January Jelly Belly's testing thread TTCAL 24% BFP's!

[cla]

Congrats try xx

 

[neffie]

Morning Ladies

Congrats on the job try!! That's great news.

kizzyt, congrats on the birth of your niece. I'm sure you can't wait to see her.

cla, sorry I can't help with the aspirin question. I'm sure you'll get some input from the other ladies though.

As for me, I'm officially in the 2WW, as I O'd yesterday. I'm excited, but also a little bummed at the timing, as we couldn't the last 2 days. Oh well, we'll see....Try, can you move my testing date to the 18th please? I will do my best to hold out until then.

 

[grandbleu]

Hi ladies -

Chilli - sorry we lost you there...we have indeed been moved (a bunch of threads). If you go to the "quick links" drop down menu on the upper right hand side and go down to "subscribed threads" then you will see all your threads that you have responded to and the latest ones that have new posts...that way you won't lose us again. As for acupuncture - never done it but my sister did and thinks it helped...she did that and went to a naturopath to get her body back into fertility shape. Enjoy your coffee... LOL!

Cla - never tried aspirin myself...but I have definitely heard of it. I would try posting a question in the TTCAL forum or googling info about it...I don't know the right dosage but I have heard baby aspirin so maybe whatever that is is the right dosage a day.

Tiger - O day! Hope you are

Kizzy - Oh congratulations my niece was born only a month ago! We have to make a pact to make cousins for them in the same year. I like the name a lot.

Kels - glad you're doing well...hope O comes soon for you.

Neffie - excellent you Oed!!! 1-2 days before your O day is fine if conditions are optimal (we didn't BD O day either so you're not the only one!)

Try - Excellent job - that's really exciting! I think getting your mind off TTC and just being busy might be the secret for a successful BFP

Hi to everyone :wave:

 

[Tigerlilies]

Afternoon ladies how are you all doing xxx
I was wondering if anybody knows anything about taking aspirin to prevent mc, the dose I have got is 300mg xxx

11:16 here, I still get to write good morning! Low dose aspirin is beneficial to thin the blood which will allow more blood to get to the uterus and supply the baby. I don't even have a blood clotting disorder, have hereditary anemia and the specialist still said it's a good idea to be on the low dose aspirin (81mg). You absolutely don't want to do more than that though b.c the higher dose aspirin can actually cause MC! I do 81mg every night with my night vitamins so I don't forget to take it.

https://www.medscape.com/viewarticle/714206

 

[shelleney]

Hi everyone

Congratulations on your new job, Try! But sorry you dont think you will get to test again this month. Good luck for February though!

Congratulations on your new niece, Kizzy! I love the name Freya, its on my list! Hope you can give her a cousin too.

Hi to everyone else
xx

 

[mpepe32]

to all of you

Congrats try on the new job!!!!!

 

[tryforbaby2]

Today is so frickin hard for me. I was on the phone paying on my miscarriage bills and my brother in law called during the mc call to say my neice was born 7lbs 7 oz 19" long.......I said congratulations I'll call soon but I am on the other line paying on my miscarriage bills......how rude was I?! Totally rude.
I clicked over to the hospital where I had my mc and my d&c and contined to make a payment. I told the guy sorry for clicking over but my sister just had her baby, we were due together.....he said 'congratulations' I said 'thank you' finished the payment and got off the phone and just started crying my eyes out......so not fair....she didnt want it I wanted mine......my baby would be due......

I just feel like shit

 

[grandbleu]

Try So sorry hon...you will get your chance. I know it!

PS. My Xmas present to myself was paying off my ER bill...lovely present

 

[neffie]

Oh Try, so sorry! Hang in there...it will happen for you soon. You WILL have your own little bundle of joy, and it will be your sister's turn to be an aunt.

 

[mpepe32]

ohhhhh try - I know how unfair it is.... Just got a late christmas card from friends that were in our wedding party and of course the pic is of the kids.....I'm so bitter and can't stand seeing everyone's kids. I've been in a huge fight with dh for 3 days now and don't even know if I want to continue with this shit anymore. I understand how hard it is to try to be happy for someone else.

 

[bluesky]

Try my love, its soooooo hard.

 

[tryforbaby2]

Thanks Girls! I need you all right now. I am a mess. My sister has my nephew January 6th last year, and now my neice January 5th of this year. 2 Babies in less than one year.....literally. I have been trying for 19 months actively after 4 years of not trying not preventing......I am hoping when I do et pregnant I can have another right after too, to get the family I wish for!


We will all get there.....its just a long ass ride to arrive there in one piece.....blah......


I havent cried this hard since I was told the baby's heart stopped beating.....

 

[tryforbaby2]

mpepe, I feel ya. I havent been fighting with dh but I get so sick of this shit......grrr....hope everything pans out for you and you guys make up and smooch!

 

[Chilli]

Well done Try on getting the job - hope it helps you get your BFP or at least takes your mind of it a bit.

Congrats Kiz, enjoy being an auntie until you're too busy being a Mum!

Cla - I was perscribed aspirin after my 2nd MC as I had testing which showed that I have very slightly sticky blood. My Mum discovered she has it too and has also been perscribed although not for pg obviously. I'm supposed to take 150mg once I get + test, which I did last time... but made no difference!

 

[Chilli]

Big hugs after your difficult day Try - that's what we're here for

mpepe - me and OH don't know whether we're splitting up or TTC most of the time - hormones, depression, grief, disappointmnet - messes with your mind!

 

[shelleney]

Oh Try. Im so sorry
I wouldve been due any day now too. Its so hard thinking "i should be 38 weeks now" or "i shouldnt be at work, i should be on maternity leave". You keep thinking back to how your life would be panning out, if you hadnt lost the baby.
I know how you feel, and Im here if you need to talk
xx

 

[tryforbaby2]

Thank You so so so so much ladies! You girls have no idea how much it means to me to have you here to vent to. I just want to forget about ttc and just get pregnant.....

Why is it so hard? What do we need to do to get pregnant? Is relaxation really key?

Thanks girls!

 

[mpepe32]

Thanks girls, I think the fight is a combo of PMS and the stress of TTC AND HIS STUPIDITY. The other night we were on the couch talking about things and he mentioned he had to go away for work. I said, when and it better not be when I have to get my endo biopsy done. Turns out it will not be at that time actually the week before but he went on how it's his presentation and he needs to be there. He asked why my mom can't take me. REALLY HOLY SHIT I SNAPPED and I think my head spun around a couple of times. First my mom has a lot of health issues and doesn't know how she feels on a daily basis and SECOND, I do all the crap around the TTC, temping, OPK's, doctor appointments etc and you would even contemplate not taking me. He told me it's 'just a biospy, not surgery' OMG let's stick a catheter up his penis and take tissue and him tell me, it's just a biopsy. Even though he's apologized and said he would never let me down or go alone, I'm still really really angry and haven't been taking my temp to I guess prove a point. When I was practicing law, if something major came up, matters could be adjourned etc and he's trying to tell me he can't make it because of work and now his job is more important! Sorry but I could go on another couple of pages and still would not be done venting. Thanks for letting be spew....

 

[tryforbaby2]

Vent all you want mpepe. We are here for that, especially when no one else, outside ttc, understands

Most men get away with ttc things scott free, while we have to do the work. We cry when af shows, we temp, chart, and all they do is deposit their and doing that is sometimes a hassle. Blah.......



Here for you!

 

[cla]

Are you feeling better today Hun xx