doc in 2 weeks so not long to wait. aghhhhhhhh

Went to the cinema today to see Little fockers which was very funny and I recommend it for a bit of light hearted relief from it all.

 

[Tigerlilies]

Bluesky, I hope nothing is wrong. Man two weeks, you're more positive than me, I'd be freaked out and demand an apt next week. LOL I guess that's my type A personality for ya!

 

[kelster823]

hey hey hey

Blue I hope you get answers sweetie

Tiger WHOOPIE 2WW.... I THINK I may be right behind you by Sunday-- LEAST I CAN HOPE.............

to all the other ladies

 

[Tigerlilies]

That would be awesome!!! Mega for this weekend!

 

[kelster823]

if I did..... I O'd yesterday and I missed Wed and Thurs but gonna get some tonight

 

[Tigerlilies]

 

[bluesky]

Tiger ive been waiting for weeks for this appointment already I have a polyp so they are going to do surgery at some point but gotta have a consultation first. In the meantime im still trying and hoping to get my BFP before the op. I have got the patience of a saint.

Just a thought, could I have low progesterone, I spot in between periods, I spot 2 days before a flow starts. I am going to mention this. AGGHHHHHHH How come my body got pregnant so friggin fast the first time.


Kels have a good

 

[bluesky]

P.S got my little bro staying this weekend so bit worried about with him in the house

 

[cla]

Oh blue sending you loads of hugs Hun

 

[bluesky]

Oh blue sending you loads of hugs Hun

Thanks lovely, Im ok just get a wave of frustration every now and then!!!

 

[cla]

Advise put a pillow behide the head board lol

 

[Chilli]

Ok, please excuse me girls, I've been trying to stop myself but I am now going for a full on vent of rage!

After most recent MMC had to wait 6 weeks for follow up appt to see RMC specialist. No sooner as wanted results from baby (I think thye were convinced would be chromonsonal as previous was) I begged to be referred and put on any waiting lists and was told no way til had results. So at appt am told that all they can offer is hysteroscopy and... you guessed it there was a wait. I broke down and said I couldn't wait and he assured me he would arrange appt for 1st 2 weeks of cycle so wouldn't interfere with TTC. Got the date through 2 1/2 weeks ago and was in week 3 (and in March!)!!! He had my dates damn it! Have been trying to change ever since and calling every other day and NOONE ever picks up the phone so have left copious messages that nobody responds to. Have also tried many other different avenues ie calling other departments.... NOTHiNG! Well today I finally got called back - now word of an apology! Refused to listen to the point I was trying to make about loosing a month TTC and just kept repeating "we ask couples to ensure they use contraception from their last period". Eventually I got to the point where it was obvious that she didn't give a **** about my situation and had absolutely no appreciation of how I'm feeling so I gave up! Meanwhile I have been talking to my local hospital about the possibilities of having the procedure done there earlier...after many unanswered calls eventually got to speak to Dr who siad he'd organise... heard nothing for 10 days, called again only to be told that he's on hols and no-one can even tell me if he's put me on the waiting list!!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!

Isn't it all bad enough for us as it is, does the health service really have to make it all more difficult? I have been to the docs 2 times this year as the stress is really affecting my well-being and they still make it worse! What is wrong with these people that means they can't do their jobs in a sensitive manner that reassures a woman in our situation. I feel like I've had to fight all the way and wonder if the stress of it is actually part of the cause of the problem. My last baby dies the same week that I spent hours on the phone trying to sort out a reassunrance scan and it wasn't until a lovely nurse took pity on me as I sobbed down the phone to her that I finally got a scan sorted. Should I just give up on all the medical side as it hasn't got me far so far and may actually be detrimental!

Thanks if you've read til the end, sorry for the HUGE rant, but I know you girls understand

 

[Tigerlilies]

I'm so sorry Chilli, that is so frustrating! I can't stand how insensitive these healthcare workers in such a delicate field can be, I get they have hundreds of patients but don't they get what we've been through or are going through!

I hope everything works out for you And you don't have to wait another 2wks to get this apt. Do try to get some down time though, stress can absolutely affect us from getting PG and staying PG.

 

[Tigerlilies]

Tiger ive been waiting for weeks for this appointment already I have a polyp so they are going to do surgery at some point but gotta have a consultation first. In the meantime im still trying and hoping to get my BFP before the op. I have got the patience of a saint.

Just a thought, could I have low progesterone, I spot in between periods, I spot 2 days before a flow starts. I am going to mention this. AGGHHHHHHH How come my body got pregnant so friggin fast the first time.


Kels have a good

I hate waiting on things like that! If you're going for it, good luck, but if this just isn't the month, I hope you can get that sucker out ASAP!

P.S got my little bro staying this weekend so bit worried about with him in the house

Good luck!

 

[bluesky]

Advise put a pillow behide the head board lol

Ha ha, everything vibrates in the house when we BD


Rant away Chilli, i totally understand how you feel about the Health Service, I had no end of trouble after mmc, took them 3 mths to decide that I needed a DnC for retained tissue then with waiting for my polyp removal I cant even go to my usual hospital I have to go to one further away and I had to wait 8 weeks just to get my consultation so god knows when I will be scheduled for the hysteroscopy. They have no urgency, they do not understand that the we need our issues resolving quickly so we can get on with having a baby.

Now ive had a good old rant...........

 

[shelleney]

Sorry Chilli. I really feel for you Hun.
Hope you get everything sorted soon. And feel free to rant all you want, we are here to listen
xx

 

[neffie]

So sorry Chilli. You're so right about the attitude some...uhhhh actually no MOST of these people who are in the so called 'service' industry have. They could really care less. It's a shame. Hope things work out for you soon, and you don't have to wait too much longer for that next appointment.

blue. It would be so nice to shove one in their face if you got your by the time you go in for your op. Go ahead chick, start the much awaited BFP trend on this thread.

 

[mpepe32]

chilli, vent away!

blue - hope you get some answers soon!

kel- try to keep it G rated LOL

to everyone I'm missing

 

[grandbleu]

Chilli - so sorry for your bad experience.

AFM: AF got me ...I knew she was coming by my temp drop yesterday so I already had my cry and mourned a little. On to February Love Hearts (just an idea) testing thread when it comes

 

[bluesky]

Oh Grand, sorry she came along

hope everyone is having a good weekend x