Dawnyybus
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Haven't been on for a few days as I've had a lot on and went away at the weekend. Sorry for the very long weird post but just wanted to say how I'm feeling etc. I don't have anyone else to talk to.
I've been told I'm suffering ante-natal depression, I have suffered stress, depression and anxiety but didn't expect to suffer it through pregnancy, all I've ever wanted is a baby and to be a lil house wife... They expect it will turn into post-natal depression, which I keep having dreams and visions about, that I'm just sat there in a trance when my mum and boyfriend care for the baby... I have an appointment with some mental health people who work with midwives or something along those lines tomorrow but I've seen counsellor's before and they don't really do a lot....
I went back to work last Wednesday after having 3 weeks off I was only there Wednesday, Thursday and Friday, no one spoke to me and it was horrible. Ever since I said I was pregnant they have turned funny and it's been unbearable.
It came to a head on Sunday when I was away and my mum was going home I had a massive panic attack about going into work on Monday, she kept trying to calm me down and phoned my boyfriend and after an hour I was calmed then she left and I went back in to see my dad and had another panic attack with some friends... My boyfriend came back later and I had another attack when I saw him and on the journey home. Even though my mum and Tom had said I dint need to go to work and he would take me doctors in the morning. It was so horrid and scary I couldn't breathe or anything...
We went to the doctors on Monday and they said I need to leave, she did me a sick note for two weeks while we sorted things. We wrote and posted my resignation yesterday and I do feel slightly better but now I'm a bit worried about the money aspect of things...
I'm going on the hunt for some part time work today and to the job centre to understand what I'm entitled to...
I have my scan in a week and a half and I'm getting nervous as to if everything is okiee and how I will react if baby is a boy... I feel such a terrible person...
I think on a good note my sickness is passing. Although somedays I am hungry and eat fine or lots and the next day I won't eat anything... I'm really struggling to understand my body changing at the moment...
I hope everyone else is okiee and that morning sickness is starting to pass and that you can find some energy to do the chores, I'm struggling with that but I have to stay focused and congratulations on everyone having there scans.
Sorry for the long random post, I hope I don't offend or upset anyone, but I don't have anyone else I can speak with and just needed to say it all.
Xxxxxxx
I've been told I'm suffering ante-natal depression, I have suffered stress, depression and anxiety but didn't expect to suffer it through pregnancy, all I've ever wanted is a baby and to be a lil house wife... They expect it will turn into post-natal depression, which I keep having dreams and visions about, that I'm just sat there in a trance when my mum and boyfriend care for the baby... I have an appointment with some mental health people who work with midwives or something along those lines tomorrow but I've seen counsellor's before and they don't really do a lot....
I went back to work last Wednesday after having 3 weeks off I was only there Wednesday, Thursday and Friday, no one spoke to me and it was horrible. Ever since I said I was pregnant they have turned funny and it's been unbearable.
It came to a head on Sunday when I was away and my mum was going home I had a massive panic attack about going into work on Monday, she kept trying to calm me down and phoned my boyfriend and after an hour I was calmed then she left and I went back in to see my dad and had another panic attack with some friends... My boyfriend came back later and I had another attack when I saw him and on the journey home. Even though my mum and Tom had said I dint need to go to work and he would take me doctors in the morning. It was so horrid and scary I couldn't breathe or anything...
We went to the doctors on Monday and they said I need to leave, she did me a sick note for two weeks while we sorted things. We wrote and posted my resignation yesterday and I do feel slightly better but now I'm a bit worried about the money aspect of things...
I'm going on the hunt for some part time work today and to the job centre to understand what I'm entitled to...
I have my scan in a week and a half and I'm getting nervous as to if everything is okiee and how I will react if baby is a boy... I feel such a terrible person...
I think on a good note my sickness is passing. Although somedays I am hungry and eat fine or lots and the next day I won't eat anything... I'm really struggling to understand my body changing at the moment...
I hope everyone else is okiee and that morning sickness is starting to pass and that you can find some energy to do the chores, I'm struggling with that but I have to stay focused and congratulations on everyone having there scans.
Sorry for the long random post, I hope I don't offend or upset anyone, but I don't have anyone else I can speak with and just needed to say it all.
Xxxxxxx